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Why am I having no luck on here
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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Men massively outnumber women here.
Your profile doesn't really say anything about you so you don't stand out?
Two toothbrushes in your profile picture suggest you're in a couple?
(Just trying to think of anything people may be put off by)
Everyone seems to suggest socials at the best way to get to know people first. There is one coming up in Swansea.
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As already suggested the socials are a starting point but finding the right pubs are best. It's hard to find some one on here willing to meet for a social when I im out in cardiff but find the right pubs and you could be spoilt for choice. Always work for me.  |
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"As already suggested the socials are a starting point but finding the right pubs are best. It's hard to find some one on here willing to meet for a social when I im out in cardiff but find the right pubs and you could be spoilt for choice. Always work for me. "
The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha
I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique |
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"kill them with humor,destroy them with passion   "
Agreed with this, to an extent
But, couple's toothbrush, 1 public photo, no verifications, limited bio, will meet up to 99.
Club's or socials, get some veris, few photos, more info. And don't take it so seriously, this site is no reflection on you in the outside world. I'm sure you are lovely, we just don't see it with your profile.
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over a year ago
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"The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha
I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique"
Aww bless 
I've attended them all and find them all a good night out, always been welcomed by the hosts/hostesses too.
I must just be drawn in by the clique bait   |
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"The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha
I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique
Aww bless
I've attended them all and find them all a good night out, always been welcomed by the hosts/hostesses too.
I must just be drawn in by the clique bait "
Ah but you are a very sociable person! You get out what you put in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The socials organised on here - where there are a good bunch of people there - they are the best pubs haha
I do prefer Swansea and Blackwood socials over the Bridgend, Cardiff and Newport. I find the hostesses are friendlier although the organiser of the others still attends those with her clique
Aww bless
I've attended them all and find them all a good night out, always been welcomed by the hosts/hostesses too.
I must just be drawn in by the clique bait
Ah but you are a very sociable person! You get out what you put in "
Indeed and thanks, hope you're both well xx |
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We attended the pontypridd social and it was so much fun. We made a few friends and had a good night. We will be attending the llanelli and swamsea socials also. You get out what you put in. Trouble is op loads of single guys join fab thinking they are guaranteed a shag because they view this site as a sex site when infact its a swingers site so totally different. Only thing in life you are guaranteed is one day you will die! Guys need to stop assuming sex is guaranteed on here. Plenty of sex only sites out there if you want them! Jo |
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Never got on with the socials, always felt uncomfortable. Too many people for us and it seemed like we were the only ones who didn't know anyone.
We prefer a small meeting with a guy in a social environment. We usually have chatted for a while beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never got on with the socials, always felt uncomfortable. Too many people for us and it seemed like we were the only ones who didn't know anyone.
We prefer a small meeting with a guy in a social environment. We usually have chatted for a while beforehand."
We done the Newport one three times and it just wasn't for us, it's a very popular social but we just never really enjoyed them however we did do the Bristol one a couple of times and enjoyed them, maybe a different vibe or maybe not, can't really put our finger on why we enjoyed one more than the other. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to let everyone know the toothbrushes are mine and my son's. I buy the multi pack one's and the colour does not bother me but I see how it may look. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hope you take this the right way.
Firstly you got nothing of interest on your profile.
The snap shot looks awful.
There's a lot of guys on here you need to do something to stand out."
Thanks for your input I shall make some changes. |
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"Your profile says "very new" but you've been here over a year.
That shows a lack of care or effort on your part. "
Exactly this, always wonder why guys been on over a year without so much as a social. Its not that hard to get a social meet or attend an arranged social. |
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By *ac711Man
over a year ago
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I would love to attend a social but due to my disability I find it impossible, I’ve had meetings in the past both singles and couples who have accepted my disability. Maybe times have changed or is an age thing these days?  |
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