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How do I get your attention
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stag here,
I personally think the best way apart from socials and clubs is;
Always read their profile, look for topics in common and go from there.
Be polite, be courteous. Always address both parties. Don’t jump straight to sex.
Have a good opening message about yourself and what you like (not just sex again).
Make sure you have photos or send them with the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women ask for a face photo first and you send one and still get no reply. Theses women get alot of DM's
So i have come up with the perfect way to get a womans attention!
The first message you send dont attach a photo, but ask them for a face photo. IF you get an reply 99.9% it wont have an face photo but you will get an reply asking you for one.
Then what you do is delete the message and DM the next woman. Because you have most probs finished wanking by then over the currently hot photos and videos.
Then tomorrow you message another 74 women doing the same. And then 1 day a women will reply with an photo and then you found the women for you.
She have liked your photos you have liked all her photos, you both end up chatting for weeks building it up to meet, and then 1 of you aint going to show up to the meet.
You get blocked or block her and then you start all over again.
Stick to wanking over the hot photos or jump on cam. Because no one wants to meet anymore because people ruin it for other people because they dont show when arranged to meet.
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"There is a post in Welsh the forum about single men entitlement, I think this may help you  "
I’m all for calling out entitled blokes on here but i’m not sure that’s the case for this guy?
He’s just asking for tips as far as i can see, the same way someone might ask “how can i improve my dating profile?”.
That being said, it is a commonly posted topic. Any way we can have a stickied ‘popular topics’ thread? E.g. guidelines for a good profile, fab etiquette and first-timer info for Chams? |
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Male half here.
When I was on my singles profile it took me almost 3 years to figure out that socials are the best thing about fab. I went to my first one in January this year. On my own and I just completely stepped out of my comfort zone and had an amazing time getting to know other fabbers. Some I now consider genuine friends.
Since then I’ve been to many more socials and clubs. Trust me, attending the socials will open up FAB in a whole different way.
Single males who hide behind the site don’t get very far. You need to actually go out and engage people. Just be respectful and don’t ever expect anything sexually from a social, but it’s a great way for others to get a better idea of your personality. That does indeed go a long way.
Good luck OP. |
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We are sure the standard advice you get here of 'go to a local social or club' may work for some but that actually only opens you up to a fairly small selection of people.
There are plenty of people who have absolutely no desire to go to local socials or clubs but still want meets and the way to get those meets is through messaging on fab.
Just read people's profiles and send a message explaining why you're compatible and maybe ask a question to make it easy for the person to respond. It's really that simple yet 99% of people who message is fail to do it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to a social several years ago,not been again since as it was a fair distance away and appart from the organisers who were very welcoming and friendly, despite trying to engage people in conversation I was completely ignored. I guess if I'd gone every month and got myself known it might have been different.
Recently I've pretty much stopped sending messages as like most other men they were just getting deleted with no reply. I've now noticed that people who think I might actually be of interest to them are getting in touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't expect that everytime you come on here you'll get a meet. It ain't like that!
Just be yourself, put your name down for a couple of socials, maybe pop to chameleon's/greenhouse and interact in the forum's....
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
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"Most women ask for a face photo first and you send one and still get no reply. Theses women get alot of DM's
So i have come up with the perfect way to get a womans attention!
The first message you send dont attach a photo, but ask them for a face photo. IF you get an reply 99.9% it wont have an face photo but you will get an reply asking you for one.
Then what you do is delete the message and DM the next woman. Because you have most probs finished wanking by then over the currently hot photos and videos.
Then tomorrow you message another 74 women doing the same. And then 1 day a women will reply with an photo and then you found the women for you.
She have liked your photos you have liked all her photos, you both end up chatting for weeks building it up to meet, and then 1 of you aint going to show up to the meet.
You get blocked or block her and then you start all over again.
Stick to wanking over the hot photos or jump on cam. Because no one wants to meet anymore because people ruin it for other people because they dont show when arranged to meet.
Don’t generalise , people do want to meet ?
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