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'Single male' entitlement
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More and more I see males posting threads and status' complaining that they are not having 'any luck' on here.
Let's not get it twisted, I don't have some magic 'black book' of ladies because I have some secret formula, technique or potion. Hell, I have probably pissed off more ladies, than most of the single guys on here this thread is about  . It isn't a bragging thread either. Despite how it might read.
So many 'Why can't I' and 'Why don't I' threads. So many 'What can I do to improve'. O
Okay, that's asking for help but I'm not going to pull any punches, they also scream "I am here for sex and as much as I can get!". I purposely avoided Caps Lock for the more sensitive males, and for the comfort of practically every single lady who chooses to read this.
This is a SWINGER site. Contrary to whatever you have been told by friends or your fecking facefuck account (do your background research before you try to troll me about that), this site is for people who are in the lifestyle. That's a lifestyle. Not an immediate need for sex of any kind.
The ladies here are NOT vessels for you to extricate your desire to fuck. They are NOT vessels for your venting of sexual frustration. They are NOT there to be used as sex toys unless you have been given explicit consent in writing beforehand. You got a meet? Well done. Now treat her like your next WIFE unless she has told you differently.
This is a fucking lifestyle website. I might give you all the information you need (across the various shizzle I post when I have been triggered on here) to somehow get noticed by going to a club or a social but trust me the ladies there already know about you. They spotted you the instant you walked in. You cannot knock Female Intuition and trust me if all you want to do is get fucked, trust me all you will be is the one getting fucked. By them. In ways your tiny mind hasn't even thought about yet.
Dump your idea about being important. Dump your idea that your momma told you best. Because if she was right, you wouldn't even be here! (That's a deliberate joke for the genuine people).
Seriously. One message. A hundred messages. Makes no difference. You are just an anonymous face on the end of an anonymous message that ladies scroll thorough literally by the dozen every time they log on, and that's if they can be bothered about check.
Why? Because the site is full of chancers, cheaters, fantasists and god knows what. Well guess what. They deserve more than a wank and I guess it will be up to you to get off your arse and show them your potential  .
Stop bitching. Seriously. I almost never want to even look in the Wales forum any longer. |
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I absolutely hate hate hate being told it’s a fuck site!
Any profile that messages ‘meet now’ ‘only here for x amount of day’ (like I’m getting a special offer) just shows to me they aren’t swingers, they aren’t part of the community, they aren’t what this website is for!
Thank marmite for another post speaking the truth xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy here I have to say that initially I was totally ignorant and did think " fuck site " shame on me . However as my time here has passed I've learnt so much about the swing community, it's helped me develop and fully enjoy this lifestyle, however that has only been possible due to the amazing people I have met through socials, clubs and of course play. I have been given advice and guidance and have been very very grateful to those that have steered me in the right direction. The friends and connections I have made here are second to none and I wouldn't be without them. So single guys, whether new or existing if you're having " no luck " so to speak, ask yourselfs why ? Put the effort in, reasses, reach out to people and not just on the forums. Go to socials, clubs, get yourselfs known. This community is an amazing one with many fantastic, diverse and wonderful people, embrace it, it's not a quick fix for the horn. All good things take time and I for one am glad I've had the help, guidance and support of the people in this wonderful lifestyle xxx |
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By *untiWoman
over a year ago
Newport |
We should be able to pin posts like this. Or at least we can refer the individuals to this post.
But I fear that the guys want a quick fix and not interested in researching or looking into why they are not having luck. Plus I think they enjoy a moan and hope someone will take pity on them |
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Bloody good post that sums up exactly what is wrong with the vast majority of guys on this site.
It’s not instafuck, nobody is entitled to anything (bar possibly polite discourse) and whining about not getting your end away is probably less attractive than a dick pic… but only just, don’t send dick pics people… |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
my house |
"More and more I see males posting threads and status' complaining that they are not having 'any luck' on here.
