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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I appreciate you need to meet prior to anything happening but if someone offers you a 1 to 1 meet over a coffee what do you talk about?!
I'm pretty easy going but don't really want to talk work etc lol!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the socials Ive been on recently we've talked about anything and everything. No sex talk as such as trying to see if there is an attraction there and I find if a male starts sex talk early on its a turn off for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the reply!
Yeah I get that- can't just turn up and talk sex!
This is all very new to me, I'm from the pub/club days where you meet randomly after a few drinks, a bum squeeze either way and go from there....... times have definitely changed!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same as you would on a date I guess. Talking and getting to know each other. If someone started talking sex on a social first meet it would feel so awkward for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine usually go….
Vanilla:
“How’s your day been?”
If they’ve disclosed anything personal I.E family kids or work “Busy day in work?” “How’s your son daughter?”
Non vanilla then:
“How long you been on fab, how you finding it?”
“Any bad meets?”
“What’s been your best experience?”
“What is it ideally you’re looking for?”
These take a while to discuss and if I feel we’ve chatted enough I make my excuse stating “so let’s go away and review, don’t worry if I’m not for you, fine, if I am, I hope to see you again”
If I feel it’s a no, it’s the same as above expect I won’t add the “hope to see you again”
It’s a good chance to see if they are a good kisser. If I like them I’ll allow it. Know if that kiss will make me weak at the knees. If I don’t I’ll just keep a distance. |
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