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By *ldion OP Man
over a year ago
swansea |
"I wont be attending saturdays anymore after last weekend. Its just not for me."
I think he got banned after all the shit he caused last Saturday. Hopefully we won’t be seeing him anymore |
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Unfortunately a few single straight males have been throwing their machomanly tantrums on Saturdays bi nights recently. The staff have banned those who have caused issues.
I can’t make it this weekend as I have other commitments but wish Michael the best birthday bash going!
I’d also like to raise the point of tips! When leaving tonight and any night think about rounding up the bill at the end of your evening to give back to the staff who are trying their best to give us a safe and fun environment to play and socialise in! |
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"Unfortunately a few single straight males have been throwing their machomanly tantrums on Saturdays bi nights recently. The staff have banned those who have caused issues.
I can’t make it this weekend as I have other commitments but wish Michael the best birthday bash going!
I’d also like to raise the point of tips! When leaving tonight and any night think about rounding up the bill at the end of your evening to give back to the staff who are trying their best to give us a safe and fun environment to play and socialise in! "
Well said scarlet
There is a tips tin if anyone wants to contribute  |
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"There was a guy running around there like a child offending everyone..would that be him?
Yep that’s it. He annoyed quite a few people last Saturday "
and offered a few ppl out saying he'd destroy them !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was a guy running around there like a child offending everyone..would that be him?
Yep that’s it. He annoyed quite a few people last Saturday and offered a few ppl out saying he'd destroy them !!"
some people just got to ruin it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There was a guy running around there like a child offending everyone..would that be him?
Yep that’s it. He annoyed quite a few people last Saturday and offered a few ppl out saying he'd destroy them !!"
hope you don’t mind me saying that you got absolutely stunning pics think you look lush in them all zz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If im right its open all day but when does the evening really kick off"
is there any chance of a lift with you don’t mind paying petrol never been before and would love to go tonight x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If im right its open all day but when does the evening really kick off
I would say it starts getting busy around 9-9:30pm "
any chance your off lovely and I could come with you I’m 23 not 25 sorry and I’d love to go never been before can pay petrol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If im right its open all day but when does the evening really kick off is there any chance of a lift with you don’t mind paying petrol never been before and would love to go tonight x"
Sorry i wouldn't take a stranger only someone who i know. Dangerous world xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If im right its open all day but when does the evening really kick off is there any chance of a lift with you don’t mind paying petrol never been before and would love to go tonight x
Sorry i wouldn't take a stranger only someone who i know. Dangerous world xx"
I can add you on Snapchat Facebook anything to prove I’m legit and sound |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If im right its open all day but when does the evening really kick off is there any chance of a lift with you don’t mind paying petrol never been before and would love to go tonight x
Sorry i wouldn't take a stranger only someone who i know. Dangerous world xx I can add you on Snapchat Facebook anything to prove I’m legit and sound "
Nothing you say will convince me to put myself in a position where i may not feel safe. Travelling with someone i have never met before puts me in that situation. |
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"If im right its open all day but when does the evening really kick off is there any chance of a lift with you don’t mind paying petrol never been before and would love to go tonight x
Sorry i wouldn't take a stranger only someone who i know. Dangerous world xx I can add you on Snapchat Facebook anything to prove I’m legit and sound "
And already you haven’t taken a polite no for an answer… |
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"If im right its open all day but when does the evening really kick off is there any chance of a lift with you don’t mind paying petrol never been before and would love to go tonight x
Sorry i wouldn't take a stranger only someone who i know. Dangerous world xx I can add you on Snapchat Facebook anything to prove I’m legit and sound
And already you haven’t taken a polite no for an answer…"
Face plant time |
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Fabulous night, hope you enjoyed Michael..Hi to the two ladies from across the Severn who made the evening very enjoyable  ..
And a shout out to all the staff and Carl and Jackie for providing the karaoke and making a great atmosphere |
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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago
Neath,united kingdom |
"I wont be attending saturdays anymore after last weekend. Its just not for me."
