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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all
I’m a complete virgin when it comes to swinger clubs but have always wanted to experience it.
In spite of my trepidation, I’m considering going to chams tonight. What’s the vibe like? I know the obvious protocols of not being a dick (I’m not a dick anyway), but what’s it like? Who goes? Who’s going later? what do I need to bring? Can I just rock up and pay or do I need to contact beforehand etc
Ideally need my hand held by someone who is experienced there as I’m the new boy in class haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all
I’m a complete virgin when it comes to swinger clubs but have always wanted to experience it.
In spite of my trepidation, I’m considering going to chams tonight. What’s the vibe like? I know the obvious protocols of not being a dick (I’m not a dick anyway), but what’s it like? Who goes? Who’s going later? what do I need to bring? Can I just rock up and pay or do I need to contact beforehand etc
Ideally need my hand held by someone who is experienced there as I’m the new boy in class haha"
You might want to ring first, there's a waiting list for single men. Plus you'll need ID when you do join. |
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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago
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Club memberships are now:
Single ladies: first night £10.00, subsequent visits £10.00
Couples: first night £50.00, subsequent visits £28.00
Single men: guest membership for 2 visits costing £50.00 each. Then you will be added to the waiting list. When a space is available you will be contacted and it is £105.00 membership. Subsequent visits £35.00
Two forms of ID each are essential. One must be a photo ID (passport or driving licence), the other must be a utility bill with your address or council tax bill. If you live apart then you need to provide utility bills for both your homes.
They will not accept any membership requests on BBW event nights.
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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago
42 Wallaby Way Syndey |
Call the club to see if there is availability for a guest membership.
Now for CJ's invaluable advice:
I thought it might be useful and pinch some parts of an older post to give you fellas some tips on club etiquette.
This is based on my many years of attending clubs and YOU GUYS NEED TO READ THIS !
Firstly, congratulations on making the big step to the wonderful world of swinging clubs. They are a lot of fun but don't be fooled, sex is not guaranteed especially for single guys and unless you want to be banned RESPECT IS KEY.
1. NO TOUCHING!!! This may sound stupid but hear me out. Clubs are designed for like minded people in the lifestyle to meet up and socialise in a safe environment. Unless you are given permission, DONT TOUCH anyone. It may seem inviting when a couple are going at it right next to you but always ask permission first. If they say yes, good effort but remember to be respectful. Don't do a Trump and grab her by the pussy unless you want a few missing teeth after. Just like day to day life, CONSENT IS REQUIRED, just because its in a club doesn't mean it isn't the real word. Respect everyone.
2. BOUNDARIES!!! We all get a bit lost in the moment sometimes but defining clear boundaries is the best way to have a good time. Ask what each other like, dislike or want to try. If it ain't on the happy list, don't do it. Once again it is all about consent, ensure that if you are gonna try doing something new, that everyone is happy with it. If not, move on.
3. DOORS!!! Bit of a random one this but alot of guys seem to forget it. If you are doing the rounds and seeing what is about and you see a closed door... leave it. Doors are a way of invitation. If a door is closed it means the people in it want to be left alone. Don't try and break it down. If a door is open, that is usually an indication that they are inviting people to join in or watch. If that's the case, refer to my previous 2 steps. If you do happen to enter a room with people playing, be respectful. Some couples love being watched and will be putting on a show for you but always ask permission first.
4. COHERENCE!!! Need abit of Dutch courage to go into a club? That's fine, but necking a bottle of vodka isn't going to help you. If you are going to drink before hand just remember that although you may seem fine, other people may perceive you differently. Also you want to be able to remember all the lovely people you meet so sometimes less is more. Trust me when I say that no-one is impressed by your 12 pints and still get a hard on routine.
5.HYGEINE!!! Make sure your hygiene is on top form Lads, no lady wants a smelly cock waved in their faces let alone in their mouth. Make sure you wash before and after any activities. Their are showers everywhere in clubs for this exact reason.
6.CONDOMS!!! Most places sell them for dirt cheap, if you are going to play with new people, ask them if they play safe, if it's a yes then chuck a pillow case on regardless of "whether or not you like them." This is about keeping people safe and ensuring that the fun can continue.
7.INTERACTION please, please, please, talk to people! There is nothing worse than a single guy wandering the club who doesn't talk to anyone and then expects to get intimate when things are happening in an open room.
Don't be one of the wanking dead, be brave and talk to people. We are all there for the same lifestyle, so why not talk about it to others ?
Most importantly remember that Swinging Clubs are not "fuck me now" clubs. They are by design there for people to meet, socialise and be safe. Playing is an added bonus. Be respectful to each other and you are more likely to be invited to a room. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey all
I’m a complete virgin when it comes to swinger clubs but have always wanted to experience it.
In spite of my trepidation, I’m considering going to chams tonight. What’s the vibe like? I know the obvious protocols of not being a dick (I’m not a dick anyway), but what’s it like? Who goes? Who’s going later? what do I need to bring? Can I just rock up and pay or do I need to contact beforehand etc
Ideally need my hand held by someone who is experienced there as I’m the new boy in class haha
You might want to ring first, there's a waiting list for single men. Plus you'll need ID when you do join. "
Ah I guessed it wouldn’t be straightforward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all
I’m a complete virgin when it comes to swinger clubs but have always wanted to experience it.
