Best advice is to head to one of the organised socials, which are are a great way to meet new people.
If I'm heading to a club, I'm usually happy for people to tag along. (Meet socially first) and will stick something in my status to that effect. |
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Honest u be fine best to go to social meet others and see if u like that
I go to club when am free on my own which can be scarey but once ur in there its fine morw than welcome to join me any time i go x |
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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago
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Ones coming up so far in the forums:
14th September Caerphilly
29th September Swansea
30th September Newport
12th October BBw/BHM and admirers Caerphilly
20th October Cardiff
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I understand for some its hard to pluck uo the courage to go, but it's just like going out to a pub or club.
You just have to make sure when your there you talk to people.
Don't be afraid, you will be surprised how many people will talk.
You will get nowhere standing on the sidelines hoping people will come to you.
The social aspect of swingers events outweighs the sexual part, so don't forget that you are all there for the same reasons, so treat it like any other night you'd go out.
When you ask for someone to accompany you to a club you may be seen by some as just using that as an excuse for entry and it puts some off.
My suggestion would be to you that you reach out to other single guys that go to events and clubs and pair up with them.  |
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"I understand for some its hard to pluck uo the courage to go, but it's just like going out to a pub or club.
You just have to make sure when your there you talk to people.
Don't be afraid, you will be surprised how many people will talk.
You will get nowhere standing on the sidelines hoping people will come to you.
The social aspect of swingers events outweighs the sexual part, so don't forget that you are all there for the same reasons, so treat it like any other night you'd go out.
When you ask for someone to accompany you to a club you may be seen by some as just using that as an excuse for entry and it puts some off.
My suggestion would be to you that you reach out to other single guys that go to events and clubs and pair up with them. "
this is what i needs to do |
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