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What's everyone else's take on Guys with single profiles who are married and think it's OK.
Been frustrating us alot recently, were not here to get in the middle of a guy (or girl) cheating on there other half.
Just wondered what everyone else's view was |
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It does work both ways, there’s lots of married women that state their partners don’t know they are in there etc. Either way, if you know that’s not what you want, don’t go there. Cheating isn’t right and I wouldn’t wish to be a part of it. I met a few women last years on socials and they admitted they were taken, it went no further than a coffee. Not into being named on someone’s divorce papers or having my nose broken by an angry husband. But others won’t care as it’s not them doing the cheating; all depends on how your conscience views it. |
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Whats worse is if you meet them on a number of occasions at parties, clubs, and social events, to the point where you both become friendly and comfortable with them, in our case to the point where we were comfortable enough to trust him to take Jayne to a room unaccompanied for fun, only to then find it was all a sham.
It leaves a very sour taste, and makes it doubly difficult for us to trust other guys afterwards. |
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"Quite a few women on here also cheating it would appear from some profiles  "
Quite agree it's not just a male trait. We won't play with ladies or guys who are cheating. No matter the sex cheating is cheating and you are a twat for doing it. |
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"Whats worse is if you meet them on a number of occasions at parties, clubs, and social events, to the point where you both become friendly and comfortable with them, in our case to the point where we were comfortable enough to trust him to take Jayne to a room unaccompanied for fun, only to then find it was all a sham.
It leaves a very sour taste, and makes it doubly difficult for us to trust other guys afterwards."
Thats even worse, at least on fab you can spot them, but to have someone do that, hope you told his wife |
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"Qe won't meet cheaters. It's easy to spot them now really. We have both been cheated on by previous partners so no way in hell are we knowingly meeting cheats."
We won't either, if a guy or girl says they have permission we tell them to get their other half to prove it. Not here to be home wreckers. Seems to be getting g more common though |
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"Qe won't meet cheaters. It's easy to spot them now really. We have both been cheated on by previous partners so no way in hell are we knowingly meeting cheats.
We won't either, if a guy or girl says they have permission we tell them to get their other half to prove it. Not here to be home wreckers. Seems to be getting g more common though"
Lots of cheaters of both sexes on fab these days. |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs! "
I wouldnt say that is what swinging is, that just us8ng it as a hook up sysyem, and not what swinging is to most. People look for friends and generally want regulars to play with. Fab for swinging, tinder for hookups |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs! "
This is a good reply as let's us know who to block. |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
I wouldnt say that is what swinging is, that just us8ng it as a hook up sysyem, and not what swinging is to most. People look for friends and generally want regulars to play with. Fab for swinging, tinder for hookups"
Exactly this  |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
This is a good reply as let's us know who to block."
Says more about you than it does about me |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
This is a good reply as let's us know who to block.
Says more about you than it does about me "
No it tells everyone here what your values are and why to mark and avoid |
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By *arrapsMan 37 weeks ago
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It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ???? |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????"
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
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By *arrapsMan 37 weeks ago
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
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Yes, we have had that conversation and as I mentioned as long as love is not involved and I am discreet she is ok with my occasional meetings
It’s not ideal, but that’s what it is. |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
Yes, we have had that conversation and as I mentioned as long as love is not involved and I am discreet she is ok with my occasional meetings
It’s not ideal, but that’s what it is."
So that's fine and in line with what the majority have posted, it's the people who are just cheating that we are talking about |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
This is a good reply as let's us know who to block.
Says more about you than it does about me "
Not really as if people have no moral compass there is no way they are our type to play with. |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????"
I ave been in you situation twice with ex wives and not once did I cheat or fuck anyone else. I just ended the relationship as it was draining emotionally. As for making love to others that is not what is swingers do. We fuck with them yes but making love I reserve for my Mrs who I love and not someone we meet for sex. |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
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Car we don't meet those with permission even. We play with singles and cpls only. Not worth the hassle of it all goes it's up later on if the wife changed her mind and blows it with you for fucking her Mr or the other way around also. |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
Yes, we have had that conversation and as I mentioned as long as love is not involved and I am discreet she is ok with my occasional meetings
It’s not ideal, but that’s what it is."
