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By *iguy1130 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly borough |
People that put an age restriction could be losing out.. surely attraction should be more important than age..I see people stating ages they are maybe attracted to..what if a person is older than what they are looking for and could be a better match up.. age is a number..attraction is the important part.. but I agree its the choice of the people..what do you think?? |
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Sounding a little aggrevied OP. Everyone is entitled to preferences. Some may set there ages for different reasons.
I personally don't want to fuck anyone that's young enough to be my kid and the other end of the spectrum I don't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my Dad!
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By *iguy1130 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly borough |
Not aggrieved..I do ok. But can't understand the logic....everyone to their own choice..but imagine someone say 40 is maximum..then some good looking male/female age 41 or 44..I understand your right to set your age limit..like I said,age is just a number.. not bitching at anyone..its your choice.. |
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The logic,
We started without a filter. As a couple, with a couples profile, and I’d imagine women’s profiles are the same, the inbox becomes almost unmanageable. So we scanned through the messages we had, marked off where the attraction generally started tailing off and set the filters up accordingly. We now have a slightly more manageable inbox, with more replies on average than before. |
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By *iguy1130 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly borough |
Like you said "ATTRACTION " I am not having a go at people..its your choice..Good luck to anyone who gets a good meet.. I have done well throughout my life..and still doing OK.. not a disgruntled op..age is just a number..as you will find out in time  |
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You said you didn’t get the logic, so I explained our logic.
You keep saying age is just a number. But when a 30 year old couple start getting messages from men old enough to be their grandparents (75+), I can absolutely assure you there will be zero attraction there. You have to set a limit some where. Yes, we may miss out on a potentially compatible person just outside those limits. But there’s plenty more inside the limits, we’re not here to find the perfect person, soul mate etc. so it’s worth the trade off of an unfiltered mailbox. |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
Uptown Top Ranking |
My age limit is set because as a rule I'm not usually attracted to older men. Yes, I'm in my 60's but for a lot of us fab is about fantasies and maybe something that wouldn't happen in the "vanilla " world. If I met someone over 60 at an organised social and there was a spark, then so be it. I'm quite young in my outlook and music choices too. What guy in their 60's would understand or even know about Stormzy? My good friends know this.. so yes, my age preferences are under 60  |
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"The logic,
We started without a filter. As a couple, with a couples profile, and I’d imagine women’s profiles are the same, the inbox becomes almost unmanageable. So we scanned through the messages we had, marked off where the attraction generally started tailing off and set the filters up accordingly. We now have a slightly more manageable inbox, with more replies on average than before. "
Pritty much what we had to do.
Spent time to write what we interested in on the profile (that no one reads especially single males  ) still got loads of messages and when told a polite no thanks, got abuse so filters in place now.
PS. There should be a option to only have bi people able to message   .
H x |
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"The logic,
We started without a filter. As a couple, with a couples profile, and I’d imagine women’s profiles are the same, the inbox becomes almost unmanageable. So we scanned through the messages we had, marked off where the attraction generally started tailing off and set the filters up accordingly. We now have a slightly more manageable inbox, with more replies on average than before.
Pritty much what we had to do.
Spent time to write what we interested in on the profile (that no one reads especially single males ) still got loads of messages and when told a polite no thanks, got abuse so filters in place now.
PS. There should be a option to only have bi people able to message .
H x"
Totally agree with that last point X |
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