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over a year ago
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A social for us was to see if the attraction was there after getting along nicely through private messaging also we have met up with people for a social purely because we got on well with them through the scene.
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over a year ago
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Depends who you interact with.
We always like to meet face to face first and then go from there.
It might happen on the day, but generally we like to arrange for another day, so that experiences can be enjoyed properly.
For us that goes for all profiles.
Hi we get that part stated each time and if they stick around and continue chatting, then great, but it does help filter out the on.es who have different expectations |
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Definitely social first. You can come across as a really nice person on messages but act like a complete arsehole on meeting.
Having a social first you can see if youre attracted to each other in person.
Unless youre a fuck and chuck person then go straight to the meet. I personally wont meet anyone who refuses a social first. |
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A social should never be assumed as anything more than getting to know each other as the title says - socially.
Yes it may lead to more on the day or for a lot of people more at a future date. That is completely up to all involved on the day |
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"What really is the definition of ‘social meets’?
Are naughty antics assumed? "
Nope its a social. At the end you can arrange to meet that person for a more intermit meet if you both like each other. But no we treat a social stricly as a social. |
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"What really is the definition of ‘social meets’?
Are naughty antics assumed? "
I never assume naughty antics on ANY meet.. there’s always the possibility that you could be politely declined…
But a social meet is purely that, social interaction. Something further may come of it, but the idea is just to meet and socialise |
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Social meet first is always my preference because, if I don't actually fancy someone, they have more chance of raising The Titanic, than what makes me smile as I dry myself down whilst looking in the mirror after taking a shower. However if the WOW factor is there it's inevitable that it's going to be drink up,and back to my place. |
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Can't add anything thats not been said above really. Some people are into hookups and getting it on right away, but we've found it's not for us.
We meed to be comfortable in the company of others before anything physical happens, and a social meet somewhere public like a pub with no pressure or expectation is where we like to start. |
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Generally go with the intention of a pure social meet, afterall you may not like them in the real world. But no harm keeping an option open for more if all goes well. I had a meet where the lady was very clear strictly social only. Because it was in another city I booked a room for the night. After a little chat I said I needed to pop out for 10 minutes so I could check in a drop my bag off. She insisted on seeing what my rooms was like. Needless to say it was the next morning when we left the room again. Likewise I was offered a lift home once (I'd come in on the bus) and let just say she took the scenic route home with me (she couldn't come mine or me hers as we both had kids at home).
The moral of the story, expect to keep it social but also make sure you put on some good underwear and smell delicious. |
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