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"cant say ive ever had the misfortune of having one ?
maybe its me ?
Nor me. Conversations have fizzled out, the chemistry hasn't been there sometimes, but I don't think anyone was wasting time. "
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"cant say ive ever had the misfortune of having one ?
maybe its me ?
Nor me. Conversations have fizzled out, the chemistry hasn't been there sometimes, but I don't think anyone was wasting time. "
I think a lot of blokes on here think if someone doesn't want to meet them or talk to them then that makes them a timewaster  |
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I’ve had the misfortune of interacting with fantasists in the past (guys pretending to be a couple), but I’ve got pretty good at spotting them early.
There’s always going to be a few like that, you just need to be able to recognise them for what they are |
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"cant say ive ever had the misfortune of having one ?
maybe its me ?
Nor me. Conversations have fizzled out, the chemistry hasn't been there sometimes, but I don't think anyone was wasting time.
I think a lot of blokes on here think if someone doesn't want to meet them or talk to them then that makes them a timewaster "
You waste my time by talking about the bloody Ospreys  |
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"cant say ive ever had the misfortune of having one ?
maybe its me ?
Nor me. Conversations have fizzled out, the chemistry hasn't been there sometimes, but I don't think anyone was wasting time.
I think a lot of blokes on here think if someone doesn't want to meet them or talk to them then that makes them a timewaster
You waste my time by talking about the bloody Ospreys "
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"cant say ive ever had the misfortune of having one ?
maybe its me ?
Nor me. Conversations have fizzled out, the chemistry hasn't been there sometimes, but I don't think anyone was wasting time. "
Same here, women are inundated with messages and it’s probably really hard for them to get a good feel for someone when they are chatting to loads of men, hence them dying out. |
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"cant say ive ever had the misfortune of having one ?
maybe its me ?
Nor me. Conversations have fizzled out, the chemistry hasn't been there sometimes, but I don't think anyone was wasting time.
I think a lot of blokes on here think if someone doesn't want to meet them or talk to them then that makes them a timewaster
You waste my time by talking about the bloody Ospreys
Eagerly awaiting the backlash for this comment "
No need to be so personal you pair of absolute imbeciles  |
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"cant say ive ever had the misfortune of having one ?
maybe its me ?
Nor me. Conversations have fizzled out, the chemistry hasn't been there sometimes, but I don't think anyone was wasting time.
I think a lot of blokes on here think if someone doesn't want to meet them or talk to them then that makes them a timewaster
You waste my time by talking about the bloody Ospreys
Eagerly awaiting the backlash for this comment
No need to be so personal you pair of absolute imbeciles "
Oi for once I'm not abusing you lol
I don't wanna get thumped in the social |
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It's a fact of life that anything like swinging will attract a lot of wasters over various types. Over time we have developed a sixth sense. If someone sounds to good to true then they probably aren't. We like to move our chats to WhatsApp once we are genuinely interested. Most fakes if a couple have to give 2 numbers to set up of four way chat group. That soon s out the fakes. If genuine people don't want to WhatsApp that's entirely up to them. We never had an issue once we get to WhatsApp xx |
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"It's a fact of life that anything like swinging will attract a lot of wasters over various types. Over time we have developed a sixth sense. If someone sounds to good to true then they probably aren't. We like to move our chats to WhatsApp once we are genuinely interested. Most fakes if a couple have to give 2 numbers to set up of four way chat group. That soon s out the fakes. If genuine people don't want to WhatsApp that's entirely up to them. We never had an issue once we get to WhatsApp xx"
This is along the same lines as what I’ve been doing.
I won’t meet a “couple” for anything more than a social if I’ve not spoken to both of them on the phone or video call. The only exception to this would be people who are well verified, or I will meet for a social if I’ve only spoken via here but it would be a neutral location. |
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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago
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Time wasters for me are come in two categories.
The ones that say they are a couple but are actually single guys
The couple's you talk to seem to get on with them talk about arranging a meet and agreeing to it, then making excuses why they can't meet .
I paid for a hotel room as I was 100% sure they would turn up. Get a message at 7 that evening saying they can't make it and blocked |
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"Time wasters for me are come in two categories.
The ones that say they are a couple but are actually single guys
The couple's you talk to seem to get on with them talk about arranging a meet and agreeing to it, then making excuses why they can't meet .
I paid for a hotel room as I was 100% sure they would turn up. Get a message at 7 that evening saying they can't make it and blocked "
I've had a few of these ones |
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We tend to cancel some meets, at times, due to health reasons which we always fully explain up front.
If we can't make it, we give as good notice as possible.
We have been stood up a few times, no big deal, perhaps we understand how it can be.
But it's annoying when you spend time money and effort on meets which don't happen because somebody just played you or chickened out.
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