"I mean people message you here you tell them no or your not interested but the still bombard you with messages and get upset "
No cannot say we have ever had that issue. Even on my single males profile I’ve never had that problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either that or the old 'not as if you can be choosy' shit. I proactively use the block button, I block anyone I know isn't a fit, prevents any stress. The block button is a tool no different to the hotlist or filters X |
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"I mean people message you here you tell them no or your not interested but the still bombard you with messages and get upset "
Oh yes. Ive even had abuse for just saying "no thank you" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies get this all the time on here but for a single guy to get pestered I think you are dreaming ????????
My block button is in full use, so yes, single guys do get it  "
I've told you before it's those bloody socks, they're a minge magnet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean people message you here you tell them no or your not interested but the still bombard you with messages and get upset "
I've had a few people get really arsey and abusive, because I've said no!! Really grips my shit!! |
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I just use the block button these days.... worse ones are those that have failed to live up to their profile hype and I don't want to meet again. They think one meeting is a commitment on my part to be their fuck buddy for life.  |
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"You’re bound to get it from single guys for sure. We just block them. Easier to filter out all the crap. Anna gets stupid messages all the time from guys on her singles profile. "
The saddest part of this thread is the first sentence above. It shouldn't be expected or accepted behaviour from anyone.
This should be a safe space for everyone and anyone that can not accept a polite "no" should get a ban imo. Imagine one of these people actually met someone in the flesh and the person they met changed their mind 
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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago
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I'd love a simple no! your know we're you are then. I had a couple message me we chatted and arranged a social. They then pulled out. Looking at their veri's they hadn't meet anyone for over 4 years so I don't think they had any intention of meeting. If they said we have changed our mind that would have been fine |
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If folk can't accept a no..then they're not worthy of being on the site.
If persistent then tell them they've worn you down and you'll agree to meet them at such a place at such a time.
Chances are they're dreamers and they won't be there either... |
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I've been told to get off Fab if I'm not here as available to have sex with?!
