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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just wondering if anyone would like to help an old guy celebrate his 40th birthday

I don't have anyone il be honest just don't want to see bother birthday in alone

Few drinks and some fun if interested I can host a few people

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By *edinthecornerWoman over a year ago

Abertillery

"Just wondering if anyone would like to help an old guy celebrate his 40th birthday

I don't have anyone il be honest just don't want to see bother birthday in alone

Few drinks and some fun if interested I can host a few people "

If it’s a Friday or Saturday or you want to celebrate it on a Friday or Saturday get yourself down to chams in Newport. It’s very social there

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just wondering if anyone would like to help an old guy celebrate his 40th birthday

I don't have anyone il be honest just don't want to see bother birthday in alone

Few drinks and some fun if interested I can host a few people

If it’s a Friday or Saturday or you want to celebrate it on a Friday or Saturday get yourself down to chams in Newport. It’s very social there "
. Pm me please

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By *ecretsub666Woman over a year ago

Cardiff

"Just wondering if anyone would like to help an old guy celebrate his 40th birthday

I don't have anyone il be honest just don't want to see bother birthday in alone

Few drinks and some fun if interested I can host a few people

If it’s a Friday or Saturday or you want to celebrate it on a Friday or Saturday get yourself down to chams in Newport. It’s very social there "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just wondering if anyone would like to help an old guy celebrate his 40th birthday

I don't have anyone il be honest just don't want to see bother birthday in alone

Few drinks and some fun if interested I can host a few people

If it’s a Friday or Saturday or you want to celebrate it on a Friday or Saturday get yourself down to chams in Newport. It’s very social there

Exactly what she said, there’s usually posts on here each weekend too see who’s going. Pop your name on and interact with people there. (Just be a big boy and don’t be afraid to walk in alone) chat at the bar and see if someone has time to show you around!"
if people won't chat to me in here what chance at chams will I have il be the biggest loner there as I don't know anyone unlike the rest of you as you all chat to each other lol

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By *ecretsub666Woman over a year ago

Cardiff

"Just wondering if anyone would like to help an old guy celebrate his 40th birthday

I don't have anyone il be honest just don't want to see bother birthday in alone

Few drinks and some fun if interested I can host a few people

If it’s a Friday or Saturday or you want to celebrate it on a Friday or Saturday get yourself down to chams in Newport. It’s very social there

Exactly what she said, there’s usually posts on here each weekend too see who’s going. Pop your name on and interact with people there. (Just be a big boy and don’t be afraid to walk in alone) chat at the bar and see if someone has time to show you around! if people won't chat to me in here what chance at chams will I have il be the biggest loner there as I don't know anyone unlike the rest of you as you all chat to each other lol "

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By *ord MarmiteMan over a year ago

BRIDGEND

"if people won't chat to me in here what chance at chams will I have il be the biggest loner there as I don't know anyone unlike the rest of you as you all chat to each other lol "

You have to start somewhere though. This site is absolutely the worst way to get yourself noticed. Even if you are Adonis himself with the sexual skills of Lucifer Morningstar, you will find that you don't matter much on here. Because you are lost in the putrid cesspit that has every single other male on here in it.

The best way to get people to take you seriously in this lifestyle is simple. Go to a club, in this case Chams has been suggested. Or go to a major Social event that has been posted on these very forums. It doesn't matter if you don't know anyone else. Fake it until you make it. Smile a little, pass a non-sleazy compliment perhaps. Talk to anyone else there, even if they aren't your 'type' or even if they're another single male and you're both straight. Make that first contact, and then the dominoes will slowly begin to fall and you will find that you can get to know people.

It's all about how much effort you put in. Every single person that is 'popular' had to start somewhere.

You didn't say when you turn 40. You didn't say what type of fun you would like. Little things like this are important for other people to know about so they can decide if they want to contact you.

I will refrain from speaking my actual opinion, because I don't know you or where you are coming from. I'm giving you the same basic advice as I would give to anyone else posting similar things.

Get yourself to a club or a major social, you can let people get to know you much better that way. Because let's face it, words on a screen in a forum really suck as an alternative option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"if people won't chat to me in here what chance at chams will I have il be the biggest loner there as I don't know anyone unlike the rest of you as you all chat to each other lol

It's all about how much effort you put in. Every single person that is 'popular' had to start somewhere.

You didn't say when you turn 40. You didn't say what type of fun you would like. Little things like this are important for other people to know about so they can decide if they want to contact you.

I will refrain from speaking my actual opinion, because I don't know you or where you are coming from. I'm giving you the same basic advice as I would give to anyone else posting similar things.

Get yourself to a club or a major social, you can let people get to know you much better that way. Because let's face it, words on a screen in a forum really suck as an alternative option.

