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Is there any interest in private gangbangs?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
Sorry for the random thread!
I have some experience organising gangbangs, used to do it regularly with my ex and a few friends, but I haven't done it in a few years since me and my ex broke up (outside of a few threesomes and stuff anyway)
Regardless, I do like the hosting aspect of organising attendees and setting one up, and of course who doesn't love the event itself too.
I was wondering if anyone in the South Wales area or near enough to easily travel would have any interest in attending something like this if I did it again?
The reason I ask is I know a lot of people already host group events and there is also Chams so I wanted to see if the demand was there - maybe you feel like these events already cover it and such a thing would be pointless?
If enough people seem to be interested then Id be happy to handle all boring/stressful aspects of this that most people don't want to get involved in.
So for example, hosting, either at my own house or booking a hotel. Arranging/buying drinks and snacks for everyone. Organising attendees and contacting them regarding directions/arrival time/rules, etc etc.
In other words all you'd need to do is register interest and turn up, with me handling everything else. However, I would need to be pretty strict with this - if you say yes I'll come then you need to come for example, or you won't be invited to another one. In my experience being lax with this results in a weird number of people attending or the wrong ratio of genders and can ruin everything, and the no show has taken someone else's space who probably would have attended. Same way everyone needs to be totally respectful both to the venue/myself and all other attendees.
These could be regular gangbangs or could be themed based on what people want - whether that's a greedy woman or two with a group of men, a greedy man or two doing vice versa, interracial, gay, whatever people are interested in. Even more out there themes like fancy dress or BDSM etc potentially if enough people are into it.
I just wanted to get people's opinions on this - I think it could swing either way, either I get a lot of people saying yes, let's do it, or everyone says we already go to chams this is a pointless idea lol....I'll sit down and not mention it again if the latter, but if the former I'd be stupid not to explore it!
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Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too |
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"Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too "
Echoes of "Killing Kittens" all over again!
We'll just sit over here with those that don't pass the bar as being "decent looking" or not "attractive enough".  |
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"Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too "
I’d defo be counted out then… |
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"Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too
Echoes of "Killing Kittens" all over again!
We'll just sit over here with those that don't pass the bar as being "decent looking" or not "attractive enough". "
what you on about your 2 sexy women |
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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago
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Great idea. I also think if you are the one being gang-banged, you have the rights to call the shots and who you want to participate.
Orgy, different story. We've all been there and fucked someone we wouldn't normally because of the situation. No one vets partners in the middle of an orgy.
Point is, not everyone is for everyone and it should always be good times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too
Echoes of "Killing Kittens" all over again!
We'll just sit over here with those that don't pass the bar as being "decent looking" or not "attractive enough". "
You are going to have your work cut out for you if you do it that way. Your going to run in to all types of problems. Not going to work out well at all. And no I'm not saying it because I know I would not make the cut as obviously you will have interest for sure |
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"Great idea. I also think if you are the one being gang-banged, you have the rights to call the shots and who you want to participate.
Orgy, different story. We've all been there and fucked someone we wouldn't normally because of the situation. No one vets partners in the middle of an orgy.
Point is, not everyone is for everyone and it should always be good times. "
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I think also some people will always try to move goal posts or boundries during a gangbang. These are the ones who will end the said gangbang very quickly and disappoint the other guys who have stuck to them. I know if i was being gangbanged and a guy tried anal when i had stated its not on the menu id get up and call an end to the play and want to leave. Vetting guys will be a nightmare for you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think also some people will always try to move goal posts or boundries during a gangbang. These are the ones who will end the said gangbang very quickly and disappoint the other guys who have stuck to them. I know if i was being gangbanged and a guy tried anal when i had stated its not on the menu id get up and call an end to the play and want to leave. Vetting guys will be a nightmare for you.
Mrs"
And no one would blame you |
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We gave up on gangbangs some time ago. Lots of guys saying " definitely be there" and on the night 2 or 3 turn up, once you start vetting guys you will be reducing the size of the pool to choose from even further. Best of luck though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you measure attractiveness? Is there a score chart or something? Or is it like Abs - tick. Girth - tick. Absence of cellulite- tick....
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Think it would be more like you get a reliable core group who you know are willing to attend, and if someone else wants to come you ask the “core group” what they think. If enough are attracted to them or willing to give them a chance then why not. If a significant amount say no then obviously it’s a problem. Wouldn’t want to be as strict as setting specific rules like that because we all know cellulite can be sexy for example |
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"We gave up on gangbangs some time ago. Lots of guys saying " definitely be there" and on the night 2 or 3 turn up, once you start vetting guys you will be reducing the size of the pool to choose from even further. Best of luck though."
