We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.
She then got all huffy and they left  We literally need it spelling out in small words  |
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"We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.
She then got all huffy and they left We literally need it spelling out in small words "
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Its all about Communication and consent, right... Just talk and be yourself.
I was on here before and left and really had to ask myself what i want from the site, update profile. Etc.
End of the day its a swingers site not a hook up site there's a big difference.
If someone is interested it will be obvious and things will happen if you're genuine.
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"We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.
She then got all huffy and they left We literally need it spelling out in small words "
As she's stroking your dick
...so, this economy ay |
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"We're also totally clueless. Chatting with a couple at a club, a few years ago, the lady kept playfully squeezing Rob's bum and even slipped her hand up his boxers leg. Totally just thought she was being friendly so didn't follow up on it.
She then got all huffy and they left We literally need it spelling out in small words
As she's stroking your dick
...so, this economy ay"
That was pretty much how it went I think we were chatting about mortgages at the time. |
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"I find a direct, "would you like to fuck?" helps clear the air, one way or another.
Quickest way to the block list 
That's disappointing. "
Not my block list, but me onto the recipients no doubt |
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Always been oblivious (or just plain unattractive)
But there’s a massive dichotomy too as There’s this myth about confidence and taking control and the reality of damaging friendships and losing respect by being forward after misreading.
In all honesty I usually find out years later when the chance is long gone that there was a mutual attract.
It’s slightly more complicated as I don’t think anyones ever met me and gone ‘wow’, I tend to grow on people I guess and that always came as a catch 22 as I’m sure that was mostly because I wasn’t trying to fuck them when everyone else was. Ah well, I got by in the end |
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If I'm interested in someone I tend to look at them often and try to make eye contact. But I'll never be the first one to make conversation lol. But once we're talking I may touch their leg or arm subtly in conversation. I'm slightly more direct if I've had a few drinks tho lol.   |
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"I wont make the first move for fear of rejection to be honest. I would rather them ask if I wanted to play sometime."
Asking them if they want to play sometime and or a wink to send a radar to get the conversation going seems like a nice suttle way to give a sign of interest  |
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"We are both chatty and it's not always easy to realise it not someone just being friendly...."
This is literally us. Hubby is a fan of the direct shall we get a room whereas I'm oblivious to the signs
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"Always thought I was ok at reading the signs. After missed opportunities and making a tit of myself misreading platonic friendships, I've concluded I'm bloody hopeless at it."
This lol. |
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Im naturally flirtatious so sometimes I think they are just being flirty back without wanting to lead anywhere. I definitely need to be told they want to play with me or I just think its friendly |
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