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By *Gem37 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Hey everyone,
I’m super new to this.. and just feeling really nervous and a bit overwhelmed. I’m longing for a meet and been talking to quite a few but just worried I won’t get accepted by others as I’m quite curvy!
Should I start with a social group thing or just stop being a whimp and go for it? X |
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Hi welcome, I can assure you that you will get meets on here , theres a lot of guys who like curvy ladies and there's many curvy an bigger ladies on here too
Try and go out to some socials to get more confidence and meet others x |
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"Hey everyone,
I’m super new to this.. and just feeling really nervous and a bit overwhelmed. I’m longing for a meet and been talking to quite a few but just worried I won’t get accepted by others as I’m quite curvy!
Should I start with a social group thing or just stop being a whimp and go for it? X"
You are not alone being curvy on here. Plenty of curvy ladies on here. Just relax and enjoy yourself as you're only here once. |
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The joys of fab is that there are people out there for everyone.
One thing fab has made me realise is that I am wanted by many men because of my curves. I used to try and lose weight to fit in. But you can just be yourself here!
If they don’t like you or are rude to you then the block button is handy.
Enjoy your first meet
Mrs monkey xx |
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By *igSlinkyCouple
over a year ago
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Just be yourself. There really is nothing to be nervous about. My lovely wife is a plus size lady and we get loads of guys all wanting her everywhere we go lol. I do suggest a social first just to dip your toe in x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP
I just see your status, the block button is a great tool to use and I'd say learn all the tools, filter out profiles like no pics, newbies etc if you want to.
I hope you take the plunge and get stuck in and the forums are great with supportive people xx |
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Being curvy is not an issue on here, I'm a bigger girl and there are plenty on here who have no problems with it. Being a skinny mini is not for everyone. Just be yourself and be confident in who you are |
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Had to comment .. we are a new couple and I have been so scared about posting pics because I'm a big woman but I have to say - I've had an awesome confidence boost  .. We're going to our first social soon to, something I didn't think I could do incase of being judged. But to be honest, I've realised there are a lot of men (and women) who have given me compliments and made me feel quite good about myself!
Love yourself and shine bright, you are gorgeous xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have real issues with my body but this place has made me ooze confidence! There are so many men here who love the lumps, bumps and wobbly bits and I'm sure you'll have no issues at all in meeting some wonderful people
There will be assholes who will make derogatory comments if you decline their advances; report any abusive messages and block them.
Have a great time xx |
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I would agree with all that has been said on here go to a social as there’s no pressure for anything just likeminded non-judgemental people relaxing and chatting with friends old and new.
You will undoubtedly encounter rude idiots on here, but again as people have said, ignore them as ultimately it’s their loss
So have a great time whatever you decide to do and believe me, curves are good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're newish to and all the messages are a bit overwhelming. Starting to pick out who's gen and who's not now though "
Yes but you also got to pick through messages from women and couples that is from a man pretending to be a couple or a woman. What the hell do they get from it. Its creepy.
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Be yourself...
That's the sexiest you can be IMHO.
Remember you have time feel comfortable to feel good. So go at your own pace.
Loads of people on here go and cone back...
Find your feet, block the idiots.
Do it at your speed and your way.
There are no wrong answers.. only the wrong people.
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