But you mention making love. You don't make love with others you just have sex. |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????"
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm... |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
Car we don't meet those with permission even. We play with singles and cpls only. Not worth the hassle of it all goes it's up later on if the wife changed her mind and blows it with you for fucking her Mr or the other way around also."
Thats a good point, we'd only be ok in that situation if we had spoken to the other half in question and ensured they were completely fine. But yes there could still be hassle |
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By *arrapsMan 37 weeks ago
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
Car we don't meet those with permission even. We play with singles and cpls only. Not worth the hassle of it all goes it's up later on if the wife changed her mind and blows it with you for fucking her Mr or the other way around also.
Thats a good point, we'd only be ok in that situation if we had spoken to the other half in question and ensured they were completely fine. But yes there could still be hassle"
As I mentioned, my wife does not want to know if and when I meet someone,if you were to contact her it would force her to confront her decision to not have sex |
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By *arrapsMan 37 weeks ago
port talbot |
"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm..."
Catch 22, is one mutually exclusive to the other.
Life can and does fu*k everything up, just when you thought everything was going nicely shit happens |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm..."
My point exactly. |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm...
Catch 22, is one mutually exclusive to the other.
Life can and does fu*k everything up, just when you thought everything was going nicely shit happens "
Id say yes you make love to someone you are in love with. Otherwise you are just fucking someone |
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By *arrapsMan 37 weeks ago
port talbot |
"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm...
Catch 22, is one mutually exclusive to the other.
Life can and does fu*k everything up, just when you thought everything was going nicely shit happens
Id say yes you make love to someone you are in love with. Otherwise you are just fucking someone "
I thought that the act of intercourse was making love, fucking is what animals do !!
Now that you have blocked me we’ll never know,
Good luck on fab, and I sincerely hope that you never find yourself in my position.
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm...
Catch 22, is one mutually exclusive to the other.
Life can and does fu*k everything up, just when you thought everything was going nicely shit happens
Id say yes you make love to someone you are in love with. Otherwise you are just fucking someone
I thought that the act of intercourse was making love, fucking is what animals do !!
Now that you have blocked me we’ll never know,
Good luck on fab, and I sincerely hope that you never find yourself in my position.
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As I said earlier I have twice in to fucked up marriages sexwise. I did not cheat or fuck anyone else. I ended the relationships and moved on. So I have been there. By the way you make love to someone you are in love with. You have sex as a swinger not make love! |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm...
Catch 22, is one mutually exclusive to the other.
Life can and does fu*k everything up, just when you thought everything was going nicely shit happens
Id say yes you make love to someone you are in love with. Otherwise you are just fucking someone
I thought that the act of intercourse was making love, fucking is what animals do !!
Now that you have blocked me we’ll never know,
Good luck on fab, and I sincerely hope that you never find yourself in my position.
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I haven't blocked you.
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm...
Catch 22, is one mutually exclusive to the other.
Life can and does fu*k everything up, just when you thought everything was going nicely shit happens
Id say yes you make love to someone you are in love with. Otherwise you are just fucking someone
I thought that the act of intercourse was making love, fucking is what animals do !!
Now that you have blocked me we’ll never know,
Good luck on fab, and I sincerely hope that you never find yourself in my position.
I haven't blocked you.
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He is on about us lovely.we blocked him. |
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
Have you spoken to your wife and sought approval for extra marital sex? If so and she has said yes then thats OK in our book. If no and your just cheating which will lead to heart ache for her then no, we wouldn't touch that person man or woman
Car we don't meet those with permission even. We play with singles and cpls only. Not worth the hassle of it all goes it's up later on if the wife changed her mind and blows it with you for fucking her Mr or the other way around also.
