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By *onkey40 OP Man
over a year ago
Swansea |
Because unfortunately the regular couple I use to meet have moved away and I’m finding it difficult to find other regular couple/lady And lately the site seems to be full off time wasters or people just saying how their day is going. And not interested in meeting people.. I did wonder if my profile was putting people off due to amount off meets or is it because it’s rather basic compared to what it use to be |
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"Because unfortunately the regular couple I use to meet have moved away and I’m finding it difficult to find other regular couple/lady And lately the site seems to be full off time wasters or people just saying how their day is going. And not interested in meeting people.. I did wonder if my profile was putting people off due to amount off meets or is it because it’s rather basic compared to what it use to be "
It's not the amount of meets as they speak well of you in the veris. It's asking when you have done well meeting ladys amd cpls when some guys have been in here years and not had a single meet. Be greatful for what you have achieved. Your pics look fine also  . Joanne. |
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I completely agree with the OP, coming back on here as a single male is very hard. I’m fortunate to meet with some of the friends I made here as a couple which had kick started my verifications (which always helps)
I would say from what advice others usually give is maybe add some more to your profile text, head to the socials which is where we found most of our play friends in the early days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets / clubs are defently the way to go, your still out numbered there but at least the connection is made in person then. "
This exactly, I have spoken to couples and singles at socials that I wouldn't have been able to message on here ( out of age range etc ) but face to face is a different matter. I can and do construct a good initial message, however nothing beats face to face for everyone to get a feel for each other so to speak. Also some people ( like myself ) don't look as good in their pics as others, that just pull it off effortlessly. So yes, socials and clubs with no other expectations other than making possible connections |
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By *onkey40 OP Man
over a year ago
Swansea |
Like wise if I could smile in a picture it would be something.. I’ve thought about the club but for all the confidence I have I can’t bring my self to walking into a club by my self. I would be happy to walk in with a woman/couple and go different ways if needed |
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By *onkey40 OP Man
over a year ago
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Yea I understand but I can walk into a club by my self and it’s hard to find a lady that will join me and go different ways that wouldn’t be a problem I’ve got all the confidence just not the stepping over the door |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I understand but I can walk into a club by my self and it’s hard to find a lady that will join me and go different ways that wouldn’t be a problem I’ve got all the confidence just not the stepping over the door "
Why does it have to be a woman or a couple? Surely if moral support is all you are looking for and in your own words if you were escorted by either you would " go different ways " then a wingman so to speak would do just as well ?
A well established guy who's attended before would also work as a benefit in reguard to possibly making a few introductions. |
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My (male) first experience in a club was straight after a social. I got to know people at the social first and was invited to go to the club afterwards. It was a really awesome experience. If you don’t mind attending socials on your own, then it’s a good way to get yourself over the club door. |
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