Let's not get it twisted, I don't have some magic 'black book' of ladies because I have some secret formula, technique or potion. Hell, I have probably pissed off more ladies, than most of the single guys on here this thread is about . It isn't a bragging thread either. Despite how it might read.
So many 'Why can't I' and 'Why don't I' threads. So many 'What can I do to improve'. O
Okay, that's asking for help but I'm not going to pull any punches, they also scream "I am here for sex and as much as I can get!". I purposely avoided Caps Lock for the more sensitive males, and for the comfort of practically every single lady who chooses to read this.
This is a SWINGER site. Contrary to whatever you have been told by friends or your fecking facefuck account (do your background research before you try to troll me about that), this site is for people who are in the lifestyle. That's a lifestyle. Not an immediate need for sex of any kind.
The ladies here are NOT vessels for you to extricate your desire to fuck. They are NOT vessels for your venting of sexual frustration. They are NOT there to be used as sex toys unless you have been given explicit consent in writing beforehand. You got a meet? Well done. Now treat her like your next WIFE unless she has told you differently.
This is a fucking lifestyle website. I might give you all the information you need (across the various shizzle I post when I have been triggered on here) to somehow get noticed by going to a club or a social but trust me the ladies there already know about you. They spotted you the instant you walked in. You cannot knock Female Intuition and trust me if all you want to do is get fucked, trust me all you will be is the one getting fucked. By them. In ways your tiny mind hasn't even thought about yet.
Dump your idea about being important. Dump your idea that your momma told you best. Because if she was right, you wouldn't even be here! (That's a deliberate joke for the genuine people).
Seriously. One message. A hundred messages. Makes no difference. You are just an anonymous face on the end of an anonymous message that ladies scroll thorough literally by the dozen every time they log on, and that's if they can be bothered about check.
Why? Because the site is full of chancers, cheaters, fantasists and god knows what. Well guess what. They deserve more than a wank and I guess it will be up to you to get off your arse and show them your potential .
Stop bitching. Seriously. I almost never want to even look in the Wales forum any longer. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More and more I see males posting threads and status' complaining that they are not having 'any luck' on here.
Let's not get it twisted, I don't have some magic 'black book' of ladies because I have some secret formula, technique or potion. Hell, I have probably pissed off more ladies, than most of the single guys on here this thread is about . It isn't a bragging thread either. Despite how it might read.
So many 'Why can't I' and 'Why don't I' threads. So many 'What can I do to improve'. O
Okay, that's asking for help but I'm not going to pull any punches, they also scream "I am here for sex and as much as I can get!". I purposely avoided Caps Lock for the more sensitive males, and for the comfort of practically every single lady who chooses to read this.
This is a SWINGER site. Contrary to whatever you have been told by friends or your fecking facefuck account (do your background research before you try to troll me about that), this site is for people who are in the lifestyle. That's a lifestyle. Not an immediate need for sex of any kind.
The ladies here are NOT vessels for you to extricate your desire to fuck. They are NOT vessels for your venting of sexual frustration. They are NOT there to be used as sex toys unless you have been given explicit consent in writing beforehand. You got a meet? Well done. Now treat her like your next WIFE unless she has told you differently.
This is a fucking lifestyle website. I might give you all the information you need (across the various shizzle I post when I have been triggered on here) to somehow get noticed by going to a club or a social but trust me the ladies there already know about you. They spotted you the instant you walked in. You cannot knock Female Intuition and trust me if all you want to do is get fucked, trust me all you will be is the one getting fucked. By them. In ways your tiny mind hasn't even thought about yet.
Dump your idea about being important. Dump your idea that your momma told you best. Because if she was right, you wouldn't even be here! (That's a deliberate joke for the genuine people).
Seriously. One message. A hundred messages. Makes no difference. You are just an anonymous face on the end of an anonymous message that ladies scroll thorough literally by the dozen every time they log on, and that's if they can be bothered about check.
