I take it as an absolute compliment - to have such a visual/physical demonstration of the ladies enjoyment is a pleasure to experience.
I have been so lucky recently that my swing meets and vanilla meets have all had squirting reactions - it has made me a very happy man.
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"I’ve never squirted. Is there a special technique?"
Yes and no. There is no 'technique' physically that will ALWAYS result in a squirt/gush every single time. Most guys get fixated on the finger motion that last worked (thinking it will work again on the same lady, or another)
It completely depends on the situation of the lady, the fingers (or sometimes if she is lucky the cock) involved. Just because a lady squirted a certain way before, doesn't mean she will do it again if the exact same thing is repeated by the same person.
Fluid levels, where her head is at, the technique of the fingers, sometimes even her willingness to squirt, can all be factor. Some ladies get embarrassed by it--'why???
Squirting/gushing has become the new 'female orgasm' target for most men. They feel they have done their job as a pleasurer only if it happens. As a result, some ladies feel obligated to try to make it happen. Previously most men didn't even know where the clitoris is. Or how effective it can be. Seems like a lot do now. So instead the genuine orgasm (real, not faked, we can tell) became the goal. Now that seems to have been mastered by some, squirting/gushing has become the new Mecca.
It's situational. If it happens then absofuckinglutely yes! But if it doesn't and you cum hard anyway, equally as brilliant! People who fixate in making you squirt will most times fail. You will feel a pressure to perform (and so fail just on that alone) and also because the technique they last used doesn't work for you today.
Some ladies achieve it on thoughts alone. Some need posterior vaginal play, some need anterior vaginal play. Some need both at once. Some need a variety.
It's become a new way to further castigate ladies and make them feel like they have yet another standard to meet (you aren't any good unless you can squirt through my haphazard fingerings - derrrhuhhuhhh) I find. Not for me. It happens or it doesn't. A good play partner will be able to tell if it is possible in the moment, and not try to force it when it never was possible to start with, even if you change the sheets every day  |
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"I’ve never squirted. Is there a special technique?
Yes and no. There is no 'technique' physically that will ALWAYS result in a squirt/gush every single time. Most guys get fixated on the finger motion that last worked (thinking it will work again on the same lady, or another)
It completely depends on the situation of the lady, the fingers (or sometimes if she is lucky the cock) involved. Just because a lady squirted a certain way before, doesn't mean she will do it again if the exact same thing is repeated by the same person.
Fluid levels, where her head is at, the technique of the fingers, sometimes even her willingness to squirt, can all be factor. Some ladies get embarrassed by it--'why???
Squirting/gushing has become the new 'female orgasm' target for most men. They feel they have done their job as a pleasurer only if it happens. As a result, some ladies feel obligated to try to make it happen. Previously most men didn't even know where the clitoris is. Or how effective it can be. Seems like a lot do now. So instead the genuine orgasm (real, not faked, we can tell) became the goal. Now that seems to have been mastered by some, squirting/gushing has become the new Mecca.
It's situational. If it happens then absofuckinglutely yes! But if it doesn't and you cum hard anyway, equally as brilliant! People who fixate in making you squirt will most times fail. You will feel a pressure to perform (and so fail just on that alone) and also because the technique they last used doesn't work for you today.
Some ladies achieve it on thoughts alone. Some need posterior vaginal play, some need anterior vaginal play. Some need both at once. Some need a variety.
It's become a new way to further castigate ladies and make them feel like they have yet another standard to meet (you aren't any good unless you can squirt through my haphazard fingerings - derrrhuhhuhhh) I find. Not for me. It happens or it doesn't. A good play partner will be able to tell if it is possible in the moment, and not try to force it when it never was possible to start with, even if you change the sheets every day "
100% what he said lol  |
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And as a final comment....
Not every lady orgasms when she squirts. Just because you made it rain indoors, doesn't mean she is satisfied. You want proof you did your job of giving her pleasure? Touch her after. If she can't handle it, you can feel smug, squirt or not |
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"I’ve never squirted. Is there a special technique?
Yes and no. There is no 'technique' physically that will ALWAYS result in a squirt/gush every single time. Most guys get fixated on the finger motion that last worked (thinking it will work again on the same lady, or another)
It completely depends on the situation of the lady, the fingers (or sometimes if she is lucky the cock) involved. Just because a lady squirted a certain way before, doesn't mean she will do it again if the exact same thing is repeated by the same person.
