Why do you feel the need to cheat what are you not getting from her that you can get from someone else you obviously don't love her because you wouldn't do it if you did you can't say you do because you're sleeping with someone else and she doesn't know so yes it's wrong |
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"Why do you feel the need to cheat what are you not getting from her that you can get from someone else you obviously don't love her because you wouldn't do it if you did you can't say you do because you're sleeping with someone else and she doesn't know so yes it's wrong "
Wouldn’t you say there’s a bit of a difference between sleeping with someone and just fucking them? I think that’s where the line is and that’s where the love for your partner is on a loosing streak. Just asking not criticising your comment BTW. |
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If she's aware then I'm all good with it. I would of done something like this if my ex agreed.
Given the heading 'cheating' says she doesn't know.. that's a no no for me.
My ex wasn't OK with it so I accepted that and didn't explore for 11 years as the relationship meant more.
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Sorry message sent before I could finish no I don't think there's a difference if you're in a committed relationship and the other person doesn't know it's cheating you cannot love them if you are not being honest with them if you truly truly love someone you would do absolutely everything to keep them happy and safe you wouldn't stick your dick in someone else I know this is a swinging website and people are on here for swingers but everybody should know what's going on if you're in a committed relationship then don't do it |
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"Sorry message sent before I could finish no I don't think there's a difference if you're in a committed relationship and the other person doesn't know it's cheating you cannot love them if you are not being honest with them if you truly truly love someone you would do absolutely everything to keep them happy and safe you wouldn't stick your dick in someone else I know this is a swinging website and people are on here for swingers but everybody should know what's going on if you're in a committed relationship then don't do it "
100% agreebwith this comment 
If your partner doesn't know then you're cheating and obviously don't love them. |
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"Sorry message sent before I could finish no I don't think there's a difference if you're in a committed relationship and the other person doesn't know it's cheating you cannot love them if you are not being honest with them if you truly truly love someone you would do absolutely everything to keep them happy and safe you wouldn't stick your dick in someone else I know this is a swinging website and people are on here for swingers but everybody should know what's going on if you're in a committed relationship then don't do it "
Fair point and well put. This just seems to be a place for sex addicts at times, mainly men or others with not a lot to do. I don’t know anymore, real mixed feelings about this site ATM. might have to take up fly fishing - naked of course  |
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Doesn't really matter if you are on here or trying to pull in the pub it's wrong.
You asked for opinion so my advice would be take a good look at yourself and ask what did my partner do to deserve this and why am I willing to treat them with such disrespect.
They are probably a lovely person who has genuine feelings for you and enjoys being in your relationship, if they don't it's a simple solution, break up.
If you don't get what you need in your relationship have an adult conversation with your partner about it and either agree to be non-monogomous or break up don't be a selfish c bomb
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"What’s your thought on men here with girlfriends? (Yes I’m one of them) "
Another one disappeared only to soon reappear with shiny new profile and no doubt won't be asking that question again lol.. |
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"What’s your thought on men here with girlfriends? (Yes I’m one of them)
Another one disappeared only to soon reappear with shiny new profile and no doubt won't be asking that question again lol.."
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Tricky one. Generally no. However my wife whom I love dearly suffered a massive brain injury. Some days she knows who I am, others she doesn’t. Feel guilty after a meet and ultimately is definitely cheating. Always make the other party aware before the fact and then it’s up to them if they want to meet or not. |
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"Tricky one. Generally no. However my wife whom I love dearly suffered a massive brain injury. Some days she knows who I am, others she doesn’t. Feel guilty after a meet and ultimately is definitely cheating. Always make the other party aware before the fact and then it’s up to them if they want to meet or not. "
A prime example of why the stock answer from the moral brigade isn't always the most carefully thought out. Each to their own but this is an adult site where people mingle for a variety of reasons & not to be shamed by those with seemingly perfect lives & relationships. There's a way of answering that's kinder...possibly, but I won't hold my breath X |
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By *JandCMCouple 47 weeks ago
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I don't believe in cheating on a partner.
If you are on here without your partner knowing then should do one of two things, tell your partner your on here n how you feel about it n what you want from here n then if their ok with it then it can be something you both enjoy.
If there not happy about it then delete your account or finish your relationship.
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