Why? Because the site is full of chancers, cheaters, fantasists and god knows what. Well guess what. They deserve more than a wank and I guess it will be up to you to get off your arse and show them your potential .
Stop bitching. Seriously. I almost never want to even look in the Wales forum any longer. "
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By *e_SocksWoman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Lord Marmite we have stoken at length on this subject and you won't hear me say this often but I totally agree with you.
Ladies here are seen as a set of holes and that's really really not the case. Fab is a website to explore the swinging lifestyle and community which socialising is a huge part of.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lord Marmite - What an excellent post.
We like Chams Newport but get so bored telling single guys to get out of our faces, stop getting so close, get out of the couples room, if the door is locked you're not wanted, stop touching us in the jacuzzi warning #3, etc. Ruining the mood univited then getting cross is not the approach for a "lucky" outcome.
The most frequent reason couples provide us for not going to Chams Newport is the invasive uninvited groping single guys (experienced it / heard about it). I suspect Chams make a chunk of their margin from single guys. An alternative approach is vetting the single guys and reducing their number, the result would be a leap in turnover and margin from the dramatic increase in couples attending (if you adopt this approach we want 8%, will settle for 5%!).
If a single guy would like to know how to behave in the company of a woman at Chams here are some model references of perfect behaviour lovely people who attend Chams, they are true rolemodels - TheoriginalCJ takeit4me
Jon & Linda x |
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Preaching to the choir? Anyone who should read what the OP had to say (and very well said btw!) won't. At the end of the day Chams, like Fab and all the other clubs and sites are trying to run a business so they're going to allow all and sundry to join the party. If folks can see a different and better way to do things the best thing to do is pick up a racket and play to tennis. It's all free enterprise |
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By *undoMan
over a year ago
Hartlepool |
Some personalities don't shine in text on screen, like words in the Suns reflection.
For instance, you can't read every? ? ? ? ? , somethings have to be witnessed to be appreciated, like a sunset, as the best poet could never do.
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"Lord Marmite - What an excellent post.
We like Chams Newport but get so bored telling single guys to get out of our faces, stop getting so close, get out of the couples room, if the door is locked you're not wanted, stop touching us in the jacuzzi warning #3, etc. Ruining the mood univited then getting cross is not the approach for a "lucky" outcome.
The most frequent reason couples provide us for not going to Chams Newport is the invasive uninvited groping single guys (experienced it / heard about it). I suspect Chams make a chunk of their margin from single guys. An alternative approach is vetting the single guys and reducing their number, the result would be a leap in turnover and margin from the dramatic increase in couples attending (if you adopt this approach we want 8%, will settle for 5%!).
If a single guy would like to know how to behave in the company of a woman at Chams here are some model references of perfect behaviour lovely people who attend Chams, they are true rolemodels - TheoriginalCJ takeit4me
Jon & Linda x"
Thank you.
There are a few single guys that are regulars at the club that do actually try to engage with everyone who is there, and I know I agree with you concerning revenue of single males is the key driver.
However, as a single male who has been on the scene for many years, I can honestly say that if you are courteous and responsible you will meet and make friendships with the most remarkable people.
All too often you see guys making the same mistakes over and over, and the same old posts of why can't I get a meet?
It's not about sex. It's about building friendship and socially being with others to have a good time.
Sex is just the bonus to the lifestyle |
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"Thank you.
There are a few single guys that are regulars at the club that do actually try to engage with everyone who is there, and I know I agree with you concerning revenue of single males is the key driver.
However, as a single male who has been on the scene for many years, I can honestly say that if you are courteous and responsible you will meet and make friendships with the most remarkable people.
All too often you see guys making the same mistakes over and over, and the same old posts of why can't I get a meet?
It's not about sex. It's about building friendship and socially being with others to have a good time.
Sex is just the bonus to the lifestyle "
I have to agree about how CJ is definitely one for men to look to as a role model.
