As the title says, how did you all get in to swinging? I hadn't paid much attention to it ever until I met my ex's mum and step father who were swingers. I was curious about it but didn't pursue it. Also, and I know this will upset alot of people but I am now married and wife doesnt know im here, and really want to enjoy this with my wife. How did you broach the subject with your partner? |
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Went looking for garden play equipment, and.... here we are!!!
Nah.... we spoke about our fantasies for ages, it always got us going, and eventually we wanted to do something about it, so looked in t'interwebby.
We didnt actually find Fab first, we were on another site, then someone mentioned this one and... well, there rest, as they say, is history!  |
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try introducing it as a fantasy to her when you are having some fun together, you will be amazed at how many women fantasise about it and she may well leap at the chance  |
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For me it started 20+ years ago when we answered conact ads at the back of Forum Magazine, all by post & so damn slow lol. Back then Chams was a once monthly gathering in a dingy back room of a bar. Such a long way away from swinging as we do it today x |
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Back in 2001 ish
Just started out speaking about it informally..not planning/assuming anything..started using the old MSN chat rooms for swingers..got chatting to a few nice people, met one couple for drinks more out of curiosity then anything..but they dropped us out..didnt bother with it for a while..then got chatting to another couple who we had a lot in common with...then spoke on the phone, then met, met again and had a bit of a kiss an cuddle...then again for a couple of soft swinging sessions...
It all just 'evolved'..
Then we stopped...and haven't done anything since really.  |
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I cant even remember, but it was about 4/5 years back with a couple who are still good friends. No idea how I ended up on this site though, this came much later. |
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It started about 9 years ago for us.We were on a camping holiday in devon and started a talk on our wildest fantasies.At first we started watching real wife swap and sexcetra.We went to a social evening and a week later to our first club visit a real eye opener it was called the kink in cathays,we were nervous as hell just wanted to run.Then a week later we started playing for the first time at the klink newport never forget that place |
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From Mr C,
I was working in a car dealership and turned out that there was a porn film 'club' sharing and swapping videos, in cluding the owner.
When I said I was interested in joining that circle, because my wife and I were keen on porn to spice up play (ie: act out what you see) they revealed that they often went to a club in Bristol.
I mentioned this to Mrs C and here reaction was go along and see what it is all about.
I went and saw plenty of play but didn't get involved myself and reported back.
Next time they went we both went with them and Mrs C gave a guy a bj. Nust admit, having seen this, i wrestled with the concept for a few weeks before coming to the conclusion that 'what the hell' this isn't about love for others it's about naughty pleasure.
Having worked that out it developed from there.
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