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Any advice for getting first meet?
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Hey guys and girls. I’ve deleted and re downloaded this site so many times over the last year or so. I try my best and then just give up.
I used to be on here as a couple and we had so many meets and interest but now I am a single guy I get nothing.
Now I know that the competition is high and that I was never going to get as much interest as a single guy than I did as a couple but come on! Lol.
I’ve tried the nice long out of the box messages and I’ve tried the short and sweet ones. Ive always been polite and friendly.
I haven’t got two heads, I’m a decent genuine man who doesn’t want a relationship yet but still has a night sex drive.
Im no Brad Pitt but I’m not ugly either and I know there’s a lot of better looking males on here but I’ve also seen some guys getting meets and I think… How?? Lol
Please help me or someone please give me a chance haha
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Ok. You definitely need a profile pic set. You’re currently a silhouette. Yes you have a pic but it’s of your Willy and someone sucking it. You definitely need more than that if you’re going to pique someone’s interest.
Get to a social event. Then someone will be able to verify you I’m sure. This will help. |
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Thank you for the advice. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone’s business and I also have a job where I have to be discreet, therefore I can not risk pics on my profile. I always send a photo when I first message someone though.
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"Thank you for the advice. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone’s business and I also have a job where I have to be discreet, therefore I can not risk pics on my profile. I always send a photo when I first message someone though.
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But even just a body photo would help without revealing your face |
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"Thank you for the advice. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone’s business and I also have a job where I have to be discreet, therefore I can not risk pics on my profile. I always send a photo when I first message someone though.
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Without sounding like a twat, everyone has to take some form of risk being on here. Having no pics will really reduce your changes. I personally won't meet anyone without any pictures |
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"Thank you for the advice. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone’s business and I also have a job where I have to be discreet, therefore I can not risk pics on my profile. I always send a photo when I first message someone though.
Without sounding like a twat, everyone has to take some form of risk being on here. Having no pics will really reduce your changes. I personally won't meet anyone without any pictures "
Same. Even more so if they aren’t verified by meeting in person. |
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"Thank you for the advice. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone’s business and I also have a job where I have to be discreet, therefore I can not risk pics on my profile. I always send a photo when I first message someone though.
Without sounding like a twat, everyone has to take some form of risk being on here. Having no pics will really reduce your changes. I personally won't meet anyone without any pictures
Same. Even more so if they aren’t verified by meeting in person. "
Totally agree with this, we wouldn’t meet anybody that wasn’t verified or anybody that didn’t have any pictures on their profile. |
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"Thank you for the advice. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone’s business and I also have a job where I have to be discreet, therefore I can not risk pics on my profile. I always send a photo when I first message someone though.
But even just a body photo would help without revealing your face "
How do you take body pics on your own, any advice on that? Haha x |
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"Thank you for the advice. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone’s business and I also have a job where I have to be discreet, therefore I can not risk pics on my profile. I always send a photo when I first message someone though.
But even just a body photo would help without revealing your face
How do you take body pics on your own, any advice on that? Haha x"
I took mine in a mirror |
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"And how can I get verified by a meet if no one will meet me? Haha
Go to a planned social event "
Definitely this, socials are a great way to meet people. It’s so much easier to let your personality show in person than it is in a message on here.
Head to a social and talk to as many people as you can. They’re great nights and you will meet loads of people there. |
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"Thanks for your help everyone. Please check out my pics later and some constructive criticism will be welcomed lol x"
I will try the socials when I can. I am a single parent so can be difficult sometimes x |
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"Whilst it’s better now you’ve got photos on can I suggest maybe cropping the photos to cut off areas you don’t want people to see? Looks like someone drawn over it in crayons otherwise xx"
This.
I'd also try different angles |
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How do you take body pics on your own, any advice on that? Haha x"
Use a timer cam app or stick a mobile phone holder to like a wardrobe or something and put the camera on a time delay to take the pic. |
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