CJ is one single male who (sorry to say) on paper doesn’t fit my preferences. Seeing how he acts in the forums meant I was more than willing to give my time to get to know him in socials and the club. We’ve become good friends and well… his personality and the way he conducts himself so well has since been rewarded!
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
"More and more I see males posting threads and status' complaining that they are not having 'any luck' on here.
Let's not get it twisted, I don't have some magic 'black book' of ladies because I have some secret formula, technique or potion. Hell, I have probably pissed off more ladies, than most of the single guys on here this thread is about . It isn't a bragging thread either. Despite how it might read.
So many 'Why can't I' and 'Why don't I' threads. So many 'What can I do to improve'. O
Okay, that's asking for help but I'm not going to pull any punches, they also scream "I am here for sex and as much as I can get!". I purposely avoided Caps Lock for the more sensitive males, and for the comfort of practically every single lady who chooses to read this.
This is a SWINGER site. Contrary to whatever you have been told by friends or your fecking facefuck account (do your background research before you try to troll me about that), this site is for people who are in the lifestyle. That's a lifestyle. Not an immediate need for sex of any kind.
The ladies here are NOT vessels for you to extricate your desire to fuck. They are NOT vessels for your venting of sexual frustration. They are NOT there to be used as sex toys unless you have been given explicit consent in writing beforehand. You got a meet? Well done. Now treat her like your next WIFE unless she has told you differently.
This is a fucking lifestyle website. I might give you all the information you need (across the various shizzle I post when I have been triggered on here) to somehow get noticed by going to a club or a social but trust me the ladies there already know about you. They spotted you the instant you walked in. You cannot knock Female Intuition and trust me if all you want to do is get fucked, trust me all you will be is the one getting fucked. By them. In ways your tiny mind hasn't even thought about yet.
Dump your idea about being important. Dump your idea that your momma told you best. Because if she was right, you wouldn't even be here! (That's a deliberate joke for the genuine people).
Seriously. One message. A hundred messages. Makes no difference. You are just an anonymous face on the end of an anonymous message that ladies scroll thorough literally by the dozen every time they log on, and that's if they can be bothered about check.
Why? Because the site is full of chancers, cheaters, fantasists and god knows what. Well guess what. They deserve more than a wank and I guess it will be up to you to get off your arse and show them your potential .
Stop bitching. Seriously. I almost never want to even look in the Wales forum any longer. "
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Excellent post _ord marmite!
My hope is your advice doesn’t fall on deaf ears. Although, I fear your target audience may be too preoccupied spamming inboxes with the usual FAF, meet now and drain my balls messages  |
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A great post by _ord marmite very rare we would go to chams in Newport for the above reasons and with Saturdays being open to non members and changed to the Greenhouse but males are the main problem with the stories we have been told over the last few weeks, it’s a pity they spoil it for the good guys that go, they would be better off having a higher male age and guys as members yearly and also add security as it sounds as it is needed now. |
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"Thank you.
There are a few single guys that are regulars at the club that do actually try to engage with everyone who is there, and I know I agree with you concerning revenue of single males is the key driver.
However, as a single male who has been on the scene for many years, I can honestly say that if you are courteous and responsible you will meet and make friendships with the most remarkable people.
All too often you see guys making the same mistakes over and over, and the same old posts of why can't I get a meet?
It's not about sex. It's about building friendship and socially being with others to have a good time.
Sex is just the bonus to the lifestyle
I have to agree about how CJ is definitely one for men to look to as a role model.
CJ is one single male who (sorry to say) on paper doesn’t fit my preferences. Seeing how he acts in the forums meant I was more than willing to give my time to get to know him in socials and the club. We’ve become good friends and well… his personality and the way he conducts himself so well has since been rewarded!
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"Thank you.
There are a few single guys that are regulars at the club that do actually try to engage with everyone who is there, and I know I agree with you concerning revenue of single males is the key driver.
However, as a single male who has been on the scene for many years, I can honestly say that if you are courteous and responsible you will meet and make friendships with the most remarkable people.