It's put me off to, it's meant to be a place where you feel safe and I don't anymore. Think we may stick to Friday nights when we can and private meets X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wont be attending saturdays anymore after last weekend. Its just not for me.
It's put me off to, it's meant to be a place where you feel safe and I don't anymore. Think we may stick to Friday nights when we can and private meets X"
We were thinking the same about doing Fridays instead! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was there last Saturday with ceri and Tony my 1st time in over 5 yrs and to be honest I saw this guy for what he was straight away .. I did see him push his way in to a room as well as have a stand up argument with a lady I feel that the greenhouse could employ a bouncer for the evening to be oncall if this happens as I am sure he spoilt a lot of people's evening , no means no I have been off and on site for many years and respected by many Purly because I know my place in clubs and socials ,its just unfortunate that neanderthals like this bring down a name of a club and it makes people avoid it I know I will be thinking twice about going on a Saturday again and for CJ to say this as well means it's getting worse as he is well known and respected at all socials and venues |
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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago
Neath,united kingdom |
"I wont be attending saturdays anymore after last weekend. Its just not for me.
It's put me off to, it's meant to be a place where you feel safe and I don't anymore. Think we may stick to Friday nights when we can and private meets X
We were thinking the same about doing Fridays instead!"
Me and D went on a Friday night a few weeks before I went to Greece and we absolutely loved it. You won't regret it x |
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"Definitely no trouble there last night, well not the unwanted kind anyway  "
Obviously not to disrespect anyone who feels they no longer feel comfortable attending on a Saturday due to some idiots, usually down to excessive drink or drugs and of course I don't diminished anyones bad experience but can we get a bit of perspective on this. All the years I've attended on a Saturday I can think of only 3 occasions where an individual has caused an issue and all 3 were subsequently banned and a bouncer certainly isn't required as to be fair the Greenhouse attendees are pretty good at self policing.. |
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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago
Neath,united kingdom |
"Definitely no trouble there last night, well not the unwanted kind anyway
Obviously not to disrespect anyone who feels they no longer feel comfortable attending on a Saturday due to some idiots, usually down to excessive drink or drugs and of course I don't diminished anyones bad experience but can we get a bit of perspective on this. All the years I've attended on a Saturday I can think of only 3 occasions where an individual has caused an issue and all 3 were subsequently banned and a bouncer certainly isn't required as to be fair the Greenhouse attendees are pretty good at self policing.. "
I totally understand where you're coming from but the last 4 times I've gone I've been touched without consent , harrased or had comments made about my body which is Franky just gross. The staff have always been awesome but between Manning the bar etc I really feel security is needed in the club. |
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"Definitely no trouble there last night, well not the unwanted kind anyway
Obviously not to disrespect anyone who feels they no longer feel comfortable attending on a Saturday due to some idiots, usually down to excessive drink or drugs and of course I don't diminished anyones bad experience but can we get a bit of perspective on this. All the years I've attended on a Saturday I can think of only 3 occasions where an individual has caused an issue and all 3 were subsequently banned and a bouncer certainly isn't required as to be fair the Greenhouse attendees are pretty good at self policing..
I totally understand where you're coming from but the last 4 times I've gone I've been touched without consent , harrased or had comments made about my body which is Franky just gross. The staff have always been awesome but between Manning the bar etc I really feel security is needed in the club."
Really.. well thats not acceptable. Brings up the conversation regarding single mens entitlementand what boundaries they shouldn't cross.
One thing I think might help but tbh shouldn't even be have to be said, is have a few notices put up around the club stating , 'unwanted attention or harassment will not be tolerated and if not adhered to patrons will be removed and banned from club' ... just a thought |
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"Definitely no trouble there last night, well not the unwanted kind anyway
Obviously not to disrespect anyone who feels they no longer feel comfortable attending on a Saturday due to some idiots, usually down to excessive drink or drugs and of course I don't diminished anyones bad experience but can we get a bit of perspective on this. All the years I've attended on a Saturday I can think of only 3 occasions where an individual has caused an issue and all 3 were subsequently banned and a bouncer certainly isn't required as to be fair the Greenhouse attendees are pretty good at self policing..
