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All women are psychos
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’ve had a very enlightening evening hearing some stories about men on the scene who have labelled me “psycho” and a “loony”.
I’ve also heard how these same men have referred to other women I know here in the same way. There seems to be a pattern that these men get called out for their dickish behaviour and then their immediate retaliation is to tell everyone these women are psychos.
I’m curious as to how multiple women can all have the same “psycho” attitude towards the same men.
There’s 3 men in particular that have the same issues with multiple women so MAYBE, we’re not the problem? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are just so many of them.
I don’t know why men don’t understand that women talk. We find out everything. So we may be a “psycho” but we can’t all be wrong when we have the same problems with the same men haha x |
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"There are just so many of them.
I don’t know why men don’t understand that women talk. We find out everything. So we may be a “psycho” but we can’t all be wrong when we have the same problems with the same men haha x"
I don't think some guys on here realise that a lot of the ladies know each other personally and are in WhatsApp groups together. They don't realise (or care maybe) one dick move or comment and their name goes around faster than stabbed rat.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Definitely. As long as those I care about know the real me and like the real me, I don’t care about the other comments. Their name gets tarnished so fast they ruin it for themselves.
Just want to make a point of saying we really appreciate those guys, especially those single guys, that really are the good eggs and get tarred with the same brush unfairly. We notice you and that gets talked about between us too! |
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I think some of it is entitlement. Guys that do well with women in real life don't seem to understand that sites like this level the playing field. They get the brush off and suddenly the ego is damaged. The only way they can retaliate is with insults and accusations. Hope that makes sense, it's been a long day lol |
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By *CDecauxMan
over a year ago
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Joys of being too honest and up front about stuff. Some guys just can’t take it when you don’t fawn all over them and give them entirely what they want.
If only they knew you in real life…can’t bloody get rid of you  xx |
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"We had an entitled guy message the other week, wanted everything done on his terms or he wouldn't meet us.. called us prudish and fake.. "
I cant belive he was calling the shots ? I'd have hit the block button and moved on as i'm sure you get plenty of offers. |
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"I think some of it is entitlement. Guys that do well with women in real life don't seem to understand that sites like this level the playing field. They get the brush off and suddenly the ego is damaged. The only way they can retaliate is with insults and accusations. Hope that makes sense, it's been a long day lol"
like the comment on my single male club advice post. ffs I'm only trying to help them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The problem is a bit harder when you have to see them at clubs/parties/events etc and it’s hard for women to get the support when we report them as these things are either run by men or they make the most money from single men so they’re reluctant to get involved.
Just as long as us women (and the good men) communicate and share our experiences, we can look after each other |
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"I think some of it is entitlement. Guys that do well with women in real life don't seem to understand that sites like this level the playing field. They get the brush off and suddenly the ego is damaged. The only way they can retaliate is with insults and accusations. Hope that makes sense, it's been a long day lol
like the comment on my single male club advice post. ffs I'm only trying to help them "
Yeah I thought that was a bit over the top to be be fair. If you've got an opinion then you've got the right to say it. But Jesus, considering it was the only post on the entire thread it was a bit much. I gave it a psycho rating of 4 and a half chainsaws  |
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"The problem is a bit harder when you have to see them at clubs/parties/events etc and it’s hard for women to get the support when we report them as these things are either run by men or they make the most money from single men so they’re reluctant to get involved.
Just as long as us women (and the good men) communicate and share our experiences, we can look after each other "
You won’t have to worry about running into these assholes at clubs or events. You’re already well established in the community and we will always be there to support you hun. Don’t let a bunch of childish idiots ruin your experience. You are a blast lovely and FAB wouldn’t be the same without you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm more confused by the fact that all these women have the same issue with these selective men and they are thought of negatively yet they are getting more responses than a lot of the genuine decent guys here lol not sure if that tells me more about them or about the women on this site currently |
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One thing I've come to discover Hun is when dealing with this type of 'male' you will never win even when it's totally there problem and not yours.