Thanks for sharing your experience. I’ve had ones like that and ones where everyone turned up. I think it’s just a case of getting the right group and checking in on them and removing any that seem flakey. Certainly not implying it’s easy but should be worth it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think also some people will always try to move goal posts or boundries during a gangbang. These are the ones who will end the said gangbang very quickly and disappoint the other guys who have stuck to them. I know if i was being gangbanged and a guy tried anal when i had stated its not on the menu id get up and call an end to the play and want to leave. Vetting guys will be a nightmare for you.
Mrs"
Sorry to hear - I’ve never seen anything like that happen and I can assure you any lowlife playing those games would be the one leaving. That’s why there needs to be some sort of host or organiser to enforce what’s been agreed.
I would like to think this is easily avoided by choosing the nicest people and avoiding people with no feedback or overly young people etc but I do acknowledge that it’s a risk people would be concerned about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too
Echoes of "Killing Kittens" all over again!
We'll just sit over here with those that don't pass the bar as being "decent looking" or not "attractive enough".
You are going to have your work cut out for you if you do it that way. Your going to run in to all types of problems. Not going to work out well at all. And no I'm not saying it because I know I would not make the cut as obviously you will have interest for sure "
How so ? What kind of problems ? I do agree I’m not saying we won’t but I don’t think they’re insurmountable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too
Echoes of "Killing Kittens" all over again!
We'll just sit over here with those that don't pass the bar as being "decent looking" or not "attractive enough". "
You are very attractive though? And same for the woman who made a similar post.
Sorry for being unclear, but I’m not talking about any specific rules regarding looks, I’m talking about the other guests being interested enough, which may well be as much about personality and attitude as looks.
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"How do you measure attractiveness? Is there a score chart or something? Or is it like Abs - tick. Girth - tick. Absence of cellulite- tick....
Think it would be more like you get a reliable core group who you know are willing to attend, and if someone else wants to come you ask the “core group” what they think. If enough are attracted to them or willing to give them a chance then why not. If a significant amount say no then obviously it’s a problem. Wouldn’t want to be as strict as setting specific rules like that because we all know cellulite can be sexy for example "
Presumably you will be the one who selects members of the 'core group'? So the original question again, how do you measure attractiveness? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How do you measure attractiveness? Is there a score chart or something? Or is it like Abs - tick. Girth - tick. Absence of cellulite- tick....
Think it would be more like you get a reliable core group who you know are willing to attend, and if someone else wants to come you ask the “core group” what they think. If enough are attracted to them or willing to give them a chance then why not. If a significant amount say no then obviously it’s a problem. Wouldn’t want to be as strict as setting specific rules like that because we all know cellulite can be sexy for example
Presumably you will be the one who selects members of the 'core group'? So the original question again, how do you measure attractiveness? "
Attractiveness only matters in regards to attendees being at least somewhat attracted to each other. I personally wouldn’t be measuring that at all as whether I’m personally attracted to someone or not is mostly irrelevant. All I would be looking at for that core group you’re asking about is more things like having the right attitude, being enthusiastic, availability etc.
From a planning perspective, not being flaky or pushy is what matters. The attractiveness was brought up by someone else and is something that may or may not be important to attendees, but I’d be more asking their opinion than making any calls on that myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely interested!
Ex fwb/Dom organised multiple GB/bukkakes for me and were throughly enjoyed. I just hate the organisation aspect. "
Haha yeah. I think most people do and that's why these events don't happen as much as they should.
I'm willing to take that burden if it helps people have fun, but we'd need to be on the same page in regards to ground rules etc.
People obviously would need to be on time, clean, hygienic, well groomed, totally respectful and not rude or aggressive at all.
Is there anything else people would want to add to that list? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happy to be the empire and make sure all rules and limits are respected"
Appreciate that, good to know! In theory it shouldn't be needed if the rules are laid down early and the right people are chosen, and I can remove someone just fine without disturbing the rest, but people looking out for others is always good regardless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tagging this as interested in how this plays out. While organising these in the past for a Sub you get the...
Yeah I'm up for it, then cancel last minute.
Men who turn up and get get it up.
Men that think it's a social and talk for 2 hours lol.
Men who send pics from the 80s and look nothing like them.
Also interested in being part of the group but I'm not everyones cuppa coco.
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Absolutely. It would be more a case of verifications, face pic and cock pic for me.
Also, some fems may already have a list of men they already have in mind 
You're never going to please everyone. But be open, honest and good communication would be key to organising an event like this.
I wish you all the best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Absolutely. It would be more a case of verifications, face pic and cock pic for me.
Also, some fems may already have a list of men they already have in mind
You're never going to please everyone. But be open, honest and good communication would be key to organising an event like this.
