"I often send a wink to show interest and if there’s a wink back or a fab back then follow up with a message!
Saves overwhelming already full mailboxes that way 
This 100%"
I do this at times aswel. Doesn't work for me though  |
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Yeh we tend to send a wink to show interest in profile as said previously people can have multiple messages on a daily show send a wink to show interest and if a wink back happy days if not then saves messaging |
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I do wink, usually to people i consider way out of my league. If i get a wink back then i..... um.... don't really know what id do as its never happened  |
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I used to bulk delete them without viewing, and I said that at the top of my profile. I even put that in my status at one point I think! There was just a stage where I had loads, but didn't see the point.
Then weirdly I realised I was starting to used them myself every now and again..
I think they are actually quite useful for 'poking' people who you think there may be an outside chance they are into what you are into etc (or might travel etc).
Of course you are taking a chance on them seeing the winks, but sometimes that doesn't matter.
Also, I have an old dom who winks at me every now and again just to say that he's about! -pt |
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I love a wink and do it to show interest….some consider lazy but I feel if a wink is reciprocated then it makes the opening message less pressurised and easier!! |
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We don’t mind winks and sometimes we do wink back if interested/intrigued. However we prefer someone to have read our profile and send a sensible message with recent photos as this grabs our attention much more  |
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"We don’t mind winks and sometimes we do wink back if interested/intrigued. However we prefer someone to have read our profile and send a sensible message with recent photos as this grabs our attention much more "
This pretty much sums us up also
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"I often receive winks from couples. Whenever I’ve dropped them a message as a follow up they never email back - that makes the wink frustrating!!"
Yeah I've had this a few times recently from couples and singles. Massively frustrating!!! |
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