Unfortunately this happens a lot, absolutely infuriates me!
Just be honest.. id rather a "not for me or got a shag " than my cat has died or I've run out of fuel bullshit.
I feel for you, onwards and upwards and their loss  |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
discouraged. There are some genuine ones
I met him at a social been full on all week.. "
His loss! |
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"Ive said it before name and shame .his loss "
No excuse for this type of behaviour- it happens too often. Too many complete time wasters and dreamers here I’m afraid; and that’s not just the single guys, it’s happened to me.
If he had a shred of decency he’d have been in contact.
Trouble is if you name and shame (which is dangerous and open to abuse anyway) he’d just be back with a different profile.
Unfortunately it comes with the territory here. |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
discouraged. There are some genuine ones
I met him at a social been full on all week.. "
That really does make it even worse, you’ve got the connection, had the sparky fly and then been burnt. It’s a pretty poor show given the time invested and effort you’ve both put in. He’s either got a bad case of nerves, a better offer or he’s just a kn@b. Box it away and move on. You’re a catch, he didn’t have the balls to fry and catch you. |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
discouraged. There are some genuine ones
I met him at a social been full on all week..
That really does make it even worse, you’ve got the connection, had the sparky fly and then been burnt. It’s a pretty poor show given the time invested and effort you’ve both put in. He’s either got a bad case of nerves, a better offer or he’s just a kn@b. Box it away and move on. You’re a catch, he didn’t have the balls to fry and catch you."
There was definitely was a connection.. I would have definitely let my Dom side come out to play this weekend.. but yup he missed out.. |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
discouraged. There are some genuine ones
I met him at a social been full on all week.. "
Sounds like he's married, no other reason a guy would stand a lady up without telling them |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
discouraged. There are some genuine ones
I met him at a social been full on all week..
Sounds like he's married, no other reason a guy would stand a lady up without telling them"
There is literally a plethora of reasons why he didn't show. None of the are acceptable. It would have taken seconds to log on and send a message along the lines of 'sorry something has come up and I can't make it' |
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By *reasyMan 44 weeks ago
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I am very sorry, I don’t understand why manners seems to have left this site. Why would anybody bother to arrange specifically to meet and then just not turn up we all have emergencies and we all have an expected turns of events but it doesn’t take two seconds to drop a message saying sorry not going to make it for XYOZ
I just hope the next guy that you click with and arrange to meet doesn’t do the same, but he proves that there are some really nice honest genuine guys on this site
Good luck and have fun |
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Life happens and people may cancel but we always say you let us down once you don’t get a second chance.
For us we know there’s life outside fab but when your sat waiting for the person to show up and they cancel they won’t get a second chance!
I say move on and don’t dwell on it! As a single sexy and friendly lady I bet you have hundreds of messages. Move onto the next person because they will sure appreciate you x
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
discouraged. There are some genuine ones
I met him at a social been full on all week..
That really does make it even worse, you’ve got the connection, had the sparky fly and then been burnt. It’s a pretty poor show given the time invested and effort you’ve both put in. He’s either got a bad case of nerves, a better offer or he’s just a kn@b. Box it away and move on. You’re a catch, he didn’t have the balls to fry and catch you.
There was definitely was a connection.. I would have definitely let my Dom side come out to play this weekend.. but yup he missed out.. "
The silly sod is probably kicking himself now. Or busy with his wife and kids this weekend… |
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It happens sadly people are too happy to lead others on with no intentions of meeting 
People like them make it harder for genuine people but try not to take it personally tho , you'll soon see the genuine ones
The girls talk about this happening all the time at my parties so your not the only one
Keep smiling hun , it's their loss
If you ever want to attend a ladies night have a chat laugh an drink pm me x |
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"It happens sadly people are too happy to lead others on with no intentions of meeting
People like them make it harder for genuine people but try not to take it personally tho , you'll soon see the genuine ones
The girls talk about this happening all the time at my parties so your not the only one
Keep smiling hun , it's their loss
If you ever want to attend a ladies night have a chat laugh an drink pm me x"
As above it's their loss. You are not alone on here as most of us have experienced the keyboard wanker brigade. |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
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I met him at a social been full on all week..