All too often you see guys making the same mistakes over and over, and the same old posts of why can't I get a meet?
It's not about sex. It's about building friendship and socially being with others to have a good time.
Sex is just the bonus to the lifestyle
I have to agree about how CJ is definitely one for men to look to as a role model.
CJ is one single male who (sorry to say) on paper doesn’t fit my preferences. Seeing how he acts in the forums meant I was more than willing to give my time to get to know him in socials and the club. We’ve become good friends and well… his personality and the way he conducts himself so well has since been rewarded!
I said I was no Picasso, hence why I don't look good on paper "
You dont need to be a Picasso you’re head and shoulders above most of the men on here. I’ve know you for too many years I care to remember but your one of the very few people I’d trust on the site and you know me well enough to know I rarely trust anyone ! |
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By *hieldMan
over a year ago
Neath |
Unfortunately I have friends this needed explaining too... and honestly I just thought of it as a sex site the first time I made an account.
Maybe my attitude is different because I'm a little older. |
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The biggest pity is most of the chancers won't even make it to the forum to read this post. It should be something you have to read and acknowledge when you sign up, or something very like it. Well said! |
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Not sure we entirely agree with this. There really is no one size fits all approach or mentality and any guy purporting to know how everyone woman or couple wishes to be approached is sadly mistaken and potentially even delusional.
In particular the line 'treat them like your wife'. When it comes to us, that's Jack's job and nobody else's. Anyone trying to do that would be an immediate turn off. We know plenty of other couples that would feel this way.
It's really not that complicated for guys. Read profiles and if they match up with what you want then send a message saying what you are looking for that that is in common with what the couple/woman is looking for. Oh and don't be weird or a dick.
It really is that simple. |
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By *unnybunsWoman
over a year ago
Between here and over there |
This post wins the forum today. I can honestly say some messages I receive you swear we are the property of Fab and my god how dare we not reply or agree to “suck dick” right now.
I hid my profile for a while after having some uncalled for and down right offensive messages. Having been on the scene before as a couple I know that some of the genuine single males, especially those who manage to attend socials have more luck. For me it’s friendship- anything else is a bonus…… I know what this site is….. and I’m trying to go with the flow…… filtering out the idiots and communicating with those who actually strike up a good old conversation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure we entirely agree with this. There really is no one size fits all approach or mentality and any guy purporting to know how everyone woman or couple wishes to be approached is sadly mistaken and potentially even delusional.
In particular the line 'treat them like your wife'. When it comes to us, that's Jack's job and nobody else's. Anyone trying to do that would be an immediate turn off. We know plenty of other couples that would feel this way.
It's really not that complicated for guys. Read profiles and if they match up with what you want then send a message saying what you are looking for that that is in common with what the couple/woman is looking for. Oh and don't be weird or a dick.
It really is that simple."
You just pretty much saved us writing this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple thing of reading a profile and understanding what is says is too complex for so many
I even say answer my queries or your message will be deleted, I can't be any more obvious |
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Well said mr marmite. But i have seen some women refer to this site as a "sex site" so it's not just the men. You are right in saying most guys who come here thinking they are doing us cpls and ladies a favour by wanting to fuck us. The entitlement some single guys have when they join here is astounding. We got so sick of the single men's abuse when we joined here joanne decided to block all single men. When we said no you are not what we are looking for we got message after message off some trying to convince us they would give us a good time and doing us a favour, and abuse off others when we said no. We did get a few who asked for a pity fuck also. The thing is dispite there being hundreds of posts of the same nature asking why they cant get a fuck as we are all here for the same thimg "sex" they do not learn a dam thing. They do not seem to realise women are not here as "cum dumps" for you to unload your frustration in to. This is a lifestyle we genuine swingers choose as we want good friendships and yes great sex might follow if you click with people. Although you can also make great friends with people on here and you might not get or want to have sex with them as you are after different things as the lifestyle is more than just sex. Why oh why can't guys understand this. There are plenty of fuck sites out there on the internet so if thats what you want go there and seek out your "quick fix fucks" . But there again with some of the attitudes off the single guys with the entitlement attitude i think they will crash and burn on there also. Well done for a excellent post mr marmite its refreshing to read a post defending this lifestyle and the ladies on here. |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
Having been on here a number of years both as a single guy and in a couple, the site has changed a lot over time, I have seen the aspects in the OP post from both sides and I totally agree with him.