Thats a good point, we'd only be ok in that situation if we had spoken to the other half in question and ensured they were completely fine. But yes there could still be hassle
As I mentioned, my wife does not want to know if and when I meet someone,if you were to contact her it would force her to confront her decision to not have sex"
Sounds like that's exactly what should be happening. Instead of cheating have a conversation. What eve you call it cheating is the description |
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I think it's wrong. It will only end in one way. But I have meet a couple of girls on this site who said they were single, later I found out there not. I asked one why she did it, her reply was "it gives me a buzz" |
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"I think it's wrong. It will only end in one way. But I have meet a couple of girls on this site who said they were single, later I found out there not. I asked one why she did it, her reply was "it gives me a buzz""
Cheating on fab is not just mans trait.plenty of ladies on there are cheating to. We won't meet either sex who are cheating full stop. We chose not to be part of a cheats Parth on fab. |
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By *unnybunsWoman 37 weeks ago
Between here and over there |
"What's everyone else's take on Guys with single profiles who are married and think it's OK.
Been frustrating us alot recently, were not here to get in the middle of a guy (or girl) cheating on there other half.
Just wondered what everyone else's view was "
No no no and no.
Been done to me. It’s a killer. If the spent their energy into sorting their marriage out than spending it on here it may just change things.
Listen I know things get stale in a relationship it happens to us all- but don’t cheat. Either leave or be honest with their significant other.
Just don’t like it. I’m a girls girl so would never want to be that 3rd party. |
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By *unnybunsWoman 37 weeks ago
Between here and over there |
"I won't go anywhere near a married guy.. it's heartbreaking when you find out someone is dishonest and been lying. "
Exactly this ! Doesn’t matter what the lie is either. It can F your head up. |
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By *unnybunsWoman 37 weeks ago
Between here and over there |
"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
I wouldnt say that is what swinging is, that just us8ng it as a hook up sysyem, and not what swinging is to most. People look for friends and generally want regulars to play with. Fab for swinging, tinder for hookups"
Have to agree with your reply to this.
I’ve been on and off her for 15 yrs. it’s changed so much sadly for the worse !
Before it was a lifestyle- socials/parties and friendships born based on that. Now it seems to have turned into a hook up site- not a lifestyle. Old school swingers May agree…. Yes obviously years ago that happened but it was more than just getting your leg over.
That’s just my opinion anyway. |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
I wouldnt say that is what swinging is, that just us8ng it as a hook up sysyem, and not what swinging is to most. People look for friends and generally want regulars to play with. Fab for swinging, tinder for hookups
Have to agree with your reply to this.
I’ve been on and off her for 15 yrs. it’s changed so much sadly for the worse !
Before it was a lifestyle- socials/parties and friendships born based on that. Now it seems to have turned into a hook up site- not a lifestyle. Old school swingers May agree…. Yes obviously years ago that happened but it was more than just getting your leg over.
That’s just my opinion anyway. "
You are spot on. Swingers want friendships first and if you connect further good sex come part of it. It now seems fab is becoming instashag for most which is not for us. That's why we don't meet often as we rather pick our meets carefully. Cold sex is meaningless. |
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By *unnybunsWoman 37 weeks ago
Between here and over there |
"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
I wouldnt say that is what swinging is, that just us8ng it as a hook up sysyem, and not what swinging is to most. People look for friends and generally want regulars to play with. Fab for swinging, tinder for hookups
Have to agree with your reply to this.
I’ve been on and off her for 15 yrs. it’s changed so much sadly for the worse !
Before it was a lifestyle- socials/parties and friendships born based on that. Now it seems to have turned into a hook up site- not a lifestyle. Old school swingers May agree…. Yes obviously years ago that happened but it was more than just getting your leg over.
That’s just my opinion anyway.
You are spot on. Swingers want friendships first and if you connect further good sex come part of it. It now seems fab is becoming instashag for most which is not for us. That's why we don't meet often as we rather pick our meets carefully. Cold sex is meaningless."
Yup I agree. So many just want to hump and dump and that’s not what I’m here for. Got to be some sorta connection and friendship.
Way too many bottom feeders (excuse the pun it’s not intended lol) |
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"I don’t really get the issue. This is a swinging site…. Strangers shagging strangers….. which bit is actually acceptable in polite society?
Just enjoy it for what it is ffs!
I wouldnt say that is what swinging is, that just us8ng it as a hook up sysyem, and not what swinging is to most. People look for friends and generally want regulars to play with. Fab for swinging, tinder for hookups
Have to agree with your reply to this.
