What's everyone's opinion on married men on here looking to play behind partners back. As a married man I am honest from the start but i bet there's 100s on here that aren't and probably the ones that let people down |
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You’re going to find a split on here.
Some will say they won’t go anywhere near someone who is married playing without consent. But how many people are honest about their situation? Also if you go to a club how many people ask “ooh before we play, can I just check you’re single?”
Others will be of the mindset of people having their own needs and it’s none of their business. |
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That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness |
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By *unnybunsWoman 49 weeks ago
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"Most genuine swingers don't take cheating lightly. We play with others to extend our already good sexlife and not to replace something that does not exist. "
This ! Exactly this. If your marriage is not working - leave it get therapy ! |
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"That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness"
I would say there's not much togetherness if you are cheating, I was in a similar marriage with no sex at home,I sat my wife down at told her my feelings about the lack of sex and everything about my feelings about the relationship and getting what she thought and from there we decided to separate and divorce the best thing I ever did I'm so happy now in my new relationship kid's are happier and everything,talk honestly with your wife tell her how you feel don't cheat she doesn't deserve that otherwise it will end in tears eventually anyways ,she deserves your honesty you never know it might be the push you're wife needs |
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"That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness
I would say there's not much togetherness if you are cheating, I was in a similar marriage with no sex at home,I sat my wife down at told her my feelings about the lack of sex and everything about my feelings about the relationship and getting what she thought and from there we decided to separate and divorce the best thing I ever did I'm so happy now in my new relationship kid's are happier and everything,talk honestly with your wife tell her how you feel don't cheat she doesn't deserve that otherwise it will end in tears eventually anyways ,she deserves your honesty you never know it might be the push you're wife needs "
op be more like this man grow a pair of balls & tell your wife how your feeling about your situation instead of creeping around cheating |
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"That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness"
I agree with this. What if the other half is ill and not sexual at all because of this |
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By *coutDWoman 49 weeks ago
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"That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness
I agree with this. What if the other half is ill and not sexual at all because of this "
Then you talk to them and be honest about how you will get your needs met elsewhere |
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"That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness
I agree with this. What if the other half is ill and not sexual at all because of this "
Not everything is black and white their are definitely grey areas. I can only say my opinion and I know 100 percent that if I was ill my husbands only priority would be me and looking for nsa attached sex would not enter his head.
If you have a good and honest marriage where you are able to have honest and sometimes hard conversations then their should be no need to feel the need to sneak around.. |
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By *coutDWoman 49 weeks ago
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"That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness"
I can’t help but feel the more you try to explain why you are cheating to us the more you are justifying to yourself that cheating is ok.
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"That is a fair point but when there is no sex at home then surely nsa with no feelings is something that could help to keep that marriage together as there is still the .mental bond and togetherness
I agree with this. What if the other half is ill and not sexual at all because of this
Then you talk to them and be honest about how you will get your needs met elsewhere "
No sex at home or any other reason for cheating is just an excuse you talk to your partner and come to an agreement or end the relationship.
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By *JandCMCouple 49 weeks ago
cardiff |
If a married person wants to shag around behind the back if their parter then that wouldn't stop me if i knew.
How they want to live their live is nothing to do with me, isn't down to me to judge, as long as I'm honest to my parter then as far as I'm concerned that's it. |
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As a female who found out her husband was on fab without me knowing i will not put other women through that so no i will not knowingly meet married men as no matter how you look at it ...it is cheating sorry |
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"Personally I wouldn't cheat. To me whole idea of swinging is to let your partner know. Even if they don't play its important to be part of it."
Exactly this. You don’t need to be involved physically in everything but being included in discussion is important if you want things to work rather than being completely disrespectful and lying to someone you supposedly love |
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By *unnybunsWoman 48 weeks ago
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"You’re going to find a split on here.
Some will say they won’t go anywhere near someone who is married playing without consent. But how many people are honest about their situation? Also if you go to a club how many people ask “ooh before we play, can I just check you’re single?”
To be honest I’d be grateful for someone being honest about their situation. FML.
Others will be of the mindset of people having their own needs and it’s none of their business. "
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By *hiskasMan 48 weeks ago
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I agree with most of the people on the thread, cheating is cheating and swinging is not that. Going to fuck another person behind the back of your partner can never end well for any1, your self, wife or even the meet. Your wife could become nasty about it and put post up about your meet, and some people like discretion, not because they ashamed but because this world is not ready for the truth yet. Be a grown up and tell your wife, if she is happy with it great news for you, if she is not then make a choice as to what is more important, your cock or you marriage, you have a hand if the marriage without sex is what you choice but listen to her and see, you never know, she might like the idea of it and it will make you a better partner to each other. |
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I can’t believe how judgemental people are on here. It’s not as if swinging is particularly socially acceptable. Who tells their parents or children what they get up to?
If you don’t want to meet married people fine, but as the saying goes “ don’t judge someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes” |
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