Fluid levels, where her head is at, the technique of the fingers, sometimes even her willingness to squirt, can all be factor. Some ladies get embarrassed by it--'why???
Squirting/gushing has become the new 'female orgasm' target for most men. They feel they have done their job as a pleasurer only if it happens. As a result, some ladies feel obligated to try to make it happen. Previously most men didn't even know where the clitoris is. Or how effective it can be. Seems like a lot do now. So instead the genuine orgasm (real, not faked, we can tell) became the goal. Now that seems to have been mastered by some, squirting/gushing has become the new Mecca.
It's situational. If it happens then absofuckinglutely yes! But if it doesn't and you cum hard anyway, equally as brilliant! People who fixate in making you squirt will most times fail. You will feel a pressure to perform (and so fail just on that alone) and also because the technique they last used doesn't work for you today.
Some ladies achieve it on thoughts alone. Some need posterior vaginal play, some need anterior vaginal play. Some need both at once. Some need a variety.
It's become a new way to further castigate ladies and make them feel like they have yet another standard to meet (you aren't any good unless you can squirt through my haphazard fingerings - derrrhuhhuhhh) I find. Not for me. It happens or it doesn't. A good play partner will be able to tell if it is possible in the moment, and not try to force it when it never was possible to start with, even if you change the sheets every day "
ohh definitely what he said . And very well said |
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"I’ve never squirted. Is there a special technique?
Yes and no. There is no 'technique' physically that will ALWAYS result in a squirt/gush every single time. Most guys get fixated on the finger motion that last worked (thinking it will work again on the same lady, or another)
It completely depends on the situation of the lady, the fingers (or sometimes if she is lucky the cock) involved. Just because a lady squirted a certain way before, doesn't mean she will do it again if the exact same thing is repeated by the same person.
Fluid levels, where her head is at, the technique the fingers, sometimes even her willingness to squirt, can all be factor. Some ladies get embarrassed by it--'why???
Squirting/gushing has become the new 'female orgasm' target for most men. They feel they have done their job as a pleasurer only if it happens. As a result, some ladies feel obligated to try to make it happen. Previously most men didn't even know where the clitoris is. Or how effective it can be. Seems like a lot do now. So instead the genuine orgasm (real, not faked, we can tell) became the goal. Now that seems to have been mastered by some, squirting/gushing has become the new Mecca.
It's situational. If it happens then absofuckinglutely yes! But if it doesn't and you cum hard anyway, equally as brilliant! People who fixate in making you squirt will most times fail. You will feel a pressure to perform (and so fail just on that alone) and also because the technique they last used doesn't work for you today.
Some ladies achieve it on thoughts alone. Some need posterior vaginal play, some need anterior vaginal play. Some need both at once. Some need a variety.
It's become a new way to further castigate ladies and make them feel like they have yet another standard to meet (you aren't any good unless you can squirt through my haphazard fingerings - derrrhuhhuhhh) I find. Not for me. It happens or it doesn't. A good play partner will be able to tell if it is possible in the moment, and not try to force it when it never was possible to start with, even if you change the sheets every day "
Very true. Joanne now with practise and guidence can squirt but can now stop it happening also as she found something that works to make it happenvor stop it happening altogether. But just because that technique works for her does not mean it will work for other women. Also need to concider some women will never be able to squirt or gush. Every vagina is different and and so is the brain it is connected to. |
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"And as a final comment....
Not every lady orgasms when she squirts. Just because you made it rain indoors, doesn't mean she is satisfied. You want proof you did your job of giving her pleasure? Touch her after. If she can't handle it, you can feel smug, squirt or not well sugar lips said you never made her squirt  "
As the gentleman states in his thread reply: not every woman squirts, and different techniques work for different ladies. Just because a woman hasn't squirted it doesn't mean she hasn't had a good time  |
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"I have a friend who has become to hate it.... His Mrs is a super squirter, said the bed gets soaking so have to plan extra cover and can disrupt the flow of carrying on xx"
I'm with his Mrs on this one, I find it a curse tbh & the restrictions it brings far outweighs the pleasure it gives X |
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