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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand that being attached puts a lot of women off, just wondering what the general consensus is ? Not here to be judged as we all have our reasons for being on here. Just asking for a general opinion really. |
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Unfortunately it's not our thing, we would never knowingly play with someone attached man or woman. Even if discretion is assured you never know if you will get a message or knock on the door. Unfortunately it does happen if someone isn't forthcoming to begin with but that's the same concept for alot of other swinging/playing situations |
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By *icar73Man
over a year ago
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Hi Slush, just read your post re cheating.
It's good to hear some honesty instead of all the preachy crap in most posts.
Just looked at your profile,was going to fab some pics but option not available.
Wishing you lots of fun down there in Wales
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Slush, just read your post re cheating.
It's good to hear some honesty instead of all the preachy crap in most posts.
Just looked at your profile,was going to fab some pics but option not available.
Wishing you lots of fun down there in Wales
xx"
Thanks, it's not a popular view but at least I'm honest & yes I've been both sides of this particular fence X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I don't understand why some people get so up themselves and judgemental. This is a swinging site - there are a lot of people in the vanilla world who would cast a very negative view of absolutely anyone using a site like this full stop, regardless of whether they are "cheating" or not. The reasons for those who "cheat" are not always as black and white as some this site's "morality Police" might like to think - there can be a whole host of reasons and it is not for anyone else to judge, especially when you have absolutely no idea of circumstances. I am not condoning "cheating", but to paraphrase a well-known book "let those without sin cast the first stone"... |
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"Cheaters no
Ethical non monogamy very welcome"
Pretty much the above. If people want to cheat thats up to them (no judgement) but we do not want to get involved where we might get hassle off their partners. |
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"Personally I don't understand why some people get so up themselves and judgemental. This is a swinging site - there are a lot of people in the vanilla world who would cast a very negative view of absolutely anyone using a site like this full stop, regardless of whether they are "cheating" or not. The reasons for those who "cheat" are not always as black and white as some this site's "morality Police" might like to think - there can be a whole host of reasons and it is not for anyone else to judge, especially when you have absolutely no idea of circumstances. I am not condoning "cheating", but to paraphrase a well-known book "let those without sin cast the first stone"..."
Ok but we swingers have the right to meet/not meet who we dont want to just like vanilla people. Even in vanilla life id not meet a guy who was playing without their partners knowledge. |
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