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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Newbie to site and you can literally as we all now fully aware, can pick up anything in more ways than one I guess ha!

But my reason for lil ol rant on here

1)I drove all the way to NEW QUAY for some on to block me...I had some lovely fish and chips always have plan B.

2) Don't ask for money

It's a sexual clean fun and chuckles site guaranteed if you hit it off..so why all if this rubbish that goes with it.

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By *ilffadMan  over a year ago

swansea

I think the title to your thread explains it all, there are lots of fakes who get the thrill of chatting but do not have the bottle to meet. It is like any other social media site, some genuine, some false.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for reply, as I always say - I never stop learning.

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By *rgan MorganMan  over a year ago

Pontadawe

It's a psin on here, but gets easier to spot them over time. I look at verifications, consider them important, also tend to meet people at social events or clubs these days.

Unfortunately I think women get messedaround a lot more than men

Hope you have better luck next time, or more fish and chips

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By *elshguy999Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

Definitely too many fakes and fraudsters. Makes it horrendously difficult for us genuine males. All get tarred with the same brush.

Is sex guaranteed if you hit it off though? I think best to continue with socials locally and then when you get to know the person things fall into place.

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By *adtaffladMan  over a year ago

Rhyl

There are a lot of fakes and time wasters on here and it affects the honest ones of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If there mutual attraction connection why not...

I do prefer to social -first it's my thing, I do like to meet people.

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By *heoriginalCJMan  over a year ago

mystic valley


"If there mutual attraction connection why not...

I do prefer to social -first it's my thing, I do like to meet people."

well one of your pics is from cams so i'd bet that would suggest enough that you know that not all of us are fakes

The site has changed over the years, and now it seems the good "old fashoned" way of meeting people socially at events is the only thing to make sure you know what your getting.

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By *elshguy999Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly


"If there mutual attraction connection why not...

I do prefer to social -first it's my thing, I do like to meet people."

I'm sure you are doing just fine.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

The fakes on here are making it more and more tedious. That or the multiple profiles people have which are even more hilarious . Love it when they trip themselves up on the forums and statuses. Even their profiles read pretty much the same . Supposed to be somewhere for fun not drama.

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By *laytonAMan  over a year ago

Newport

There are so many Bull shit profiles on here, which is frustrating beyond belief. And I only get contact from a handful of people so can't imagine the scale of it for other demographics. Every woman or couple I speak to says the same thing though. Its driving genuine people away from what was a great place to meet like minded people.

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By *ory_xWoman  over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

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By *ory_xWoman  over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I only meet new people at group socials or at the club. There's too many fake accounts and silhouette profiles that I don't want one to one socials.

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By *ORDERMANMan  over a year ago

wrexham

The op is not the only female for whom a wasted journey has been made.

When you look at the ratio of male to female members surely due to supply and de.and females should be calling the shots in respect of where meets are held.

Evidently not all females may bee able to accom therefore seek venue half way...at least for first meet..

We all live and learn

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan  over a year ago

Ammanford


"Newbie to site and you can literally as we all now fully aware, can pick up anything in more ways than one I guess ha!

But my reason for lil ol rant on here

1)I drove all the way to NEW QUAY for some on to block me...I had some lovely fish and chips always have plan B.

2) Don't ask for money

It's a sexual clean fun and chuckles site guaranteed if you hit it off..so why all if this rubbish that goes with it."

Hope you had lots of salt and vinegar?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie to site and you can literally as we all now fully aware, can pick up anything in more ways than one I guess ha!

But my reason for lil ol rant on here

1)I drove all the way to NEW QUAY for some on to block me...I had some lovely fish and chips always have plan B.

2) Don't ask for money

It's a sexual clean fun and chuckles site guaranteed if you hit it off..so why all if this rubbish that goes with it."

I think you need to work on your selection process.

Mind you I would say that since you rejected me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie to site and you can literally as we all now fully aware, can pick up anything in more ways than one I guess ha!

But my reason for lil ol rant on here

1)I drove all the way to NEW QUAY for some on to block me...I had some lovely fish and chips always have plan B.

2) Don't ask for money

It's a sexual clean fun and chuckles site guaranteed if you hit it off..so why all if this rubbish that goes with it."

I hope that’s New Quay in West Wales and not Newquay in Cornwall…fair old trek that would be for fish and chips..lol

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By *hisismeXXXMan  over a year ago

Welsh Wales


"Newbie to site and you can literally as we all now fully aware, can pick up anything in more ways than one I guess ha!

But my reason for lil ol rant on here

1)I drove all the way to NEW QUAY for some on to block me...I had some lovely fish and chips always have plan B.

2) Don't ask for money

It's a sexual clean fun and chuckles site guaranteed if you hit it off..so why all if this rubbish that goes with it."

Some things never change, we’ve all been caught at some point.

