Hello to all on this rainy day. We've been chatting about trying our first MFM and got really turned on by the idea.
Just wanted to get some advice really and ask if anyone has had one before and any tips they can share with what to expect or how to reach out to people? |
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If you are interested just go for it along you both feel like that at the time! It's the only way your going to know!
Don't have to do anything you don't want to and don't have to try it again but at least you will know.
Our first meet was a MFMFMF and so nervous but just went for it and haven't looked back!
Even surprised myself how horny it can be watching the wife enjoying herself! |
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Well find the man or couple that you have a basic attraction with
Meet up without expectations
If the chemistry/desire is there relax and let it happen … be the centre of attention for 2 men, feast on them . Above all enjoy |
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By *antasycouple31Couple
over a year ago
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Don’t throw yourselves in too fast. Go to a few socials events and just chat/ get to know people - you will soon tell the difference between those that understand that you are a couple and treat you as such, and those that just want to shag the mrs.
You’ll also get this vibe through messages and for us, those that don’t understand we are a couple we pass by as being respectful in that situation is important to us.
Infact I would say like 5% of men understand this, but it depends if your after a cuckold type situation so you may not mind the solo approach (it’s just not for us)
We did jump in both feet at a party and effectively had a mmfm situation, but in hindsight for both of us we should have built it up more/ made it abit more of a passionate situation than just the sex/ other stuff and it’s probably not something we would repeat in the same way.
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It's about finding the right guy who will respect your boundaries, knowing he is their for your pleasure as much as his and the couple must also include the 3rd party too. A social is ideal first find out what all parties are after to really enjoy the experience. |
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Discuss your boundaries.
Your hubby may know what you like but the guy doesn't.
Also, the guy won't know if he's going to do something to piss hubby off so I'd be fair and tell him what you expect and what he's not to do. Eg kissing, smacking, hair pull etc
Then it's all about finding a guy you both get on with |
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First at all your boundaries and rules. Good to have a bit of chat before and see if its suitable for all of you. Important to do not find a bull which would like to go through whole fab. Quality over quantity |
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