Sadly many that this applies to I doubt ever visit the forum let alone read something that goes against their ego and belief that they are doing people a favour.
It has changed and even more so since covid sadly for the worse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with _ord marmite
Being a single male on this site i dont class it as a sex site . For me its a way to try and make friends and aqaintences and if someone were to be interested in me and something were to hapen then it happens not the beall and end all .
I also think all women should be treated with the respect and grandure they deserve |
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"Having been on here a number of years both as a single guy and in a couple, the site has changed a lot over time, I have seen the aspects in the OP post from both sides and I totally agree with him.
Sadly many that this applies to I doubt ever visit the forum let alone read something that goes against their ego and belief that they are doing people a favour.
It has changed and even more so since covid sadly for the worse.
Have a good weekend people"
It has changed. The lack of respect for females on here by some males is shockingly apparent! |
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"Having been on here a number of years both as a single guy and in a couple, the site has changed a lot over time, I have seen the aspects in the OP post from both sides and I totally agree with him.
Sadly many that this applies to I doubt ever visit the forum let alone read something that goes against their ego and belief that they are doing people a favour.
It has changed and even more so since covid sadly for the worse.
Have a good weekend people
It has changed. The lack of respect for females on here by some males is shockingly apparent! "
It's not just single males. They just happen to make up the majority of messages for most people. Out worst messages seem to come from single women and most couples actually. |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"Having been on here a number of years both as a single guy and in a couple, the site has changed a lot over time, I have seen the aspects in the OP post from both sides and I totally agree with him.
Sadly many that this applies to I doubt ever visit the forum let alone read something that goes against their ego and belief that they are doing people a favour.
It has changed and even more so since covid sadly for the worse.
Have a good weekend people
It has changed. The lack of respect for females on here by some males is shockingly apparent!
It's not just single males. They just happen to make up the majority of messages for most people. Out worst messages seem to come from single women and most couples actually."
id reply to you but im blocked lol
how many are real single fems or couples, they should bring in photo verifiv=cation for all on joining rule out a lot of the bollox |
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"Having been on here a number of years both as a single guy and in a couple, the site has changed a lot over time, I have seen the aspects in the OP post from both sides and I totally agree with him.
Sadly many that this applies to I doubt ever visit the forum let alone read something that goes against their ego and belief that they are doing people a favour.
It has changed and even more so since covid sadly for the worse.
Have a good weekend people
It has changed. The lack of respect for females on here by some males is shockingly apparent!
It's not just single males. They just happen to make up the majority of messages for most people. Out worst messages seem to come from single women and most couples actually.
id reply to you but im blocked lol
how many are real single fems or couples, they should bring in photo verifiv=cation for all on joining rule out a lot of the bollox"
Can't recall why you're blocked but we only ever block for outright rudeness or someone messaging without reading our profile.
We do agree with the photo verification and feel you should have to be a site supporter to send messages. Would stop people creating new profiles every other day.
Single guys get slated on here.....and plenty deserve it....but we have only ever been let down on a meet front by single ladies. |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"Having been on here a number of years both as a single guy and in a couple, the site has changed a lot over time, I have seen the aspects in the OP post from both sides and I totally agree with him.
Sadly many that this applies to I doubt ever visit the forum let alone read something that goes against their ego and belief that they are doing people a favour.
It has changed and even more so since covid sadly for the worse.
Have a good weekend people
It has changed. The lack of respect for females on here by some males is shockingly apparent!