They will go on about wanting a "dirty, naughty, slutty" woman but if you do something that doesn't fit there idea of what that is, as In too much or not enough that's the president to then labell you with multiple titles as they throw there dummies out because they carnt get there own way or you dare to say " urm no actually your a bit of a dick" lol but as you rightfully pointed out they don't realise that although most of us understand discretion and privacy within swinging and wouldn't influence others decisions on people if they draw first blood we woman especially will not hesitate to inform another woman usually a friend that infact there attitude is stinking and the experience may not be as appealing as they think.
A wise woman once told us " never stick your dick in crazy" but on this particular occasion the advice works perfectly well in reverse haha x
Your bloody lush |
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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago
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I use the forums and the statuses to out a lot of men showing narcissistic red flags. Saves a lot of hassle. We look after each other in this community and these type of men don't do well on this site or the clubs. Narcissists only get so far before their true colours are shown. Thats why so many leave and come back with a new screenname. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’ve had a very enlightening evening hearing some stories about men on the scene who have labelled me “psycho” and a “loony”.
I’ve also heard how these same men have referred to other women I know here in the same way. There seems to be a pattern that these men get called out for their dickish behaviour and then their immediate retaliation is to tell everyone these women are psychos.
I’m curious as to how multiple women can all have the same “psycho” attitude towards the same men.
There’s 3 men in particular that have the same issues with multiple women so MAYBE, we’re not the problem?
Thoughts?"
Agreed!! |
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I'm definitely in agreement that the males are worse as the ratio is very male dominant so there's 99 dickheads to every lady!I've had abuse from blokes too when I turn them down but I've also had the same from several ladies too. Narcissism at its finest isn't it. Block, report and move on....I'm happy to be called anything under the moon for saying no, the problem definitely isn't us! |
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"I'm definitely in agreement that the males are worse as the ratio is very male dominant so there's 99 dickheads to every lady!I've had abuse from blokes too when I turn them down but I've also had the same from several ladies too. Narcissism at its finest isn't it. Block, report and move on....I'm happy to be called anything under the moon for saying no, the problem definitely isn't us!"
Totally agree with the fact it's not just men, we've know a few woman also who would totally fit the thread description. I suppose it seems to be a higher percentage of men as there literally is so many to one woman on here x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Which is exactly why I ignored your messages asking about it lol.
Men wanting to gossip, some men spreading lies etc. I’m not gunna gossip about anyone. But I will warn other women of the men they need to be warned about |
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"Which is exactly why I ignored your messages asking about it lol.
Men wanting to gossip, some men spreading lies etc. I’m not gunna gossip about anyone. But I will warn other women of the men they need to be warned about "
Let me know too so I can avoid them too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely. As long as those I care about know the real me and like the real me, I don’t care about the other comments. Their name gets tarnished so fast they ruin it for themselves.
Just want to make a point of saying we really appreciate those guys, especially those single guys, that really are the good eggs and get tarred with the same brush unfairly. We notice you and that gets talked about between us too! "
Nail on head twice there.
First time - those that matter know the real you and the truth. Who gives a flying fuck what anyone else thinks or says.
Second time - It is a real shit for the few genuine decent single guys out there because yes, we do become weary of everyone because of the arseholes. |
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"So I’ve had a very enlightening evening hearing some stories about men on the scene who have labelled me “psycho” and a “loony”.
I’ve also heard how these same men have referred to other women I know here in the same way. There seems to be a pattern that these men get called out for their dickish behaviour and then their immediate retaliation is to tell everyone these women are psychos.
I’m curious as to how multiple women can all have the same “psycho” attitude towards the same men.
There’s 3 men in particular that have the same issues with multiple women so MAYBE, we’re not the problem?
Thoughts?"
That’s the classic response from narcissistic entitled arseholes… You’re not interested in them, so obviously there’s something wrong with you because they’re such a catch…
It’s absolutely the same type of guy that will gaslight a partner when in a relationship and make the partner believe that everything is their fault.
Funny how they’ll be the same ones that probably use the “any hole’s a goal” philosophy
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