So, last friday i took a lovely female friend of mine out in the car, hopeful for some social debauchery, we went to a known and recommended spot, only to be greeted with car loads of teens and the occasional zombie (looks dead and paws at the window, requiring stern, multiple warnings to remove).
This experience leads to my question....where do the repectful couples, men and women of wales go when then want some al fresco frolics? |
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The problem is you’re always going to have a risk of the locals using it as a race track or something. They want somewhere quiet, we want somewhere quiet…
Reminds me of when I was 16 at a beach party and going back up to the cars to find we parked in a dogging car park… I don’t any of us were prepared to see what we saw that night… ????? |
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"I took a lady friend to a well known Seansea spit last week and was greeted by a locked gate "
Yes due to the feckin idiots driving in at all hrs and causing a nuisance and the residents understandably have had enough.. hence the reason never disclose active locations on these forums as they only end up the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The great thing about Wales is the complete abundance of remote spots. The issue is all of the ones close to population centres, Newport Cardiff etc will always be overun with onlookers bit there for actual fun. What generally we all need us something like a Kik group or more a organized approach to where people head. I've been driving around Monmouthshire alot recently there is oodles of spots which would b amazing. However I know they simply don't get used due to them not being close to NP or CF |
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I would stay away from the “popular” spots as they tend to be the territory of boy racers (or intermittently the police)….
I have a few quiet outdoor places where there’s some element of privacy and tend to only meet people I know/ have met before…
Last thing you want is to be in somewhere reasonably remote and meet an ace murderer rather than a hot brunette… |
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By *andm69Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
We've only ever had one meet outdoors which was arranged prior, but we've always wanted to go to a dogging spot but its because of the risk of meeting non swingers/doggers is what puts us off, we'd love to find a reliable spot but i guess thats as hard as finding a unicorn, if u can help on either then please DM us lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, last friday i took a lovely female friend of mine out in the car, hopeful for some social debauchery, we went to a known and recommended spot, only to be greeted with car loads of teens and the occasional zombie (looks dead and paws at the window, requiring stern, multiple warnings to remove).
This experience leads to my question....where do the repectful couples, men and women of wales go when then want some al fresco frolics? "
I have tried going a number of times and find the same problem always get people that spoil it. |
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Persistence is key, we hovered around a few known spots for years sometimes siting it out for a while and sometimes just driving off as you can see the boy racers etc.
It paid off for us and have managed a couple of very naughty pure dogging experiences, some of our naughtiest times |
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Dogging use to be a good thing but locked gates,parking cameras and boyracers and groups of teens have spoiled it,just dont know where to go these days 
Ive had some of my favourite times dogging so any new locations would be good to know |
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I’ve said it before, dogging seems to be an issue for a lot of people these days!
I think setting up a small group WhatsApp etc where eligible people can be added & an admin can set a time location etc to meet weekly or however they want to work it.
Once a dogging location is common knowledge is ruined! Keep a rotation, mix up the days times etc! Could work! |
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"I’ve said it before, dogging seems to be an issue for a lot of people these days!
I think setting up a small group WhatsApp etc where eligible people can be added & an admin can set a time location etc to meet weekly or however they want to work it.
Once a dogging location is common knowledge is ruined! Keep a rotation, mix up the days times etc! Could work!"
Yes I think you are right. A lot more couples and females would be interested in dogging if !!! They knew that it was safe to do so. Where there would not be any pushy disrespectful idiots.
But for that to happen !!!I think it needs a coordinator. A person who knows the do's and dont's. A person who knows not to inform. And also person who couples or single ladies know who to contact.
A person who is capable to police it.
I am just a man with a van who has thought about this myself. For the birds eye view.  |
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"I would stay away from the “popular” spots as they tend to be the territory of boy racers (or intermittently the police)….
I have a few quiet outdoor places where there’s some element of privacy and tend to only meet people I know/ have met before…
Last thing you want is to be in somewhere reasonably remote and meet an ace murderer rather than a hot brunette…"
That true ouer here in Hereford to ,same it's looking more like a house warming with benefits now a day |
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By *glpMan
over a year ago
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I have a good dogging spot. Its about 12 miles east of Carmarthen. Message me for location and maybe best if its all done by arrangement and 'invitation'. No chance of boy racers or any interruptions. |
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Best way to start is for you couples to talk off here and agree to find your own quiet spots and meet when it suits you. When that works you can tour each others locations. Just tell people you trust when you want more bodies.
Honestly I've struggled to find doggers for the last decade, more success with meets here on different profiles over time. |
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