I totally understand where you're coming from but the last 4 times I've gone I've been touched without consent , harrased or had comments made about my body which is Franky just gross. The staff have always been awesome but between Manning the bar etc I really feel security is needed in the club.
Really.. well thats not acceptable. Brings up the conversation regarding single mens entitlementand what boundaries they shouldn't cross.
One thing I think might help but tbh shouldn't even be have to be said, is have a few notices put up around the club stating , 'unwanted attention or harassment will not be tolerated and if not adhered to patrons will be removed and banned from club' ... just a thought "
You’re assuming the Neanderthals can read |
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It just shouldn't be the case that women and men feel uncomfortable.
I can't remember the last time there was any sort of problem on a Friday night apart from people not handling their drink and being helped out of the club.
I may get slated for saying this by the greenhouse reguars, but perhaps it should be cams bi night with membership required?
It Will certainly stop random males just walking in for 17 quid thinking they have their way of what they can do when they have to fork out for membership?
My apologies to the greenhouse regulars and the wonderful respectful T girls that never ever cause any issues in the club  |
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Steve here.
The male population of the community, like in life, need to call out the wrong uns who give men a bad rep.
I'd like to think, if any men see someone getting touchy without consent they would be the first to call them on it.
The small minority can ruin it for the majority and its in the majorities interest to take action so to speak and call behaviour like that.
I've had to twice in chams before when I've seen it, but unfortunately Jackie has told me before she got groped by a random without consent and didn't tell me because of how I would have reacted.
I'd call on all men and couples to call people out when they're not behaving correctly and if you're not comfortable doing so, grab a regular you know and trust and we'll happily "have a word". |
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"Steve here.
The male population of the community, like in life, need to call out the wrong uns who give men a bad rep.
I'd like to think, if any men see someone getting touchy without consent they would be the first to call them on it.
The small minority can ruin it for the majority and its in the majorities interest to take action so to speak and call behaviour like that.
I've had to twice in chams before when I've seen it, but unfortunately Jackie has told me before she got groped by a random without consent and didn't tell me because of how I would have reacted.
I'd call on all men and couples to call people out when they're not behaving correctly and if you're not comfortable doing so, grab a regular you know and trust and we'll happily "have a word"."
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By *inacoolWoman
over a year ago
Torfaen |
It’s not just men there who touch/grope without consent - whilst immobile on the big swing, i was abused & bitten despite my saying no emphatically several times by a pissed woman, even my lover made excuses for her coz she’s a regular, so i didn’t feel confidant to report her & was made to feel like i just had to accept this behaviour - i haven’t returned to Newport Chams since
Interestingly i can’t write the words i wish to use here to describe the incident - Fab doesn’t allow it - more complacency |
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"It’s not just men there who touch/grope without consent - whilst immobile on the big swing, i was abused & bitten despite my saying no emphatically several times by a pissed woman, even my lover made excuses for her coz she’s a regular, so i didn’t feel confidant to report her & was made to feel like i just had to accept this behaviour - i haven’t returned to Newport Chams since
Interestingly i can’t write the words i wish to use here to describe the incident - Fab doesn’t allow it - more complacency"
Thata awful that happened to you. Inexcusable behaviour.
Hopefully, whoever your lover was at the time isn't anymore either. |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
Uptown Top Ranking |
"It’s not just men there who touch/grope without consent - whilst immobile on the big swing, i was abused & bitten despite my saying no emphatically several times by a pissed woman, even my lover made excuses for her coz she’s a regular, so i didn’t feel confidant to report her & was made to feel like i just had to accept this behaviour - i haven’t returned to Newport Chams since
Interestingly i can’t write the words i wish to use here to describe the incident - Fab doesn’t allow it - more complacency"
That's disgusting behaviour by that pissed woman. I'm sorry you felt you couldn't complain about her. Regardless of whether she was a regular or not unwanted attention should still be reported...sorry you feel unable to attend again. Not everyone behaves in that disrespectful way though  |
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