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I take my wife to meets and wait outside,or if we accommodate I'm always around in the garage.
Myself I always tell wife post code and address contact number |
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Lou only meets after a social, and it'll be on a different day. She'll give me the address she's going to, and drop me a text every hour or so. Other than that I trust her judgement on it, and we've had no causes for concern so far.
I would say though, any boundaries etc you put in place early on, go back to every now and again and see if it's still working. We had some pretty rigid rules very early on (coming from a bdsm world) that we would didn't really apply in the enm world. |
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We do it all from the couples account, but before this we used tinder. She found tinder easier to use and this site a pain in the ass because of adhd. So we find it easier having one account where everything goes through. Easier to show each other conversations and profiles, easier to browse through together etc. That's from an ND perspective though, we tend to stick to one thing at a time. |
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With my ex we used the couple account mainly but for hitting the spot with little notice we used Tinder or Viva, it's pointless trying here for last minute. If we met separately we always sent our location via what's app on arrival & shared pics etc along the way. You'll find your own methods as you go along your journey X |
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