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By *actcjc OP Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
Hi all,
First time posting in the forum so please be nice!
A part of what I'm looking for on this site is to explore with women more, either alone or depending on how comfortable the other woman was, maybe doing this with S present at some point.
I recently attended my first social with a view to having the opportunity to meeting more like-minded women as I thought this may be the way to go and will continue to do this in future as it was great. As far as arranging on here, however, I am finding it quite difficult to firstly, find women who would be interested in this and secondly, how to approach it. I know some people may suggest going to clubs which we do intend to at some point, but not quite yet.
What I'm wondering is whether there are ever any female only socials arranged around the Swansea area and/or if not, whether anyone would be interested in doing something like this so that we get the chance to get to know each other a bit more?
Applogies for the ramble! Hope to hear from you, J x |
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"There have been ladies-only socials in the past, buy they aren't a regular thing.
Ah ok, that's a shame. Would be great to see one arranged in future x"
Go for it, arrange one, it isn't that difficult and I'm sure it would be very popular.
Start a thread in the Welsh forums.
Pick a venue, maybe ask one of the regular social organisers to suggest one, or pick a large pub. Be careful not to publicly give away the venue, just give a rough area where it is, like Swabsea City center for example.
Pick a date.
Suggest a start time.
Ask ladies to comment if they want to attend. Check they are a genuine lady and not a guy starting a profile to get the info lol.
Make a list, and closer to the due date mail them direct with the name and address of the venue, and a way to identify which table the group will be based around.
Turn up, meet, mingle and make new friends.  |
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By *actcjc OP Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
"There have been ladies-only socials in the past, buy they aren't a regular thing.
Ah ok, that's a shame. Would be great to see one arranged in future x
Go for it, arrange one, it isn't that difficult and I'm sure it would be very popular.
Start a thread in the Welsh forums.
Pick a venue, maybe ask one of the regular social organisers to suggest one, or pick a large pub. Be careful not to publicly give away the venue, just give a rough area where it is, like Swabsea City center for example.
Pick a date.
Suggest a start time.
Ask ladies to comment if they want to attend. Check they are a genuine lady and not a guy starting a profile to get the info lol.
Make a list, and closer to the due date mail them direct with the name and address of the venue, and a way to identify which table the group will be based around.
Turn up, meet, mingle and make new friends. "
Great advice thank you! I'll definitely look into getting this done. If anyone would be interested in helping arrange this then drop me a message x |
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By *actcjc OP Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
"Hi! I was looking for the same.
So I bit the bullet and went to some socials. The swansea social scene is super friendly. I’ve made some great friends.
Drop me a msg if you like x"
Will do x |
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"Hi! I was looking for the same.
So I bit the bullet and went to some socials. The swansea social scene is super friendly. I’ve made some great friends.
Drop me a msg if you like x"
This!!
It's very friendly and no need for people to be verified to be invited. Held in a pub with lots of other people, so safe too. The lady who runs it is very friendly and will meet new people outside, or have a trusted person to, if you are nervous. |
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By *actcjc OP Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
Thanks for the message. Yes, I recently attended the Swansea social and the people I spoke to there were incredibly friendly and welcoming, it's definitely given me the confidence to attend more x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There used to be a very successful female social in Swansea, it outgrew the venue & nowhere else was sorted. Going back years now, but some of you will remember it X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think women have much time to speak to other women because we're all so inundated !
I'd be all for a girls only social  "
I think most of us are suspicious that it's a fake account set up by a male  |
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By *actcjc OP Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
"I dont think women have much time to speak to other women because we're all so inundated !
I'd be all for a girls only social
I think most of us are suspicious that it's a fake account set up by a male "
I agree x |
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"I dont think women have much time to speak to other women because we're all so inundated !
I'd be all for a girls only social
I think most of us are suspicious that it's a fake account set up by a male "
100% this! It's so hard to know. |
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By *actcjc OP Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
It's great to see so much interest in this and I have had a number of private messages showing interest as well. I'm going away in a few days for two weeks but I'm happy to try and arrange something when I'm back so we can all get together x |
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