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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all.  |
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This ^^^
The amount of men on here it takes a great deal to stand out with your profile/messages. There are far less men competing to talk at a social and so much easier to get the attention of women/couples. Not only this but those personalities can be shown so much easier at a social which is more valuable to some that anything else! |
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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago
Neath,united kingdom |
"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all. "
Definitely agree! |
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"This ^^^
The amount of men on here it takes a great deal to stand out with your profile/messages. There are far less men competing to talk at a social and so much easier to get the attention of women/couples. Not only this but those personalities can be shown so much easier at a social which is more valuable to some that anything else!"
OMG!!
This in a nutshell |
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By *e_SocksWoman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all. "
All of this.
Fab is what you put into it.
If all you are is a faceless keyboard warrior then your not going to get far.
It was lovely meeting you over the past few week and I hope many others read about your experience and join us in the social events |
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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all.
All of this.
Fab is what you put into it.
If all you are is a faceless keyboard warrior then your not going to get far.
It was lovely meeting you over the past few week and I hope many others read about your experience and join us in the social events"
Thank you for saying lovely. I’ve had a pretty amazing 2022 so far. I’ve started the year as I mean to go on. |
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Totally agree with you mate. Been here years but lockdown and isolation and getting involved in the forum made me rethink a lot of things. I started forum banter with a few people, one of whom is in this thread and decided I wanted to meet them in person. That lead on to me meeting another beautiful soul on this thread and many others and so on. I took the thought of meeting up purely for hooking up and chucked it, I wanted to make new friends and socialise which I have done.
I will say though, a certain lady held my hand at my first social and introduced me around. Which I was very grateful for.
Bottom line, this isn't instashag and the women arnt pieces of meat. Also a lot of women on here are more interested in a blokes personality that their dick. Talk, be interesting. If you're not interesting, jump on the forum and talk shit like me 
Ok I'm rambling now. I'll shut up  |
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"Totally agree with you mate. Been here years but lockdown and isolation and getting involved in the forum made me rethink a lot of things. I started forum banter with a few people, one of whom is in this thread and decided I wanted to meet them in person. That lead on to me meeting another beautiful soul on this thread and many others and so on. I took the thought of meeting up purely for hooking up and chucked it, I wanted to make new friends and socialise which I have done.
I will say though, a certain lady held my hand at my first social and introduced me around. Which I was very grateful for.
Bottom line, this isn't instashag and the women arnt pieces of meat. Also a lot of women on here are more interested in a blokes personality that their dick. Talk, be interesting. If you're not interesting, jump on the forum and talk shit like me
Ok I'm rambling now. I'll shut up "
This just goes to show, putting abit of personality around the forum gets you seen! Getting to a social gets you even more visible! |
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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
"Totally agree with you mate. Been here years but lockdown and isolation and getting involved in the forum made me rethink a lot of things. I started forum banter with a few people, one of whom is in this thread and decided I wanted to meet them in person. That lead on to me meeting another beautiful soul on this thread and many others and so on. I took the thought of meeting up purely for hooking up and chucked it, I wanted to make new friends and socialise which I have done.
I will say though, a certain lady held my hand at my first social and introduced me around. Which I was very grateful for.
Bottom line, this isn't instashag and the women arnt pieces of meat. Also a lot of women on here are more interested in a blokes personality that their dick. Talk, be interesting. If you're not interesting, jump on the forum and talk shit like me
Ok I'm rambling now. I'll shut up
This just goes to show, putting abit of personality around the forum gets you seen! Getting to a social gets you even more visible! "
It does indeed! More socials already booked into my calendar. |
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"Totally agree with you mate. Been here years but lockdown and isolation and getting involved in the forum made me rethink a lot of things. I started forum banter with a few people, one of whom is in this thread and decided I wanted to meet them in person. That lead on to me meeting another beautiful soul on this thread and many others and so on. I took the thought of meeting up purely for hooking up and chucked it, I wanted to make new friends and socialise which I have done.
I will say though, a certain lady held my hand at my first social and introduced me around. Which I was very grateful for.