I wish you all the best "
Thanks for your input. Verifications part makes sense for sure.
In regards to women who can already recommend men, that would be perfect as I assume those guys have already had meets with those women and are 100% trustworthy. I would love anyone to recommend people like that. But at the same time I doubt we'd get enough for a full event that way? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do the men get to vet the woman/women for attractiveness?
Asking for a friend  "
Well that's what I'm asking to be honest, nothing is set in stone as of yet.
I'd prefer it to be all attendees that are already on the list get to share their opinion on any potential new additions, regardless of gender.
Otherwise it's just me picking who I think is hot lol which is how you get terrible chemistry.
But at the same time if one person says no to somebody and everyone else says yes they will be coming, it's not like we get automatic veto powers lol. The person who said no can leave it if they're that unhappy.
And I hope this doesn't offend anyone but we all know men are more likely to be the issue |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tagging this as interested in how this plays out. While organising these in the past for a Sub you get the...
Yeah I'm up for it, then cancel last minute.
Men who turn up and get get it up.
Men that think it's a social and talk for 2 hours lol.
Men who send pics from the 80s and look nothing like them.
Also interested in being part of the group but I'm not everyones cuppa coco.
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Yep, can see that being the case. But I don't think it's impossible to avoid.
Someone mentioned using guys that are recommended by women and have already earned some trust, which makes sense
Outside of that we can use verifications and other methods to test how reliable people are
The pic thing can be solved by asking for a live pic with the date or similar.
The behavioural stuff they will just be out
I was originally thinking if it was in a hotel I'd cover all costs as I'd be happy to do that to help accommodate such an event and make it easier for people. Hell taking money from everyone and counting it up would be more effort than the money is worth anyway lol. But maybe we could implement some sort of deposit, that you only get back at the end if you attend the whole event and don't break any rules.
Would people be happy with that or could it be an issue? |
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" Yep, can see that being the case. But I don't think it's impossible to avoid.
Someone mentioned using guys that are recommended by women and have already earned some trust, which makes sense
Outside of that we can use verifications and other methods to test how reliable people are
The pic thing can be solved by asking for a live pic with the date or similar.
The behavioural stuff they will just be out
I was originally thinking if it was in a hotel I'd cover all costs as I'd be happy to do that to help accommodate such an event and make it easier for people. Hell taking money from everyone and counting it up would be more effort than the money is worth anyway lol. But maybe we could implement some sort of deposit, that you only get back at the end if you attend the whole event and don't break any rules.
Would people be happy with that or could it be an issue? "
Recommendations would be best i think.
A deposit would also be a good idea as there are SOOO MANY TIMEWASTERS here. |
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" Yep, can see that being the case. But I don't think it's impossible to avoid.
Someone mentioned using guys that are recommended by women and have already earned some trust, which makes sense
Outside of that we can use verifications and other methods to test how reliable people are
The pic thing can be solved by asking for a live pic with the date or similar.
The behavioural stuff they will just be out
I was originally thinking if it was in a hotel I'd cover all costs as I'd be happy to do that to help accommodate such an event and make it easier for people. Hell taking money from everyone and counting it up would be more effort than the money is worth anyway lol. But maybe we could implement some sort of deposit, that you only get back at the end if you attend the whole event and don't break any rules.
Would people be happy with that or could it be an issue?
Recommendations would be best i think.
A deposit would also be a good idea as there are SOOO MANY TIMEWASTERS here."
This! So many timewasters with events and even meets in general I find. All the fantasists that end up UNLOS. |
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"We gave up on gangbangs some time ago. Lots of guys saying " definitely be there" and on the night 2 or 3 turn up, once you start vetting guys you will be reducing the size of the pool to choose from even further. Best of luck though."
That was my main thaught guys not turning up and limiting your chances of anyone showing if vetting |
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"Already had one response saying that they are interested but that the most important part for them is high quality decent looking men. Agree with this totally and think we would need to make a group of interested people and have them "vet" people who are interested to see if they are attractive enough.
Last thing we want is half the room not being interested in the other half, would make the whole thing pointless and potentially hurt some feelings too
Echoes of "Killing Kittens" all over again!
We'll just sit over here with those that don't pass the bar as being "decent looking" or not "attractive enough".
You are going to have your work cut out for you if you do it that way. Your going to run in to all types of problems. Not going to work out well at all. And no I'm not saying it because I know I would not make the cut as obviously you will have interest for sure
How so ? What kind of problems ? I do agree I’m not saying we won’t but I don’t think they’re insurmountable "
Sorry I meant if your vetting guys by looks. After reading your other comments I can see that's not the case so that's on concern sorted.As someone said above most guys don't turn up so say you invite 20 you may get 2 turn up. The other issue was everyone is different so can't please everyone. And like one ladie said on hear some people will push there luck. There are some other small issues but can't think of them right now but seems like you know what your doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely interested!