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sites just as shit tbh mistake joining it and so much time wasted

And a forum well why not but not like anyone actually chats anyway

I'm asking that's all don't have to go on with a big message like lol

And il not go to a club or a social if people won't talk on here first

What's the point

As if they can't be bothered to chat on here they won't chat face to face either

life lesson that is

Rejections my middle fukin name lol

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By *ord MarmiteMan over a year ago

BRIDGEND

" life lesson that is

Rejections my middle fukin name lol "

Good luck with that attitude OP. I hope you have a happy birthday when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just wondering if anyone would like to help an old guy celebrate his 40th birthday

I don't have anyone il be honest just don't want to see bother birthday in alone

Few drinks and some fun if interested I can host a few people

If it’s a Friday or Saturday or you want to celebrate it on a Friday or Saturday get yourself down to chams in Newport. It’s very social there

Exactly what she said, there’s usually posts on here each weekend too see who’s going. Pop your name on and interact with people there. (Just be a big boy and don’t be afraid to walk in alone) chat at the bar and see if someone has time to show you around! if people won't chat to me in here what chance at chams will I have il be the biggest loner there as I don't know anyone unlike the rest of you as you all chat to each other lol

We’ve all got to know each other by chatting here, at the social events and clubs. There’s thousands of guys who all want to chat on here, but only a few who turn up to these places so they do get more chance of chatting and being taken seriously as a swinger and not just a man out to get a fuck x"
i won't turn up unless people speak to me on here forget it whats point il celebrate it alone and socials nah people can't be bothered to talk on the site they won't talk face to face

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By *ite -meWoman over a year ago

my house

You have had 2 meets,why not ask one of them to accompany you to the social ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" life lesson that is

Rejections my middle fukin name lol

Good luck with that attitude OP. I hope you have a happy birthday when it happens. "
well the amount of messages sent and ignored or read n deleted doesn't fill me with faith or hope

and what life lesson is right I should know I've lived my life not you lol

And rejected for being me not sugar coated shit

Just seems to be alot of time wasters or alot of arrogant n ignorant people or a shit load of fakes lol

Just get me I'm a nice guy just people assume sue to the other dickhead single guys that actully send the abusive messages least they get. No thanks I get fuk all lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You have had 2 meets,why not ask one of them to accompany you to the social ? "
1 I don't talk to or bother with as there out havin there own fun on here and the other lmfao nah your good if was a Web cam not a meet

And I've been here long enough and still no one gives me a chance so many shallow people on here lol

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By *ite -meWoman over a year ago

my house

Look on the social thread and try find someone to go with ????

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By *ite -meWoman over a year ago

my house

I walked in alone many years ago...once you done it once you be ok. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I walked in alone many years ago...once you done it once you be ok. Good luck."
was that before or after you had people on this site talking to you??

As Ive said if people aint willing to chat on fab then they won't talk face to face hence I won't go to be sat there alone all Night I can stay home and do that

As Ive looked put up meets and sent messages and still nothing lol so you tell me eh its not all about going to a social where those people won't even chat on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In all honesty you come across as a loner feeling sorry for himself.

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

You say people won't chat. Are you getting involved with threads or starting threads and getting huffy when nobody responds?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're in the wrong place with an attitude like that, I suggest you take that big chip on your shoulder & get supplies in for home alone sex, I can see many women finding any of this attractive. Unless of course their into mummy/naughty toddler role play.

You've had lots of good advice from men who've started out just like you, minus the attitude & they've discovered that you get out what you put in. You put tantrums in you'll get treated like the sulky little boy you come across as X

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

It seems that the OP admits that he has trouble making friends away from Fab, and yet it's Fab that's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can 100% Guarantee that at least a few people would have noticed you are new to socials and gone out of there way to involve you.

We arent some secret society with funny handshakes. Well not in that way anyway.

Sometimes it can feel a little odd being new, but dont forget you are walking into a room where there are a lot of friendships.

So put that dummy back in your mouth and get on with it.

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

" life lesson that is

Rejections my middle fukin name lol

Good luck with that attitude OP. I hope you have a happy birthday when it happens. well the amount of messages sent and ignored or read n deleted doesn't fill me with faith or hope

and what life lesson is right I should know I've lived my life not you lol

And rejected for being me not sugar coated shit

Just seems to be alot of time wasters or alot of arrogant n ignorant people or a shit load of fakes lol

Just get me I'm a nice guy just people assume sue to the other dickhead single guys that actully send the abusive messages least they get. No thanks I get fuk all lol

Negative attitude doesn’t get you very far to be honest. You have to be patient with this site. You’re messages aren’t necessarily getting ignored, more just getting lost in the mail. Women get hundreds of messages a day on here so if you do send a message, you have to try and make it stand out.

Playing the sympathy card never works, and it gets old very fast. Try putting yourself out there, take some chances.

Also, doesn’t help if your profile is hidden.

But seriously OP. Change the attitude. That’s your first priority.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman over a year ago

Pontypridd

Just seems to be alot of time wasters or alot of arrogant n ignorant people or a shit load of fakes lol

Just get me I'm a nice guy just people assume sue to the other dickhead single guys that actully send the abusive messages least they get. No thanks I get fuk all lol

Are fakes the women who don't want to talk to you?

You get what you work for. Make an effort to attend socials and clubs. That's how we all started. I walked into parties alone, not knowing people.

The attitude here isn't going to make people want to chat to you.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

That went wrong quickly !

