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attached men, do women really want them!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i was just wondering if women out there have an urge or like the fact that they can fool about with men that are attached or married, views please ladies and gents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God no, why would we?????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i was just asking cause ive seen alot of statuses and profile asking for this, its just crazy, not that iam against it just wanted to no peoples views

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if we know some 1 is attached we dont meet

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By *f3_coupleCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

We certainly won't meet guys on their own if we know that they are married or have a g/f. It's not true in all cases but often if a single guy can't accom it's because he's attached!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hate married men cheating on thier wifes! not happy with her ... THEN SPLIT UP!!!!

COCKS!!

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By *etlinkMan over a year ago

cardiff

"hate married men cheating on thier wifes! not happy with her ... THEN SPLIT UP!!!!

COCKS!!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the same for all the married women on here too,if they ain't happy then split from there husbands

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By *f3_coupleCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

"hate married men cheating on thier wifes! not happy with her ... THEN SPLIT UP!!!!

COCKS!!"

It's usually the case that they want to stay married and get some extra fun that they don't get at home! They want their cake and eat it!

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By *f3_coupleCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

"It's the same for all the married women on here too,if they ain't happy then split from there husbands "

We agree with this point too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *etlinkMan over a year ago

cardiff

"It's the same for all the married women on here too,if they ain't happy then split from there husbands "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I live with my mum which is why I can't accom, does that mean I'm married or attached? Ever think that some men are single parents not wanting strangers in their homes? It's not all black and white!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I live with my mum which is why I can't accom, does that mean I'm married or attached? Ever think that some men are single parents not wanting strangers in their homes? It's not all black and white!"

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By *dgar47Man over a year ago

Stafford

OMG this old chestnut - hardly merits a response. As Hannah says, there may be a multitude of underlying reasons why.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OMG this old chestnut - hardly merits a response. As Hannah says, there may be a multitude of underlying reasons why."

Life is rarely simple & who are we to judge x

I just no I'm going to get a pasting for that lol x

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By *aybe_amyWoman over a year ago

Wales

When I used to meet single men, I found that attached men were more likely to be discreet and less likely to be stalky and obsessive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for us either.

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By *enuinebikinkyMan over a year ago

LLANELLI

i too have to agree with hannah as it is not black and white

i live in a houseshare - so from previous comments i must be attached or married

not the fact that my housemates are unaware i am on swinger site and they wouldnt appreciate coming home one night to find others in house naked all having fun

so i think some people need to stop assuming things

you know what they say about assumptions................

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By *f3_coupleCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

We did say that it's NOT the case that all single guys that can't accom are married/attached but it's a fair assumption to make unless the guy wants to explain (not necessarily in detail) why. For example house share, with parents, single dad with kids at home etc. There are valid reasons but if we see "can't accom" we are cautious!

BTW We can't accom as we have teenage kids of 19/15 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

UHmmm, and where do you guys stand on women who have a FB and their husbands know, and even play from time ot time

I dont think it is alwyas as black and white as we think....

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i don't meet married/attached men...it even says so on my profile but it doesnt stop them trying!!! there was one guy the other day who didnt have that info on his profile but coudnt accommodate and when i asked him the question he replied he was attached but not at the hip!!! ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely not unless he brings his wife

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I mostly meet married or attached guys. Doesn't bother me at all

Cali

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By *pbiCouple over a year ago

Bridgend

I suppose its easy for couples lucky enough to have met someone who shares the swinging gene (mmm) to judge someone else who is keen to share their dreams and fantasies who is in a relationship ... Just a simple no tggamj you should be enough ... There's no real need for a tirade of abuse purely because they are following their urges. The end.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I mostly meet married or attached guys. Doesn't bother me at all

Cali"

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OMG this old chestnut - hardly merits a response. As Hannah says, there may be a multitude of underlying reasons why.

Life is rarely simple & who are we to judge x

I just no I'm going to get a pasting for that lol x"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I mostly meet married or attached guys. Doesn't bother me at all

Cali

Me too x"

doesnt bother us either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No! how would u feel if u found your wife doing it and dont say i would love it as u wouldnt if u are not happy that your wife g/f or b/f is not doing the job get out and then u will be free to do what u want

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By *ynonvalleyboyMan over a year ago

merthyr

on the other hand though there are females who are also married and play solo,

i am not married now, i live alone ow that does not mean i will invite every unkown back to mine.

at the end of the day we are all human if a married guy / female wants to play behind their partners back then surely that lies with their conscience and not their meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes men and women want more sexual satisfaction than they get at home. Everyone is different and has different needs and desires. This may differ in what is a happy strong relationship but the sexual side is lacking... Bit like the bloke going the pub and the wife not going or visa versa in shopping!