I’ve been on and off her for 15 yrs. it’s changed so much sadly for the worse !
Before it was a lifestyle- socials/parties and friendships born based on that. Now it seems to have turned into a hook up site- not a lifestyle. Old school swingers May agree…. Yes obviously years ago that happened but it was more than just getting your leg over.
That’s just my opinion anyway.
You are spot on. Swingers want friendships first and if you connect further good sex come part of it. It now seems fab is becoming instashag for most which is not for us. That's why we don't meet often as we rather pick our meets carefully. Cold sex is meaningless.
Yup I agree. So many just want to hump and dump and that’s not what I’m here for. Got to be some sorta connection and friendship.
Way too many bottom feeders (excuse the pun it’s not intended lol)"
We agree Hun. Joanne |
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By *arrapsMan 37 weeks ago
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"It’s not all black and white, each person has their own reasons to be on here.
Me, my wife decided that she didn’t want sex once the menopause hit, do you actually realise that the one you love doesn’t want to make love anymore, talk about a kick in the nuts.
I have her tacit approval to meet others as long as love isn’t involved.
So please don’t judge until you’re in the same situation
Both sexes M & F need the close intimacy that comes from making love, call it an adrenaline rush or whatever, but it’s a necessity.
There are plenty of women who are in the same situation as I, would you not meet them ????
So you are making love but you are not allowed to love.. hmmm...
Catch 22, is one mutually exclusive to the other.
Life can and does fu*k everything up, just when you thought everything was going nicely shit happens
Id say yes you make love to someone you are in love with. Otherwise you are just fucking someone
I thought that the act of intercourse was making love, fucking is what animals do !!
Now that you have blocked me we’ll never know,
Good luck on fab, and I sincerely hope that you never find yourself in my position.
I haven't blocked you.
Apologies, that was not meant for you, sometimes the messages are out of synch
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"Couples who state no married guys but have verifications from attached women who seek discretion for same reason as a married guy "
If it just states discretion, that doesn't mean married. Can be job related or with women, sadly, just a reputation/not wanting to be hounded by people. |
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"Couples who state no married guys but have verifications from attached women who seek discretion for same reason as a married guy
If it just states discretion, that doesn't mean married. Can be job related or with women, sadly, just a reputation/not wanting to be hounded by people."
Unfortunately he seems to not be able to understand the difference |
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All situations are different. My wife suffered a massive brain injury a few years ago. The result of it was it left her completely paralysed except for her left arm. Her brain functions all over the place and it’s 50/50 each day she knows who I am. Some days she’s kind of who she was but others she has no idea. In the beginning she told me to find sex elsewhere which I refused. A few years down the line I end up on here. I haven’t told her as obvtit would cause massive upset but the following day it could be forgotten. I’m not saying it’s a valid excuse for cheating but me not telling her is what I feel is best. I always tell any prospective meet I’m married and then it’s up to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Awh well... I'm a twat 
Clowns to the left of us , jokers to the right, here I am stuck in the middle with you "
You'll get splinters in the bum, sitting in the middle. Seriously though, I've experienced my husband of 20 years, meet someone on Fab & leave swinging. If it wasn't her from here, it was always going to be someone. |
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"Awh well... I'm a twat
Clowns to the left of us , jokers to the right, here I am stuck in the middle with you
You'll get splinters in the bum, sitting in the middle. Seriously though, I've experienced my husband of 20 years, meet someone on Fab & leave swinging. If it wasn't her from here, it was always going to be someone."
And I’ve got a lovely bum 
I know more couples that have split up because of affairs than I do from swinging tbh. As you rightly say, if it was going to be it was going to be.
I just don’t like the moralising that’s becoming so prevalent on this site. If you do it single, married or in a couple you’re unlikely to tell your mother |
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"Awh well... I'm a twat
Clowns to the left of us , jokers to the right, here I am stuck in the middle with you
You'll get splinters in the bum, sitting in the middle. Seriously though, I've experienced my husband of 20 years, meet someone on Fab & leave swinging. If it wasn't her from here, it was always going to be someone.
And I’ve got a lovely bum
I know more couples that have split up because of affairs than I do from swinging tbh. As you rightly say, if it was going to be it was going to be.