Bottom line, this isn't instashag and the women arnt pieces of meat. Also a lot of women on here are more interested in a blokes personality that their dick. Talk, be interesting. If you're not interesting, jump on the forum and talk shit like me
Ok I'm rambling now. I'll shut up
This just goes to show, putting abit of personality around the forum gets you seen! Getting to a social gets you even more visible! "
It certainly does, and each social I've been to I've met people and they've all asked my username, when I tell them they smile and say "ahhh so you're him"  and that's mainly from non forum users. |
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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
"Totally agree with you mate. Been here years but lockdown and isolation and getting involved in the forum made me rethink a lot of things. I started forum banter with a few people, one of whom is in this thread and decided I wanted to meet them in person. That lead on to me meeting another beautiful soul on this thread and many others and so on. I took the thought of meeting up purely for hooking up and chucked it, I wanted to make new friends and socialise which I have done.
I will say though, a certain lady held my hand at my first social and introduced me around. Which I was very grateful for.
Bottom line, this isn't instashag and the women arnt pieces of meat. Also a lot of women on here are more interested in a blokes personality that their dick. Talk, be interesting. If you're not interesting, jump on the forum and talk shit like me
Ok I'm rambling now. I'll shut up
This just goes to show, putting abit of personality around the forum gets you seen! Getting to a social gets you even more visible!
It certainly does, and each social I've been to I've met people and they've all asked my username, when I tell them they smile and say "ahhh so you're him" and that's mainly from non forum users. "
When people ask what my FAB name is they always remember it because of my ass. Haha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all.
All of this.
Fab is what you put into it.
If all you are is a faceless keyboard warrior then your not going to get far.
It was lovely meeting you over the past few week and I hope many others read about your experience and join us in the social events
Thank you for saying lovely. I’ve had a pretty amazing 2022 so far. I’ve started the year as I mean to go on. "
All that’s well and good some people aren’t as socially expert as most yet those people are some of the best people anyone could wish to meet |
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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all.
All of this.
Fab is what you put into it.
If all you are is a faceless keyboard warrior then your not going to get far.
It was lovely meeting you over the past few week and I hope many others read about your experience and join us in the social events
Thank you for saying lovely. I’ve had a pretty amazing 2022 so far. I’ve started the year as I mean to go on.
All that’s well and good some people aren’t as socially expert as most yet those people are some of the best people anyone could wish to meet "
I am that exact person though. I am far from a social expert! Have a lot of anxiety about it. But I decided to just go and it was the best thing for me. The socials are amazing and so are the people. I feel like I’ve found my place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was talk of a Bridgend social too which would be good as it's a fucking genuine pain in the arse going up to Newport"
The Newport social is probably the busiest and most popular social and the couple who organise it do most of the socials in Wales.
If you want a social more convenient for youself why dont you try and organise one and see all the hard work that goes into it and what a thankless task it is.
I think youll find that thats a fucking genuine pain in the arse.
PS They do actually do a social in Bridgend. |
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Attending socials is the best way forward. It does require a little petrol money of course, but it is worth it.
I'd try starting a social in Ceredigion, but the "everyone knows everyone" issue plus the usual teething problems of no-shows, etc render that very very difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all. "
This ^^^^
Is going to be me very soon.
You all will be seeing me in as many socials as I can attend.
Sending messages on here is like trying to get an answer from him/her up there.
Try as you might it hard to get a response.
I have always been a very easy person to talk too. I may not be the first one to talk but I can guarantee I will have you laughing and smiling.
So Swansea first then Newport.
I was signed up to one in Bridgend before Xmas but the forum post/organiser vanished???? |
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"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all.
All of this.
Fab is what you put into it.
If all you are is a faceless keyboard warrior then your not going to get far.
It was lovely meeting you over the past few week and I hope many others read about your experience and join us in the social events
Thank you for saying lovely. I’ve had a pretty amazing 2022 so far. I’ve started the year as I mean to go on.