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes men and women want more sexual satisfaction than they get at home. Everyone is different and has different needs and desires. This may differ in what is a happy strong relationship but the sexual side is lacking... Bit like the bloke going the pub and the wife not going or visa versa in shopping!

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

totally aggree with you ive got a friend on here who loves his wife dearly but doesnt get any sex at home but he wouldnt even entertain the idea of leaving her and the kids as he loves her ,so he is on here for sex and i dont blame him who are we to judge people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

Here, here. I choose married men most of the time because I find them to be more grounded, usually safer in terms of attachment issues & far more respectful. There I've said it now

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By *epperkkCouple over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

this is a sex site guys and not a relationship /dating site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this is a sex site guys and not a relationship /dating site"

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By *f3_ladyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

"this is a sex site guys and not a relationship /dating site"

Agreed but people are still free to choose who they play with. If people do/don't want to play with married/attached people who cares? We are all free to decide for ourselves and we've decided that we aren't interested. We'll keep our reasons private.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

I'm glad I'm not alone

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"this is a sex site guys and not a relationship /dating site"

So we should just leave our morals at the door?

Sure, we have sex with others outside of our relationship, so it might seem a little hypocritical to mention having morals, but the difference is we do it together, there is no deceit or furtive secrets.

We dont want to complicit in the deception of others where their relationship is concerned, too many people stand to get hurt, and thats not something we want any part of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

Here, here. I choose married men most of the time because I find them to be more grounded, usually safer in terms of attachment issues & far more respectful. There I've said it now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So we should just leave our morals at the door?

We dont want to complicit in the deception of others where their relationship is concerned, too many people stand to get hurt, and thats not something we want any part of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this is a sex site guys and not a relationship /dating site"

But that doesn't mean we have to have sex with any cock though does it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

Here, here. I choose married men most of the time because I find them to be more grounded, usually safer in terms of attachment issues & far more respectful. There I've said it now

I don't see where the word respectful has anything to do with a cheater after all they are not being respectful to their partners are they

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I mostly meet married or attached guys. Doesn't bother me at all

Cali

Me too x"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ffs this again??!!

Here's a simple answer to this, seemingly insolvable conundrum:

Married single guys, there are lots of married single women on here. Single guys there are single women on here. Most profile state which group they fall into & more clearly which they will not play with.

As Peachy pointed out, we all have our reasons for being here, whether they are right or wrong is, nobody else's place to say.

SO in order not piss people off or face abuse for messaging the wrong person.

Read profiles!!!! Work out if your train of thought (for want of a nice phrase) follows the same route as theirs. If yes, "we're great westerners." if not change your 'platform.'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ffs this again??!!

Here's a simple answer to this, seemingly insolvable conundrum:

As Peachy pointed out, we all have our reasons for being here, whether they are right or wrong is, nobody else's place to say.

SO in order not piss people off or face abuse for messaging the wrong person.

Read profiles!!!! Work out if your train of thought (for want of a nice phrase) follows the same route as theirs. If yes, "we're great westerners." if not change your 'platform.'

Fanx

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

i was just wondering if women out there have an urge or like the fact that they can fool about with men that are attached or married, views please ladies and gents "

Some do. Some don't. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We make a point of not meeting attached men. Why is there any need to go down that road with the possibility of innocent parties being hurt when there is so much choice on the site? And we don't mean that in a derogatory way...it's simply the truth.

Having said that, we are always grateful when men who approach us are honest about their relationship status. And we always reply to say that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

It does annoy me immensely when the word judge is constantly banded around where cheaters are concerned! No-one is judging a cheater, people make a decision on whether they will not meet one based on the fact that they are cheating not on why they cheat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ffs this again??!!

Here's a simple answer to this, seemingly insolvable conundrum:

As Peachy pointed out, we all have our reasons for being here, whether they are right or wrong is, nobody else's place to say.

SO in order not piss people off or face abuse for messaging the wrong person.

Read profiles!!!! Work out if your train of thought (for want of a nice phrase) follows the same route as theirs. If yes, "we're great westerners." if not change your 'platform.'

Fanx

Gotta be honest peachy, I got bored of reading a few posts after yours and perved on your pics instead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ffs this again??!!

Here's a simple answer to this, seemingly insolvable conundrum:

As Peachy pointed out, we all have our reasons for being here, whether they are right or wrong is, nobody else's place to say.

SO in order not piss people off or face abuse for messaging the wrong person.

Read profiles!!!! Work out if your train of thought (for want of a nice phrase) follows the same route as theirs. If yes, "we're great westerners." if not change your 'platform.'

Fanx

Gotta be honest peachy, I got bored of reading a few posts after yours and perved on your pics instead

Just ask & I'll send you more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't crucify me on this it's just an opinion

Totally agree there

I'm glad I'm not alone

Totally totally agree again

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