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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love to go to the bbw/bhm event but i have nobody to go with and i get horribly anxious around a lot of people i do not know"
Unfortunately you’re definitely going to limit your exposure then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that nobody is interested in me. Am I really that bad? "
Some members have given you some kind advice regarding attending social events. That may be your best chance of getting yourself known and maybe making some connections. Constantly moaning on the forum isn't going to be helpful. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that nobody is interested in me. Am I really that bad? "
Ummmm I think it's this attitude that's your problem, nothing to do with size or body hair. You asked for advice & advice was given, I prime example of a look at me post, rather than genuinely seeking advice. Thanks OP, these are really useful threads X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attitude stinks tbh mate. I would suggest rethinking your strategy rather than the self pity vote you’re going for. There are people of all shapes and sizes on here so there’s really someone for everyone. But like others have said get yourself to a social. Literally 5 minutes of anxiety and it’ll soon pass. Everyone feels the same at some point. |
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"Attitude stinks tbh mate. I would suggest rethinking your strategy rather than the self pity vote you’re going for. There are people of all shapes and sizes on here so there’s really someone for everyone. But like others have said get yourself to a social. Literally 5 minutes of anxiety and it’ll soon pass. Everyone feels the same at some point. "
My attitude stinks...... I'd like to remind you that I am not the person giving abuse to somebody who already has anxiety and confidence issues...... Lets be honest, You are not exactly coming out of this smelling of roses are you? |
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"My attitude stinks...... I'd like to remind you that I am not the person giving abuse to somebody who already has anxiety and confidence issues...... Lets be honest, You are not exactly coming out of this smelling of roses are you?"
If you have anxiety and confidence issues this may not be the best place for you. There's regular posts like you've made and the advice is always the same about going to group socials.
I'm sure you're not 'all that bad'... but... ignoring the advice given isn't helping you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My attitude stinks...... I'd like to remind you that I am not the person giving abuse to somebody who already has anxiety and confidence issues...... Lets be honest, You are not exactly coming out of this smelling of roses are you?
If you have anxiety and confidence issues this may not be the best place for you. There's regular posts like you've made and the advice is always the same about going to group socials.
I'm sure you're not 'all that bad'... but... ignoring the advice given isn't helping you."
I agree
OP if you already have confidence and self esteem issues then Fab is not going to make you feel any better, especially if you are not prepared to follow the advice that people have kindly given the time to give you then I can see why your attitude is coming across as poor. And in all honesty if you are too anxious to attend a group social event then I struggle to see how you would cope in a one to one sexual situation with a stranger. I have suffered with anxiety most of my life so you have my utmost empathy however you don't seem prepared to do anything to help yourself here. All the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My attitude stinks...... I'd like to remind you that I am not the person giving abuse to somebody who already has anxiety and confidence issues...... Lets be honest, You are not exactly coming out of this smelling of roses are you?
If you have anxiety and confidence issues this may not be the best place for you. There's regular posts like you've made and the advice is always the same about going to group socials.
I'm sure you're not 'all that bad'... but... ignoring the advice given isn't helping you.
I agree
OP if you already have confidence and self esteem issues then Fab is not going to make you feel any better, especially if you are not prepared to follow the advice that people have kindly given the time to give you then I can see why your attitude is coming across as poor. And in all honesty if you are too anxious to attend a group social event then I struggle to see how you would cope in a one to one sexual situation with a stranger. I have suffered with anxiety most of my life so you have my utmost empathy however you don't seem prepared to do anything to help yourself here. All the best "
True that! OP take some good advice when it’s offered fella |
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By *coutDWoman
over a year ago
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OP I just read your profile. Stop putting yourself down. Learn to like who you are or do work (mentally) to change that.
I’d be surprised if anyone replies to your messages with what you’ve written about yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP why so sensitive? Doesn’t matter about body or size. Just be confident and respectful with a dash of  self loathing and ignoring advice is not going to do you any favours |
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"OP has offered themselves to be pegged at a gang bang on another message thread in the forum.
So wouldn't have thought group socials will bother any confidence and anxiety issues they may have..."
That sounds like top tier level of confidence to me  |
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By *urves88Woman
over a year ago
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"OP has offered themselves to be pegged at a gang bang on another message thread in the forum.
So wouldn't have thought group socials will bother any confidence and anxiety issues they may have..."
I love fab, nowhere to hide
On a more serious note you asked a question OP, you were given sound advice, you took the pity route which won't bode well here...
All in all arguing with kind words and advice and recommendations won't see you in good stead. I get the anxiety etc but I listened a lot when I first joined this community and I went from being an anxiety ridden big girl who thought no-one would be interested to the sassy, cheeky, fucking gorgeous BBW I am today, and the BBW evebts have a big part to play for that.
Learn from what people offer here...nd try and have slightly thicker skin - trust me, you'll have a much better time xxx |
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