In spite of my trepidation, I’m considering going to chams tonight. What’s the vibe like? I know the obvious protocols of not being a dick (I’m not a dick anyway), but what’s it like? Who goes? Who’s going later? what do I need to bring? Can I just rock up and pay or do I need to contact beforehand etc
Ideally need my hand held by someone who is experienced there as I’m the new boy in class haha
You might want to ring first, there's a waiting list for single men. Plus you'll need ID when you do join.
Ah I guessed it wouldn’t be straightforward "
As Mama Craig said, if you could find someone to take you as their guest, that might be your best option. Or try bi night on Saturday when it's back to being the Greenhouse. No membership needed, just the entry fee.
Good luck, I hope you get your club experience soon! |
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Me and the hubby are going this evening with a friend of ours but she is taking a guest already unfortunately but I'm sure we would be happy to meet you and guide you in and show you around if you wanted to still attend. We have all been going for a few years and happy to help a lone ranger when the occasion calls. Our friends guest is a newbie to the club tonight too so you would have a fellow man in the same situation as you x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey all
I’m a complete virgin when it comes to swinger clubs but have always wanted to experience it.
In spite of my trepidation, I’m considering going to chams tonight. What’s the vibe like? I know the obvious protocols of not being a dick (I’m not a dick anyway), but what’s it like? Who goes? Who’s going later? what do I need to bring? Can I just rock up and pay or do I need to contact beforehand etc
Ideally need my hand held by someone who is experienced there as I’m the new boy in class haha
You might want to ring first, there's a waiting list for single men. Plus you'll need ID when you do join.
Ah I guessed it wouldn’t be straightforward
As Mama Craig said, if you could find someone to take you as their guest, that might be your best option. Or try bi night on Saturday when it's back to being the Greenhouse. No membership needed, just the entry fee.
Good luck, I hope you get your club experience soon! "
Thanks xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Me and the hubby are going this evening with a friend of ours but she is taking a guest already unfortunately but I'm sure we would be happy to meet you and guide you in and show you around if you wanted to still attend. We have all been going for a few years and happy to help a lone ranger when the occasion calls. Our friends guest is a newbie to the club tonight too so you would have a fellow man in the same situation as you x "
Really kind of you x |
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"Call the club to see if there is availability for a guest membership.
Now for CJ's invaluable advice:
I thought it might be useful and pinch some parts of an older post to give you fellas some tips on club etiquette.
This is based on my many years of attending clubs and YOU GUYS NEED TO READ THIS !
Firstly, congratulations on making the big step to the wonderful world of swinging clubs. They are a lot of fun but don't be fooled, sex is not guaranteed especially for single guys and unless you want to be banned RESPECT IS KEY.
1. NO TOUCHING!!! This may sound stupid but hear me out. Clubs are designed for like minded people in the lifestyle to meet up and socialise in a safe environment. Unless you are given permission, DONT TOUCH anyone. It may seem inviting when a couple are going at it right next to you but always ask permission first. If they say yes, good effort but remember to be respectful. Don't do a Trump and grab her by the pussy unless you want a few missing teeth after. Just like day to day life, CONSENT IS REQUIRED, just because its in a club doesn't mean it isn't the real word. Respect everyone.
2. BOUNDARIES!!! We all get a bit lost in the moment sometimes but defining clear boundaries is the best way to have a good time. Ask what each other like, dislike or want to try. If it ain't on the happy list, don't do it. Once again it is all about consent, ensure that if you are gonna try doing something new, that everyone is happy with it. If not, move on.
3. DOORS!!! Bit of a random one this but alot of guys seem to forget it. If you are doing the rounds and seeing what is about and you see a closed door... leave it. Doors are a way of invitation. If a door is closed it means the people in it want to be left alone. Don't try and break it down. If a door is open, that is usually an indication that they are inviting people to join in or watch. If that's the case, refer to my previous 2 steps. If you do happen to enter a room with people playing, be respectful. Some couples love being watched and will be putting on a show for you but always ask permission first.
4. COHERENCE!!! Need abit of Dutch courage to go into a club? That's fine, but necking a bottle of vodka isn't going to help you. If you are going to drink before hand just remember that although you may seem fine, other people may perceive you differently. Also you want to be able to remember all the lovely people you meet so sometimes less is more. Trust me when I say that no-one is impressed by your 12 pints and still get a hard on routine.
5.HYGEINE!!! Make sure your hygiene is on top form Lads, no lady wants a smelly cock waved in their faces let alone in their mouth. Make sure you wash before and after any activities. Their are showers everywhere in clubs for this exact reason.
6.CONDOMS!!! Most places sell them for dirt cheap, if you are going to play with new people, ask them if they play safe, if it's a yes then chuck a pillow case on regardless of "whether or not you like them." This is about keeping people safe and ensuring that the fun can continue.
7.INTERACTION please, please, please, talk to people! There is nothing worse than a single guy wandering the club who doesn't talk to anyone and then expects to get intimate when things are happening in an open room.
Don't be one of the wanking dead, be brave and talk to people. We are all there for the same lifestyle, so why not talk about it to others ?
Most importantly remember that Swinging Clubs are not "fuck me now" clubs. They are by design there for people to meet, socialise and be safe. Playing is an added bonus. Be respectful to each other and you are more likely to be invited to a room."
Great updates and thanks for posting - we will get there one Friday or Saturday night  |
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