I remember going back late 90s, between relationships, and I’d just started having a little bit of success using the ‘swingers chat’ phone lines where you’d dial up, listen to ads, leave a voice mail and if you were lucky they’d get back to you.

Well, I say ‘a bit of success’, I’d met one female and one couple in around a year.

Listened to one message of a very sexy voiced lady, part of a couple in Saundersfoot, sounded a good match so left a voicemail. Few days later had a call from ‘husband’, sounded really cool, spoke about what they were looking for a meet, what my experience was, he said he thought we’d be great and he’d get back to me once spoken to her. Next day he called, was I free Friday night to come to theirs?

Oh yes I was.

Arranged to meet in a pub in Saundersfoot, ring them when I got there so we would know who we were (remember all done over phone, no photos as pre smartphones etc).

Texted them when leaving Neath, reply instant, along lines of ‘can’t wait to meet’.

Got to the destination, rang them, straight to voicemail. Left a message. 15 minutes later, tried again. Straight to voicemail. Another 15 minutes, tried again, same outcome.

Mightily pissed off, drive home, never heard from ‘them’ again

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By *assy69Man  over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"Newbie to site and you can literally as we all now fully aware, can pick up anything in more ways than one I guess ha!

But my reason for lil ol rant on here

1)I drove all the way to NEW QUAY for some on to block me...I had some lovely fish and chips always have plan B.

2) Don't ask for money

It's a sexual clean fun and chuckles site guaranteed if you hit it off..so why all if this rubbish that goes with it."

It’s always a bonus if there are nice fish and chips to mitigate the frustration! am sorry this happened to you OP

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

One thing to remember when dealing with the fakes, multiple profile imposters and wannabes is share your knowledge. Report profiles that do this kind of crap and then share the knowy with friends who might end up coming across these profiles also. So they don't end up duped by these cretins also!

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By *hickdickwalesMan  over a year ago

neath

Awh that's shit. What a waste of time. But where you get the chips from? I love new Quay lol the lime crab? They're amazing. It is a beautiful place. But I've you're at all interested drop me a message? I'm in neath too and wouldn't mind a social drink maybe then see how things go. I am below your age range so I can't message you unfortunately. Hopefully people will stop pissing you around too!

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By *ory_xWoman  over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Definitely let your friends know about the fake accounts to warn them. My friends and I do this as well with abusive men/couples we've had to deal with when we have said a polite no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I am really fussy thou I do have a selection process in place.

Did I oops!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I am really fussy thou I do have a selection process in place.

Did I oops!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I know right ..

Grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Newbie to site and you can literally as we all now fully aware, can pick up anything in more ways than one I guess ha!

But my reason for lil ol rant on here

1)I drove all the way to NEW QUAY for some on to block me...I had some lovely fish and chips always have plan B.

2) Don't ask for money

It's a sexual clean fun and chuckles site guaranteed if you hit it off..so why all if this rubbish that goes with it.

Hope you had lots of salt and vinegar?"

I did haha

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By *edi123Couple  over a year ago

aberystwyth


"I only meet new people at group socials or at the club. There's too many fake accounts and silhouette profiles that I don't want one to one socials. "

We also so the same!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Unfortunately it isn't just a male thing. I have arrived at places for meets only to find out a couple have freaked out at the realities or last-minute confessions from girls they are married or have Boyfriends and "it was flirting that has just got too far now"

I have been on and off Fab for years and unfortunately it has always been the same. People like to sit behind a screen but the realities become too much

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By *ory_xWoman  over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

This is so true

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By *edi123Couple  over a year ago

aberystwyth

You only have to read some of the subjects on the forum to see the kind of people this site attracts, all sorts of weird fetishes and comments. I wonder whether the people that post this crap realise they aren’t ever going to have a meet?

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By *ORDERMANMan  over a year ago

wrexham


"You only have to read some of the subjects on the forum to see the kind of people this site attracts, all sorts of weird fetishes and comments. I wonder whether the people that post this crap realise they aren’t ever going to have a meet?"

Totally agree most threads are started by fantasists who act as though they're in the school yard

.showing their immaturity and inexperience

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By *untiWoman  over a year ago

Newport

Not just the fakes, but the couples where they say both parties are happy with the arrangement and then one clearly isn't. Cue abuse and difficult situations. Key word is communication, but not used enough!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep or they meet expect fun and drive off!!! Then block you wish I could name and shame so others don’t get pulled in so gutted really putting this newbie off!! Have reported as a fake not who I expected but doubt anything will be done!!

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By *arriet54Woman  over a year ago

Newport

This stuff makes my blood boil!

We all have lifes, work, commitments etc..

Time is precious and wasting mine infuriates me!

If you get a better offer, don't want to meet/play just be decent about it.

On the flip side, met one who thought because I turned up he could wank in my car! The expectation is unreal and frankly rude.

Anyway rant over

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