It's not just single males. They just happen to make up the majority of messages for most people. Out worst messages seem to come from single women and most couples actually.
id reply to you but im blocked lol
how many are real single fems or couples, they should bring in photo verifiv=cation for all on joining rule out a lot of the bollox
Can't recall why you're blocked but we only ever block for outright rudeness or someone messaging without reading our profile.
We do agree with the photo verification and feel you should have to be a site supporter to send messages. Would stop people creating new profiles every other day.
Single guys get slated on here.....and plenty deserve it....but we have only ever been let down on a meet front by single ladies. "
from memory it was i am to close to you, not an issue |
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over a year ago
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"I think the only reason guys put posts in like this is to send a message to everyone saying I'm a good guy choose me "
This. Or the "Why do I like cunnilingus so much, am I weird?". Gotta love a tryer I guess. |
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The most entitlement I've witnessed in the forum's is from people like the OP who think they are the fab police or the little cool gang in school who sit at the back of the bus. We are all adults, we all have the ability to filter the site to fit our desires and needs and the constant Karen's just make this part of the site unbearable at times. This site should be about fun for all not a competition of who can be most butthurt and put down others for likes a shitty agreement posts. I'm not a regular to the forum after falling foul of spite many times here with people like little _ord marmite, keyboard warriors and Karen's ruined it a long time ago for their own ego massage. Just grow up, act respectfully, play safe and bin the entitlement
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"Good for bumping this as I've heard a few more guts need to read this as of late  "
Think they need a podcast CJ, because most of them sure can't read. My polite no today was met with much abuse, ending with I'm a 'Div'. What exactly is a 'Div'. I accepted the fat n old bit but wasn't too sure I wanted to accept that as an insult |
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"Good for bumping this as I've heard a few more guts need to read this as of late
Think they need a podcast CJ, because most of them sure can't read. My polite no today was met with much abuse, ending with I'm a 'Div'. What exactly is a 'Div'. I accepted the fat n old bit but wasn't too sure I wanted to accept that as an insult "
A FAB podcast would be awesome. But yes, single males need to fucking get a grip and stop treating this like a sex site. |
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"Good for bumping this as I've heard a few more guts need to read this as of late
Think they need a podcast CJ, because most of them sure can't read. My polite no today was met with much abuse, ending with I'm a 'Div'. What exactly is a 'Div'. I accepted the fat n old bit but wasn't too sure I wanted to accept that as an insult
A FAB podcast would be awesome. But yes, single males need to fucking get a grip and stop treating this like a sex site. "
We'll second that!  |
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By *igSlinkyCouple
over a year ago
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I (Jen) was there with my hubby Saturday night and we went in the hot tub and 2 different guys were trying to touch me, one guy was waving his arms about unnecessarily trying to touch my boobs and one guy rubbing his legs against mine and it just made me uncomfortable, don’t get me wrong we do go there in the hopes of something happening, it hasn’t yet but we have met some lovely people and forging some great friendships which to us is much more important |
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"Div means a dickhead/stupid etc. Im sorry you had to receive abuse from them."
I was lulled into a false sense of security by a nice, polite initial message. I'll go back to block delete again because there's no point saying a polite no |
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"Div means a dickhead/stupid etc. Im sorry you had to receive abuse from them.
I was lulled into a false sense of security by a nice, polite initial message. I'll go back to block delete again because there's no point saying a polite no"
Polite no, politely just deleting, only way to get these twits to understand is the polite block but then they have a hissy fit by ‘naming and shaming’ you on their status |
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"Div means a dickhead/stupid etc. Im sorry you had to receive abuse from them.
I was lulled into a false sense of security by a nice, polite initial message. I'll go back to block delete again because there's no point saying a polite no
Polite no, politely just deleting, only way to get these twits to understand is the polite block but then they have a hissy fit by ‘naming and shaming’ you on their status "
And those idiots prevent us from finding the decent guys  |
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Exactly what it says above 
