Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
Must be bonkers not to turn up to meet u |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here.
Must be bonkers not to turn up to meet u "
Thanks, both. Very delicious pics btw xx |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here.
Must be bonkers not to turn up to meet u
Thanks, both. Very delicious pics btw xx"
Ty urs too xx |
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"Welcome to the club. Keyboard warriors are a waste of time. "
Getting used to it now. They tell me they have the biggest cock and I'll get the best fuck I've ever had, and then they're a no-show. |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
had that lods of times, even had occasions I've gone out to meat people for them not to turn up and not reply, I've pretty much given up on this place for meats unfortunately.
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Did they have veris and were found to be genuine and reliable?
And when someone says they ‘have the biggest cock and will give a great time’ alarm bells ring for me for sure!!
My opinion is this is a massive gripe because anyone who looks at my account would see my veris and not a time waster at all, I’ve sent numerous messages and seem to get nowhere and then see posts like this, so maybe people need to look a bit deeper into things…..
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To me it makes absolutely no sense at all. Why spend time chatting to someone, finding a connection that makes you both want to play and then not turning up! Is it just me or has the fab world gone mad?
As has previously been said, definitely their loss and sounds like a lucky escape for you! |
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Ironically I've just had the opposite.
I initiated things and started chatting with a couple who stated the same as you, sick of time wasters.
We arranged to meet. On the day, I messaged at lunch to confirm things and they said yes fine after 4pm they will let me know when they're free.
Half hour later THEY blocked ME.
Which is really odd. If you change your mind or get nervous just be honest and apologize.
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I had 2 no shows in 1 day last week, i had travelled an hour to meet someone for a social, they then blocked me when i asked what time they would be coming.
Arranged another meet for on the way back and again no show amd ghosted. |
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We’ve been let down many times.
We decided after a break from meeting single men we would start meeting again. We went away to west wales and met a bloke for a social on the Friday night. We agreed to meet on the Saturday for fun. Gave him the address and said come over about 7. Up until 3 he was excited to come. Then just didn’t turn up, no call, text or message on fab. Then no apology! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
don’t know what he’s missing out on stupid man x
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"And that’s one reason why genuine men have a hard time meeting on here sometimes "
This.
I imagine those who time waste are the ones just want a convenient quickie and have either had a "better offer" or has a wank and changed their mind lol |
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Just had the same happen to me. Been chatting for a while to a single lady, swapped pictures arranged meeting this afternoon, spoke this morning now just tried to message and I’m blocked
What a waste of time!!! |
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We had more cpls than singles waste our time. We chatted to a few for weeks and then they ghost you for no reason what so ever. Chin up lovely you are not the only ones on here being messed about. Joanne.x |
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"Just had the same happen to me. Been chatting for a while to a single lady, swapped pictures arranged meeting this afternoon, spoke this morning now just tried to message and I’m blocked
What a waste of time!!!"
i had exactly the same happen last night from a couple. literally an hour befor meeting and blocked ? |
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over a year ago
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This is a good read. Everyone has a valid point here, and all are correct! I've personally given up on couples profiles due to it mainly being a man. Barely bother with any new profiles as it's just people who can talk the talk and not walk the walk or... is a man. Do love those profiles where it states a couple but when you read the bio... "really want my wife to cheat on me but she needs persuading" they make me chuckle. I can't talk for the whole of Wales but west wales is a shit show for fake/useless/time wasting accounts. |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
Know it’s shite, but his loss you look fab |
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By *onwelshMan
over a year ago
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"Another one! Said no to a friend's request prior to a meet, chucked his dummy out of the pram and blocked me. Brilliant! Starting to get amusing. "
This place is full of time wasters unfortunately. I have turned up to so many places and been stood up, you wouldnt believe some of the excuses ffs.
I pride myself on being genuine and dont understand why so many people mess others around.
If you want to chat to a decent respectful guy sometime, just let me know x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with what's been said here.
Too many non genuine people on here acting like kids, and giving those genuine playmates many reasons to leave the site.