Sounds like he's married, no other reason a guy would stand a lady up without telling them"
I think single men can be spineless just the same as married |
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By *3xymamaWoman 44 weeks ago
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It's the leading on with no intentions I find annoying. You chat, there's a connection discuss meeting up and they are all for it. Then they let you down.. I try and make sure I get on with something else if I've been let down, so I don't feel I've had my time wasted  |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too discouraged. There are some genuine ones "
Yes - plenty of us genuine guys around, waiting on the fringes after all of the others have been filtered out  and for our messages to be accepted and read, instead of instantly deleted. |
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Fortunately never happened to me during my active years but you have to see this for what it is. If you're getting stood up often,maybe review your criteria. Take the majority of communication with a pinch of salt and always have an easy plan B. Don't put too much expectation on a meet as you will probably end up disappointed. Loads of blokes are on here with no intention of meeting. They'll probably lull you into communicating to help them wank by pretending they want to meet you when they don't. It's the way of the Fab world unfortunately. Good luck  |
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"A lot of people talk a good talk but when it comes down to meeting they bottle it. Try not to get too
discouraged. There are some genuine ones
I met him at a social been full on all week.. "
The fact he has been "full on" all week is probably all the alarm bells you need. |
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"I am very sorry, I don’t understand why manners seems to have left this site. Why would anybody bother to arrange specifically to meet and then just not turn up we all have emergencies and we all have an expected turns of events but it doesn’t take two seconds to drop a message saying sorry not going to make it for XYOZ
I just hope the next guy that you click with and arrange to meet doesn’t do the same, but he proves that there are some really nice honest genuine guys on this site
Good luck and have fun"
Because this site is no longer a swinger site, there is no etiquette anymore. Its a fuck site, plain and simple. Go back to the old days of magazines and see how ma y people don't show up then lmao. Sorry 2o odd years and I've watched it change so much ?? ?? |
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"Why do it.. so disrespectful.. or are they just full of bullshit and actually can't deliver or can't handle this fiery lass. "
It's such a common thing on here.
Not just single guys, but rife with couple accounts.
What makes it even worse is that I have seen you at plenty of social events, and you've been doing the right thing.
Maybe there is a valid reason, but I highly doubt it if he hasn't even had the decency to say or apologise as to why he didn't make it. |
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By *unnybunsWoman 44 weeks ago
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I only meet at parties or events now. Sick of the BS. Never been stood up but the amount of rude and disrespectful people I’ve come across is just mindless.
If we vibe when we meet I may consider meeting up again. It’s just the way it is it seems. The site has definitely changed over the years sadly xxx stay strong xxx |
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"I only meet at parties or events now. Sick of the BS. Never been stood up but the amount of rude and disrespectful people I’ve come across is just mindless.
If we vibe when we meet I may consider meeting up again. It’s just the way it is it seems. The site has definitely changed over the years sadly xxx stay strong xxx "
100% agree it’s changed. But the whole swinging scene has sadly |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Wow, what a total asshat!
I couldn't imagine getting the chance to talk with someone as beautiful as you, let alone actually having the opportunity to meet up and make the sexy time with you!!
So infuriating when you get a no show, or you travel to them and you get blocked when you enter the postcode!
Id say you definitely Neo'd the Agent here. |
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We sat in a pub awaiting a single gut to turn up once, he ni showed no message to say why, no apology, and even had the cheek of messaging a few months later asking to meet, obviously forgot he'd stood us up. Suffice to say, we blocked him. His loss. And gives single men a bad name.. we'd never bail on a meet.. |
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It is unfortunately something which I believe comes with the site. So many people are acting out a fantasy which doesn't actually involve them ever going through with it. Be it someone in a relationship just looking for something that brings a smile to their face or a couple open to it but too afraid to actually go through with it.
Never seems to get easier to take, regardless of how many times it happens.
Though the worst is when they do contact afterwards and say they didn't turn up because they thought "you" wasn't real
As a few have said, it brings more questions than anything for me and a wish that they'd simply just say "no thanks"  |
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Thankfully, I've only had this happen once on my single profile; we were supposed to meet at a pub. I don't give second chances and blocked him.
Chin up lovely, you are a gorgeous, vibrant woman.
Dory x |
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