FabSwingers.com > Forums > Wales > Impossible to get genuine meets
Impossible to get genuine meets
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Whys it so difficult to get genuine meets with women on here? I see complaints about time wasters and idiots messing women around but yet when the genuine decent guys attempt to message we get ignored completely.
Used to be a good place to meet like minded women but now not so much unfortunately |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.
Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!
It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.
Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.
Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!
It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.
Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!"
Exactly this. I wouldn't even bother reading your profile without pictures. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's not blind date so I wouldn't look either. You really need to look at the profiles of successful guys & see how it needs to be done. If you really want this lifestyle you'll make those changes, if you're looking for a quick fuck you'll soon find you're in the wrong place X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It’s far from impossible..
Be yourself
Be genuine
And persevere.
Your playing the numbers game here as a single guy.
Amongst the fakes and time wasters there’s hundreds of us.
Make yourself stand out.
Be polite
Don’t be needy
And don’t pester.
Good luck |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.
Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!
It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.
Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!"
Spot on, profile is the main part then verification then photos.
Or its a delete for us  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *art777400Couple
over a year ago
swans/Pembrokeshire |
Wiv been on here for months, now and a lot of woman leading people, on all we want is a female to join us, in Pembrokeshire but we can travel, is not a problem, but a night mare finding someone, iv got photos and 10000% trusted people. Anyone help |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Wiv been on here for months, now and a lot of woman leading people, on all we want is a female to join us, in Pembrokeshire but we can travel, is not a problem, but a night mare finding someone, iv got photos and 10000% trusted people. Anyone help"
There's no photos of you though |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It’s all about numbers,there’s probably 10x more men than women or couples on here. I’ve been on here for over five years . I’ve often wondered why bother , but just now & again I get lucky. Ever the optimist I’m still here . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.
Who wants to meet an invisible
Man?!
Well to be honest I've had my face pic as my profile photo for the last year and that made no difference what so ever, still same old ignorance or fake profiles messaging me. Literally removed my photo less than a week ago.
Photo or not still nothing lol
It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.
Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!
Exactly this. I wouldn't even bother reading your profile without pictures."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"It’s far from impossible..
Be yourself
Be genuine
And persevere.
Your playing the numbers game here as a single guy.
Amongst the fakes and time wasters there’s hundreds of us.
Make yourself stand out.
Be polite
Don’t be needy
And don’t pester.
Good luck "
Probably one of the nicest guys on here judging by women's posts and statuses lol. I've been on and off for 8 plus years with a few profiles and was a very enjoyable site but it's gone to the dogs now to be fair. And I'm always polite and 100% genuine lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I don’t look at profiles without some form of profile photo. Silhouettes are no good dude "
I've always had profile pics on here and literally took it off less than a week ago due to fake accounts and tine wasters but just put my pic back up |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I think peopke like to blame anything other than themselves ooooo single bloke this. Time waster single bloke that... boring once again....
Is on you as there plenty blokes on here with plenty women queing up..
You just ain't floating no boats I guess son. No game confirmed by coming to the forums to cry/complain about how is everyone's else fault you can't get through to no one |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
'Down said the witch and they flew to the ground, she searched for the OP but no OP was to be found, then out of the bushes on thundering paws bounded a new single male with his cock in his...?' OK at this point it starts to unravel somewhat. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You have a silhouette profile .... No pictures at all. You have been here over a year and have no verifications so you've made no attempt to go to a social to meet people socially and get verified.
Who wants to meet an invisible Man?!
It's been said so many times before ... You need to put some effort in to get onto the local swinging scene. Then those efforts may reap rewards.
Oh, and if your intention isn't to get onto the swinging scene, but rather to use this site as a random sex site ... Then there's your main problem!"
And this is why, the bellend has left. That'll learn him |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
To be fair he may just have taken a step back to reflect on his profile & come back with a big reveal via a new profile. But I'll recognise that silhouette anywhere so I'll spot him X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We'd like to add for anyone reading thinking the same as OP, what effort have you really made? Does your profile have a real bio and not just 3 words, do you have pictures of mire than just your dick. Noone wants to see that, do you send good messages or is it the one line message alonf the lines of (your Mrs looks hot or worse) have you attempted to attend a social or club, and actually talk to people. If you're like OP and done none of the above at minimum then I'd say its more you that's shit and a time waster. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Yeah its very hard to get womens attention or even talk to you when I'm courteus and nice on here to even get a potentional meet"
Being courteous and nice is the bare minimum of decent human behaviour. Just wanted to point that out. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
