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"What are you scared of specifically..??
Your missus sounds like she wants to help you explore this..sounds like a great start to me  "
yes she does she is brill like that I guess for me it's just nerves really |
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"What are you scared of specifically..??
Your missus sounds like she wants to help you explore this..sounds like a great start to me yes she does she is brill like that I guess for me it's just nerves really "
My advice would be to go to a club on a bi night, catch a guy’s eye and go for it  |
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It is nerve wracking the first time but also very erotic. I have nerves every time but more mixed with excited tension now. My ex and I both loved the experiences we had. Just make sure it’s what you both want and go for it. If you don’t like, don’t do it again! |
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We used to find the same thing and had a couple of guys get stroppy when my cock went anywhere near them. We used to make it very clear in the end that, the female half of our couple expected to see the guys play first before she’d join. That seemed to out the chancers. |
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Had a couple of bi meets but still nervous about it, had a few glasses of wine for dutch courage before they came around. As long as they know it is your first time and you pick the right person they will go at your pace. Stick some porn on as well helped |
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It's very much a mind game, your first bi time! I (Rob) was so nervous on my first time but it just felt surprisingly normal. It was a quick mutual oral / wank and away we went.
I think if you can arrange a bi mmf then it would ease things in (so to speak ) much easier. |
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By *mg12Man
over a year ago
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"Where trying to find something similar, although finding someone genuine who is not just there to fumble just to f&£k the wife is a hard."
Are you willing to accept messages off single bi guys? |
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By *alclmMan
over a year ago
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"I'm a bi guy in a relationship with a female and she wants to see me explore my bi side, I would love to but I'm too scared to anyone ever feel like this?"
Hi.
I think that you are lucky
Wish am the one to join you Both.
Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let her suck him, then you could wank his cock as she sucks, then you could take it in turns to suck. Sounds like a great way to start to me.
P.s let me know when I can help you with that  |
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"I'm a bi guy in a relationship with a female and she wants to see me explore my bi side, I would love to but I'm too scared to anyone ever feel like this?"
We meet bi guys, mainly at home but also in clubs, just for blow jobs.
I'd recommend maybe getting a fab guys account. The reason is it goes a long way to ing out the "straight but I'll do it" guys who may actually just be after your wife, but will tolerate a guy.
Enjoy! |
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"I'm a bi guy in a relationship with a female and she wants to see me explore my bi side, I would love to but I'm too scared to anyone ever feel like this?
We meet bi guys, mainly at home but also in clubs, just for blow jobs.
I'd recommend maybe getting a fab guys account. The reason is it goes a long way to ing out the "straight but I'll do it" guys who may actually just be after your wife, but will tolerate a guy.
Enjoy! "
Just go for it, with right couple an amazing experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice would be to just go for it, before I had my first bi meet I found that the longer I thought about it the more likely I was to convince myself that I didn’t really want to do it xx
On the day of my first meet I was a bag of nerves right up until the fun started and then the nerves just went and I had a really great time xx |
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"What are you scared of specifically..??
Your missus sounds like she wants to help you explore this..sounds like a great start to me yes she does she is brill like that I guess for me it's just nerves really
My advice would be to go to a club on a bi night, catch a guy’s eye and go for it "
I'd agree with this, you can watch &/or join in at your own pace X |
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"I'm a bi guy in a relationship with a female and she wants to see me explore my bi side, I would love to but I'm too scared to anyone ever feel like this?"
There’s some really good advice on this thread already, but I’d also add: most bi guys, even ones who are now experienced with people of all genders, will remember being in a similar situation to you at some point in the past.
So don’t worry about setting clear boundaries, being super honest about what you’ve already tried, and what you’d like to try, and owning the place you’re at in your “bi journey” when chatting beforehand.
That’ll be your sorting hat. Most guys will know exactly what that feels like and be happy to abide. People who are not respectful of that, or of the chance that you might change your mind about something in the moment? Well you don’t want to play with them anyway.
Good luck, brother. We’ve all been there. X |
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I’d also second the suggestion of a club bi night. Might, weirdly, be less pressure than a pre-arranged meet.
You can meet some new people, socialise, maybe watch some guys/mixed gender groups playing in the more open spaces, and if you’re still too nervous then have a hot & heavy private session with your partner in a room once you’re both all cranked up! |
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My only experience was with a couple in a threesome was his first time with a guy too. We explored a little and all 3 of us swapped about. I was so nervous but it really was so much fun and so horny would love to do it again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all more than happy to help any couples ,I’m polite , respectful of all boundaries, discreet and can travel or accommodate. Feel free to get in touch xx |
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