Ex fwb/Dom organised multiple GB/bukkakes for me and were throughly enjoyed. I just hate the organisation aspect. "
And I would do it again |
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"Hi I can arrange a gang bang at my works had a few which had been great"
Hey, thanks for the reply, curious what you mean here, do you work at a hotel or something? |
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"Hi I can arrange a gang bang at my works had a few which had been great
Hey, thanks for the reply, curious what you mean here, do you work at a hotel or something? "
He had them at his work unit. Very reliable great time had by all. |
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"Hi I can arrange a gang bang at my works had a few which had been great
Hey, thanks for the reply, curious what you mean here, do you work at a hotel or something?
He had them at his work unit. Very reliable great time had by all. "
Sounds pretty good, is that just a unit in Caerphilly? What is it like in terms of furniture etc lol?
I am happy to host too btw but if this is bigger/better and closer to where most people live then its definitely worth a try |
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I’d love to join in on them OP. Count me in.
I think the deposit idea is good, even just a fiver as it means if people don’t show up, it covers at least some of the cost incurred to you (as you said you’d be willing to get snacks exc). Once you’ve met them once and know they are sticking to set rules from the people involved, they can maybe not pay again, to save the hassle to you
Telegram seems to be a good bet for setting them up- seen loads of groups set up recently with people on fab in and think it would be a good way to see how people would get on and not just have them turn up and fuck the event up- pun intended 
Having a group chat would also mean people could share pics of themselves to make sure everyone likes each other |
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"I’d love to join in on them OP. Count me in.
I think the deposit idea is good, even just a fiver as it means if people don’t show up, it covers at least some of the cost incurred to you (as you said you’d be willing to get snacks exc). Once you’ve met them once and know they are sticking to set rules from the people involved, they can maybe not pay again, to save the hassle to you
Telegram seems to be a good bet for setting them up- seen loads of groups set up recently with people on fab in and think it would be a good way to see how people would get on and not just have them turn up and fuck the event up- pun intended
Having a group chat would also mean people could share pics of themselves to make sure everyone likes each other "
Yeah I like this a lot, don't have Telegram but happy to download it if others agree with the idea/would be willing to join a group |
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Can I get confirmation that people would be willing to talk on telegram?? I’ll set one up today and invite people if so
Or do people prefer something else to talk on ? |
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"Can I get confirmation that people would be willing to talk on telegram?? I’ll set one up today and invite people if so
Or do people prefer something else to talk on ? "
Hi I would be interested in joining a group |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That ship has long sailed…"
is this posted in the right thread?
You messaged me via DM saying you were up for it and gave me your telegram so assume so haha x
Going to let a few more people say yes and then I'll make a group and get you all together |
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"That ship has long sailed…
is this posted in the right thread?
You messaged me via DM saying you were up for it and gave me your telegram so assume so haha x
Going to let a few more people say yes and then I'll make a group and get you all together "
Right thread. But it was meant as a response to somebody further up thread who I have a history with.
Sorry to derail! |
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I've thought about this before , as my wife has an insatiable drive once aroused (why we are on here) Ideally there would be male groups of 3 to 5 decent looking guys who are organised and comfortable with each other, that actually get tested knowing they will be working together at such a date. The MM profiles are a bit weak, but if there were MMM+ profiles where the vibe is cool and they know why they are there, have there own rules etc , it would make life so much more easy than randoms that could spoil the mood. And if you weren't confident like us, we could watch the same group in action in advance of our session. |
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"I've thought about this before , as my wife has an insatiable drive once aroused (why we are on here) Ideally there would be male groups of 3 to 5 decent looking guys who are organised and comfortable with each other, that actually get tested knowing they will be working together at such a date. The MM profiles are a bit weak, but if there were MMM+ profiles where the vibe is cool and they know why they are there, have there own rules etc , it would make life so much more easy than randoms that could spoil the mood. And if you weren't confident like us, we could watch the same group in action in advance of our session. "
I like this idea a lot too |
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"I can set up a group on telegram if you’d like me to Milo, can add you then and you can do what you need to to sort this out. "
I’m good I’ve already done it but send me your telegram if you wanna be in it |
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"Great idea. I also think if you are the one being gang-banged, you have the rights to call the shots and who you want to participate.
Orgy, different story. We've all been there and fucked someone we wouldn't normally because of the situation. No one vets partners in the middle of an orgy.
Point is, not everyone is for everyone and it should always be good times. "
Can you Dm Me? Setting a group up and adding people gradually but you’ve blocked messages so I can’t ask privately |
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