So, after meeting several lovely fabbers it seems to me we have different definitions of what are really quite critical words in terms of what we all say we'd like to find..
So I have some questions please if anyone can help?
One is Soft swing.. some think its swapping with everything other than penetrative sex, others say no it's just two couples in the same room with no cross couple contact.
And then there's the whole cuckold thing.
What is the term for a couple who's man enjoys watching his woman playing with a couple (rather than just a man )? Are they still stag/vixen? Or something else?
And on that note how is a hotwife different from a vixen?
Would be so helpful if there was a Glossary somewhere we could all refer to and avoid potential awkwardness in situations where someone wants to give someone else more than they bargained for....
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Problem is people have different ideas in what term means what definition. I agree with you that a common glossary would be useful.
A man who enjoys watching his partner playing with another man or couple is part of the Stag/Vixen dynamic, where he is not humiliated or punished etc. I am not sure if there is any specific term that applies to playing with a couple, happy to be educated on that.
A Vixen plays in the presence of her Stag partner for their mutual enjoyment and even though he isn't participating, she will make it a pleasurable experience for him all the same. A Hotwife can do these things too, but she will also play without her partner in the room. She might go off on a meet alone away from home and come back to share the details with her partner for their enjoyment. Or not share, depending on their situation and preferences.
Soft swing almost always involves sexual contact with the other people in the room. Varying from wandering hands and kissing, to oral sex and penetrative fingers. Two couples who don't touch each other and have sex with their own partners are just 'same room sex' situations. Possibly an element of voyeurism as well with that.
Just my two cents, but that's what I understand the terms to mean  . |
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Thank you. Very thorough and informative post
Still looking for the missing term of a man who watches his lady play with a couple..
Perhaps they are rarer than Unicorns lol we can't find any that's for sure... |
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"Problem is people have different ideas in what term means what definition. I agree with you that a common glossary would be useful.
A man who enjoys watching his partner playing with another man or couple is part of the Stag/Vixen dynamic, where he is not humiliated or punished etc. I am not sure if there is any specific term that applies to playing with a couple, happy to be educated on that.
A Vixen plays in the presence of her Stag partner for their mutual enjoyment and even though he isn't participating, she will make it a pleasurable experience for him all the same. A Hotwife can do these things too, but she will also play without her partner in the room. She might go off on a meet alone away from home and come back to share the details with her partner for their enjoyment. Or not share, depending on their situation and preferences.
Soft swing almost always involves sexual contact with the other people in the room. Varying from wandering hands and kissing, to oral sex and penetrative fingers. Two couples who don't touch each other and have sex with their own partners are just 'same room sex' situations. Possibly an element of voyeurism as well with that.
Just my two cents, but that's what I understand the terms to mean . "
Very professional and informative, fair play lol x |
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"Thank you. Very thorough and informative post
Still looking for the missing term of a man who watches his lady play with a couple..
Perhaps they are rarer than Unicorns lol we can't find any that's for sure..."
That's still cuckold but the problem with Cuckold & Cuckqueen is the differing dynamics within that, which are on a scale of you like. Those who's partner enjoyed watching & where no humiliation is involved, right through to those dynamics where humiliation, denial & cleaning up are essential parts of the turn on. My particular, preferred Dynamic is Respected Cuckqueen X |
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