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Ladies what is your view on this please?
Do most off you like a social meet up first at public places etc , socials clubs over a drink in a pub ???
Or do you go straight in and just turn up at a hotel or there's etc not having met them before and get straight down to having fun
I am a lady who likes to do the social meet first to feel safe and see if theres any chemistry etc , then arrange something another time if comfortable . Just I found that alot off men expect it to be sex straight away .
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By *host25Woman
over a year ago
caerphilly |
Honestly I've just dived straight in because I'm rubbish at 5je social stuff until I've been intimate lol, but I've never met people off this app, only other social media where you have a bit more of a background (ie peek at friends, surnames etc. Always take a screenshot of who I'm meeting just incase I go missing lol). But I have hrard of a few who've been attacked off places like here so it scared me off for a bit ( haven't met up for years half of it is incase I meet some psycho) am on my own though. |
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Yes its different using other platforms like you said there's more information there to go on . And it is scary meeting on your own as a single lady, as you never now how things are going to turn out, as you said heard alot off bad things about men being strange physco and them being attacked.
We as women are aloud to change our mind and say no, but some men don't like that fact and try and pressure you , as turn up thinking there going to get sex no matter what |
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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago
42 Wallaby Way Syndey |
I rarely meet one to one socials due to how I've been treated by men on here. I attend a few of the organised socials when I'm able to. I'd rather social at Chameleons and if there is a mutual attraction rooms are already readily available. I feel safer there as my boyfriend is there with me, we play together and separately |
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I used to meet up straight away, before covid things here were a lot better. People were more respectful and I rarely got stood up. Since covid this place has turned into trash. A lot of dreamers, let downs and selfish folk just looking for their own pleasure.
Now I only meet at social events or clubs. It takes someone very special to arrange a 1-1 social! I’ll only play outside of a club once I’ve gotten to know that person and feel safe going to theirs/a hotel |
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"I used to meet up straight away, before covid things here were a lot better. People were more respectful and I rarely got stood up. Since covid this place has turned into trash. A lot of dreamers, let downs and selfish folk just looking for their own pleasure.
Now I only meet at social events or clubs. It takes someone very special to arrange a 1-1 social! I’ll only play outside of a club once I’ve gotten to know that person and feel safe going to theirs/a hotel "
Although I don't play solo outside of clubs I have to absolutely agree with you! Plus if they stand you up their a complete fool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet via an organised social or club & still rarely meet 1:1 or in my own home. The morals on some men nowadays is shocking, its all about the one off & move on to the next, the numbers game. Even the most polite, respectable, believable guys are like it so I no longer provide them the chance. I'll fuck on my terms in a club & then walk away X |
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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago
deepest, darkest West |
I'm all about the socials before meeting up. Either 1:1 or in an organised social. The times where I have jumped right in have been the worst sex ever. So now, if someone doesn't have the time to get to know me outside of the bedroom, they aren't getting me in one. |
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I can’t see point in doing socials first tbh. I dont wanna marry them. Lol. I won’t meet un verfied men mind. I just tend to think yolo an go for it . Im also with a lush guy on a couple account and we meet but have never done socials etc just straight into it. |
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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago
Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston |
Think it’s whatever you’re most comfortable with. We often do a social first, and always if we are meeting a female on her own , as we want her to feel comfortable.
Also we’ve been caught out with men using really old photos and looking nothing like expected, so that’s why we prefer it.
This is not to say a good social mightn’t lead to play straight after if it goes well and everyone wants to.
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