It's the few that do stick to their word, and show some respect, that keeps us from leaving x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think couples are the worst for this l've had one couple send me their address and when I turned up and knocked the door an old lady answered I felt terrible low and behold I'd been blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow! Now that's a new low I've heard of on here! That's disgusting. You can still report profiles that have blocked you can't you? I've not tried before so not sure but for something like that I certainly would have! Disgusting behaviour. |
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over a year ago
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I'd also like to add... when you get blocked after talking for a couple of days and get to the point of showing a face photo and straight after your blocked because they haven't the balls to tell you sorry you're not for me. Thats just happened this morning. Infuriating! |
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I've been on the site for 10 years and have really noticed a difference in the amount of timewasters and fakes increasing. Even though I try my best to them out I've still had many meets cancelled last minute, even when I've been on the way to meet them and this has included verified people. I really don't see a solution to the issue it's just one of the drawbacks of the lifestyle and being on here you've got to take the good with the bad and some can talk the talk but can't walk the walk when it comes to it |
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Naming and shaming is banned because it would be abused by the same type of people that waste people's time not going through with meets.
For every meet I've had there's many more that it was talked about but didn't get far. After a while you can pick up the red flags of a time waster. |
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"Naming and shaming is banned because it would be abused by the same type of people that waste people's time not going through with meets.
For every meet I've had there's many more that it was talked about but didn't get far. After a while you can pick up the red flags of a time waster."
Ok thanks thought it was but just wanted to check  |
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over a year ago
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Meant to have a meet last week
Confirmed time and everything
Admittedly I may have been a tad persistent (not pushy more down to them being late) they explained that it was a family entanglement but still never showed
Haven't heard from them since |
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By *olejojoWoman
over a year ago
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I couldn’t write it since coming back on here - key board warriors who have no intention of meeting . I had a meet lined up this week organised then nothing no reply … i think I may stick to clubs and venture to new ones . |
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I can’t begin to tell you how many times we’ve been messed about over the last year. As a slightly different profile, I think we get messed about even more. Yet again today booked a hotel for a meet then the person we meeting not free. Takes the piss |
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over a year ago
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I read somewhere that it's a case of postnut depression that causes men to back out last minute.
The surge of hormones they get thinking about the meet, they crack one off and then oops! The reality of the situation dawns on them and they panic. Their brain is telling them they got the release they needed. They panic about the situation and the promises they made and run away. Until next time they want to crack one off. Its sad that people can be that selfish |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
gives the genuine single males a bad rep then |
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If i arrange a meet ill show up even if theres no chemistry and it turns into a social, i love banter and getting to know people in the lifestyle, the main problem is the number of couples and single ladies (with good reason after some of the experiences ive heard about) wont contemplate a single guy. |
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By *onwelshMan
over a year ago
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
Have had a few arranged meets waste my time recently. One in particular, made me drive to there house more than 40 miles away. But when I got there logged off and ignored me. Then messaged a day later saying that the female fainted just before I got there and they were waiting for an ambulance. Bit if a talk story as I sat there for a bloody hour and no sign of life anywhere from the house. Oh well.
Would drop you a private message to chat but you seem to have me blocked, not sure if its all single men or just me. Cant imagine why though as I am one of fabs genuine x |
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Their loss as you look amazing. Its sad that people.do this. I wpuld not dream of doing it, if you have that connection and both agree then it is rude nkt to tuen up. It can have a real negative affect on some people sending them into a real downer.
I hope you find a new connection. I hope people learn something from all these posts. |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
For some unknown reason you have blocked me, timewaster I am not lol . |
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Had one recently. Met at the Swansea social, carried on chatting on here. Made plans to meet in ours. He did ask for a social on my own, which I declined. Few days before he said he’s hidden his profile but still there and looking forward the meet. Then completely disappeared just before the meet was to happen. Hmmm
I rather meet people in clubs. No planning.. just in the moment. |
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"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
It's a shame really, many of us want to get along and send friend requests to network which could lead to a brilliant sesh, but all we get is ghosting, deleting and blocking...not on really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I able to name and shame or is that not allowed?"
Name and shame the best way I have the same problem spend so much money to travel to a meet up and they don't show up that why I don't accommodate or travel knaw |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get blocked by people that I have not even talked to also some dont even know why they have blocked me. But that's fine by me plenty of fish in the sea |
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Had a number of people arranging meets then disappearing
Had 1 do it then message again the week after,,,,,
I thought let's see if they are serial and yup they did it again.
They have varies too, although hidden
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Sorry to read this op. This has happened to me once they just disappeared off fab. I was in contact on another medium so asked why. Didn't get a response for months then had the cheek to ask to meet again no apology, so a polite no was given.
I guess there a some who choose to behave a certain way its a shame but just the way some are. |
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I’ve had my fair share of time wasters, it’s made me abit wiser now.
I recently met a traveling Hotwife that was staying in a local hotel, for work. She was here Monday-Friday. She had arranged socials with 3 other guys and all 3 let her down.
In my eyes there needs to be a better verification process.
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