I just don’t like the moralising that’s becoming so prevalent on this site. If you do it single, married or in a couple you’re unlikely to tell your mother "
But just like morals swingers have preferences also. Ours is not to play with others cheating on their partners behind their back. Each to their own on here but we don't condone being involved with those playing away. |
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"Awh well... I'm a twat
Clowns to the left of us , jokers to the right, here I am stuck in the middle with you
You'll get splinters in the bum, sitting in the middle. Seriously though, I've experienced my husband of 20 years, meet someone on Fab & leave swinging. If it wasn't her from here, it was always going to be someone.
And I’ve got a lovely bum
I know more couples that have split up because of affairs than I do from swinging tbh. As you rightly say, if it was going to be it was going to be.
I just don’t like the moralising that’s becoming so prevalent on this site. If you do it single, married or in a couple you’re unlikely to tell your mother
But just like morals swingers have preferences also. Ours is not to play with others cheating on their partners behind their back. Each to their own on here but we don't condone being involved with those playing away."
Agreed, the last thing we need is an angry wife/husband turning up and kicking off because we've facilitated thier partner cheating on them |
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"Awh well... I'm a twat
Clowns to the left of us , jokers to the right, here I am stuck in the middle with you
You'll get splinters in the bum, sitting in the middle. Seriously though, I've experienced my husband of 20 years, meet someone on Fab & leave swinging. If it wasn't her from here, it was always going to be someone.
And I’ve got a lovely bum
I know more couples that have split up because of affairs than I do from swinging tbh. As you rightly say, if it was going to be it was going to be.
I just don’t like the moralising that’s becoming so prevalent on this site. If you do it single, married or in a couple you’re unlikely to tell your mother "
It's not moralising. We have a preference not to meet with anyone playing away without permission or without consent of their partner period.wr do have the right to not get involved just as you have the right to play with someone playing away. |
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Easiest way to suss out the ‘single’ guys is to ask for a landline number..if they can’t give it you for whatever reason (& I’ve heard some absolute cracking excuses)…then (to me) they ain’t single or have something to hide….if a guy is GENUINELY single…then providing a landline number shouldn’t be an issue… |
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Easiest way to suss out the ‘single’ guys is to ask for a landline number..if they can’t give it you for whatever reason (& I’ve heard some absolute cracking excuses)…then (to me) they ain’t single or have something to hide….if a guy is GENUINELY single…then providing a landline number shouldn’t be an issue… |
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"Easiest way to suss out the ‘single’ guys is to ask for a landline number..if they can’t give it you for whatever reason (& I’ve heard some absolute cracking excuses)…then (to me) they ain’t single or have something to hide….if a guy is GENUINELY single…then providing a landline number shouldn’t be an issue…"
Some people these days don't have a land line, I don't have one (male here), and I don't think my partner does either. With mobile phones, more and more people are doing away with a landline as they see it as pointless. |
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"Easiest way to suss out the ‘single’ guys is to ask for a landline number..if they can’t give it you for whatever reason (& I’ve heard some absolute cracking excuses)…then (to me) they ain’t single or have something to hide….if a guy is GENUINELY single…then providing a landline number shouldn’t be an issue…
Some people these days don't have a land line, I don't have one (male here), and I don't think my partner does either. With mobile phones, more and more people are doing away with a landline as they see it as pointless."
Yeah you don't need one now as can get broadband and not pay for a landline |
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"Easiest way to suss out the ‘single’ guys is to ask for a landline number..if they can’t give it you for whatever reason (& I’ve heard some absolute cracking excuses)…then (to me) they ain’t single or have something to hide….if a guy is GENUINELY single…then providing a landline number shouldn’t be an issue…"
Not really a good test, we dont have a landline number, we both have mobiles so why would we have a landline |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Easiest way to suss out the ‘single’ guys is to ask for a landline number..if they can’t give it you for whatever reason (& I’ve heard some absolute cracking excuses)…then (to me) they ain’t single or have something to hide….if a guy is GENUINELY single…then providing a landline number shouldn’t be an issue…"
A landline? What's one of those? Maybe they should have a CRT telly as well!! |
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