All that’s well and good some people aren’t as socially expert as most yet those people are some of the best people anyone could wish to meet "
you think I'm not? Seriously? I tell you what, as confident as I come across, when I went to my first social I was like a rabbit in the headlights. I was still like it on my 3rd social. Get out there and meet people guys, socials are the way. Let's put it simply, put in the ground work and it'll reap rewards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It works for definite, it’s what I did and have done for many years now, put effort in and effort gets rewards so many great people to meet at the socials and clubs, get yourselves out there and enjoy it! |
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"Max is 100% right plus he's a genuine guy, not seen you at charms for a long time tho"
Taking a time out to deal with my mental health and anxiety. I've opened up to a couple of my close friends here so they understand.
Fingers crossed I'll be back one day as I miss my everyone. |
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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
"What’s Man Children ??"
Guys who have tantrums when rejected by women, and go immediately on the defensive a become abusive just because they were told no. By definition I think that qualifies as a Man Child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are amazing!!! and can’t wait to start going to the socials ! In the short time I’ve been here you have made me feel so relaxed and given me so much advice! You’ve got such a positive outlook and are just the loveliest guy !! Excited for all the things to come ! Xxxx |
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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
"You are amazing!!! and can’t wait to start going to the socials ! In the short time I’ve been here you have made me feel so relaxed and given me so much advice! You’ve got such a positive outlook and are just the loveliest guy !! Excited for all the things to come ! Xxxx"
Thank you gorgeous. Cannot wait to take you to the socials. Just want you some more to myself first.  xxx |
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"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all. "
I am so glad u chose to dive in to our social hun.
You were an absolute pleasure of a guest.
I would definitely say to any fab members that socials are an amazing way to meet people.
Sometimes u end up with some amazing friends, and people u would not normally meet if you are just looking to meet.
It's not even about being sexual most of the time but to come away with a brilliant array of friends is absolute awesome.
Looking forward to having u join us again soon hun.
Stay sexy.
Kitten. X x
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By *jolnir85 OP Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all.
I am so glad u chose to dive in to our social hun.
You were an absolute pleasure of a guest.
I would definitely say to any fab members that socials are an amazing way to meet people.
Sometimes u end up with some amazing friends, and people u would not normally meet if you are just looking to meet.
It's not even about being sexual most of the time but to come away with a brilliant array of friends is absolute awesome.
Looking forward to having u join us again soon hun.
Stay sexy.
Kitten. X x
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Thank you Kitten. I’m looking forward to seeing you guys again very soon. Thanks for making my first social an awesome experience. Really opened my eyes and I’ve met some amazing people along the way. Definitely here to stay and get to know you all better. x |
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"So I’ve been on and off fab for about 3 years. I really used to struggle with the site when I first started. Had some great meets but also some disappointing experiences too and didn’t really feel I was getting what I needed out of FAB.
All of that has kind of changed for me a bit. I’ve been to a few socials and I’ve got to say that it’s opened FAB up for me in a whole new and exciting way. In the last 3 weeks alone I have met some amazing and wonderful people, and had some pretty awesome experiences just by going to a social.
Anyways point of the thread is to offer a little advice to anyone who is new here or is struggling to make a connection or get themselves out there.
Get yourself on a socials list and just go. Don’t hide behind the site. Be part of the FAB community. They’re an awesome bunch of naughty perverted people and I love you all.
All of this.
Fab is what you put into it.
If all you are is a faceless keyboard warrior then your not going to get far.
It was lovely meeting you over the past few week and I hope many others read about your experience and join us in the social events
Thank you for saying lovely. I’ve had a pretty amazing 2022 so far. I’ve started the year as I mean to go on.
All that’s well and good some people aren’t as socially expert as most yet those people are some of the best people anyone could wish to meet
you think I'm not? Seriously? I tell you what, as confident as I come across, when I went to my first social I was like a rabbit in the headlights. I was still like it on my 3rd social. Get out there and meet people guys, socials are the way. Let's put it simply, put in the ground work and it'll reap rewards. "
You was like a duck to water on your first one mate  |
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