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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or
Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?
I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply  |
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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago
42 Wallaby Way Syndey |
Nearly daily. No one is owed a reply on here, it's in my profile that no reply means no thanks. I get more messages then saying I'm rude/obnoxious/bitch/c@@t etc for not replying and fat shaming as well. Not that many can put on their big boy pants and take rejection. The ones who shame and abuse are usually the ones that treat Fab like instafuck and not a swingers site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proactively using the block button s out the shit, there's no point trying to be polite, just look after yourself & get your filters sorted so you're not being inundated X |
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Pay them no attention,
If they respond like that they are not worth your attention. It's sad that people feel scorned due to someone not wanting to fuck their brains out (we know it wouldn't take long!!) But it is a sad fact of life that some think they are gods gift.
As a man I obviously don't get many messages so replying is easier, but some messages just lack inspiration "fuck now"
Not even a question mark after (yes from men usually displaying that they are straight!!)
Politeness and patience cost nothing and I am hoping pay off lol |
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As everyone above has said just report and block any mindless miscreant that lands in your inbox. You don't have to reply or entertain any form of response.
I do the same — ignore and delete. Thankfully most of them are pleasant. |
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By *coutDWoman
over a year ago
Pontypridd |
If everyone bothered to read a profile it would help but so many don’t/won’t.
Im quite proactive with the block button now. If I see an Instafuck type of update i just block them to save the future hassle. |
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By *assy69Man
over a year ago
West Sussex and Wales |
"I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or
Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?
I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply "
Am sorry that you’re experiencing this OP, no one on here is entitled to anything from anyone. Hopefully you are finding the block button a valuable accessory. Stick with it, lots of great, genuine people here  |
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"Ok blocked me for no reason"
Highly doubtful that there was "no reason", maybe you just didn't fit what she was looking for?
A block isn't an insult, some use it as a way of slimming down the numbers on any searches etc that they do, no point in trawling through the list if some of the guys on there have already been rejected. |
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"Ok blocked me for no reason
I blocked you for being a complete pain and a timewaster...so not surprised others have done the same  "
Ah....I should have scrolled to the last post before my comment above lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im sure its different for Women as you probably get thousands of messages and not all of them nice and loads of boring silly 'Hi how are you'messages, i understand you ignoring them. However as a male i answer all mine, if only to just say 'sorry not interested', takes 10secs to do. Theyve made the effort to contact you n showed interest in you so i feel i should reply with somat. If as a woman after your rebuttal you receive another message off them then just block, its what the button is for |
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I personally think its fine to block people who you are not interested in there isn't another way to limit down what/ who you see unless you blanket restrict a particular group.
Even more so if they're rude or abusive.
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"Name and shame, this shit pisses me off as it spoils it for the normal guys without anger issues "
Unfortunately when you do you then get personal abuse from people you have had no contact with... |
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"Name and shame, this shit pisses me off as it spoils it for the normal guys without anger issues
Unfortunately when you do you then get personal abuse from people you have had no contact with... "
You can't name and shame in forums you'll get a ban. Unfortunately we just gotta put up with the fact that some people are just abject morons that haven't been taught basic politeness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sure its different for Women as you probably get thousands of messages and not all of them nice and loads of boring silly 'Hi how are you'messages, i understand you ignoring them. However as a male i answer all mine, if only to just say 'sorry not interested', takes 10secs to do. Theyve made the effort to contact you n showed interest in you so i feel i should reply with somat. If as a woman after your rebuttal you receive another message off them then just block, its what the button is for"
I truly need a faceplant emoji about now, there is no hope  |
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"I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or
Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?
I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply "
We had our share of abusers. Most guys don't like a no thank you as a reply. Just block and move on how Hun. |
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"I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or
Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?
I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply
We had our share of abusers. Most guys don't like a no thank you as a reply. Just block and move on how Hun."
This annoys me take rejection like a man and move on, fuck nobody is entitled to anything in life and not even the best looking person on the world will be everyone's cup of tea |
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