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By *ldionMan over a year ago

swansea

"if people won't chat to me in here what chance at chams will I have il be the biggest loner there as I don't know anyone unlike the rest of you as you all chat to each other lol

It's all about how much effort you put in. Every single person that is 'popular' had to start somewhere.

You didn't say when you turn 40. You didn't say what type of fun you would like. Little things like this are important for other people to know about so they can decide if they want to contact you.

I will refrain from speaking my actual opinion, because I don't know you or where you are coming from. I'm giving you the same basic advice as I would give to anyone else posting similar things.

Get yourself to a club or a major social, you can let people get to know you much better that way. Because let's face it, words on a screen in a forum really suck as an alternative option.

sites just as shit tbh mistake joining it and so much time wasted

And a forum well why not but not like anyone actually chats anyway

I'm asking that's all don't have to go on with a big message like lol

And il not go to a club or a social if people won't talk on here first

What's the point

As if they can't be bothered to chat on here they won't chat face to face either

life lesson that is

Rejections my middle fukin name lol "

Pretty mush all the single guys on here start out the same dude. I was messaging people on here when I first joined and got NOWHERE, got very little reply’s from others.

UNTIL I went to my first social. Didn’t know anyone there and hadn’t spoken to anyone who’s was attending but I still went and 3 years later I’m still here. Attending socials and chams is a great way to meet others from her and it lets other see that you are genuine.

I even went to Chams before I went to a social and was the same there. Didn’t know anyone and hadn’t spoken to anyone going yet I still got to know people there by chatting to them and getting introduced to others. That’s how it works.

Not only that if you do attend one of the socials let the organisers know that it’s your first time and you don’t know anyone and they will introduce you other and make sure you feel comfortable

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By *hris 62Man over a year ago

HEREFORD

Go to club and social, try chatting, they get to know you ,I'm still new on the club and social side ,gone a bit shy on the chatting side with the lockdowns and now liveing alone ,people are now saying hi and feeling comfortable with me being are as a single male, just do not be to pushy,

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By *emon DelightMan over a year ago

South Wales

I was terrified going into my first social - not just because I didn’t know anyone, but because it was also a Sunday lunch social, which meant eating in front of a bunch of strangers

lol

But the organisers were great - met me outside and introduced me to others who all made me feel very welcome

On the back of that social, I was invited to a small social gathering at someone’s house a few days later, which in turn led to a big confidence boost and further socials & meets.

You might think that if people won’t chat on fab, they won’t chat face-to-face, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. You just need the courage to take those first steps

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

Chatting 1-on-1 here and joining in with a group of people at a club are very different things. It's much easier to insert yourself into a social chinwag at a club where you can listen in and then contribute. After that, you'll probably have little breakaway chats with smaller groups

Just go in with a smile on your face and say hi.

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Give over, and stop wallowing in your own self pity!

Your a little fish in a Maaaasssive bowl! I (male) was here as a singleton some years ago, prior to meeting my better half. Putting in the hard yardage at socials and clubs is what will make you stand out from the crowd. Ohh, and heaven forbid, you may have the chance to interact with people...

I get it, it's not everyone's cup of tea (I sh*t myself, at my first social) but if your not prepared to do anything about it, stop bloody moaning. The site owes you nothing.

Over and out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Give over, and stop wallowing in your own self pity!

I get it, it's not everyone's cup of tea (I sh*t myself, at my first social) but if your not prepared to do anything about it, stop bloody moaning. The site owes you nothing.

Over and out

D"
its just the part of I don't know anyone why would I go for?? I'm not Gona sit there in my jack. If people can't speak on here doesn't fill me with confidence about going

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You're in the wrong place with an attitude like that, I suggest you take that big chip on your shoulder & get supplies in for home alone sex, I can see many women finding any of this attractive. Unless of course their into mummy/naughty toddler role play.

I just wanted some company for my 40th as I have no one but hey no chip shoulder thanks never has been.

Just stating a fact if people won't talk on here why would I Wana go to a club where I don't know anyone?

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By *indictiveMan over a year ago

Bridgend

You have asked for advice Op and given the same advice over and over again but still ignored it? I am not really sure what your looking for apart from pity?

Take people's advice, chatting via a keyboard is totally different from in person. You have had loads of "chatting on here" so why would you think any different?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Give over, and stop wallowing in your own self pity!

I get it, it's not everyone's cup of tea (I sh*t myself, at my first social) but if your not prepared to do anything about it, stop bloody moaning. The site owes you nothing.

Over and out

D"
have you read what thus is about did I mention going to a club ir a social nope just wanted some company for my bday

So not moaning

Just replying to everyone elses bs

Only asked for a few drinks n some fun

People are getting on my case for it wtaf lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Any of you lot have anxiety!?

Do you know how hard it is to go somewhere u don't know anyone

This is why ive said what I said

If people aint willing to talk on here

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Give over, and stop wallowing in your own self pity!

I get it, it's not everyone's cup of tea (I sh*t myself, at my first social) but if your not prepared to do anything about it, stop bloody moaning. The site owes you nothing.

Over and out

D its just the part of I don't know anyone why would I go for?? I'm not Gona sit there in my jack. If people can't speak on here doesn't fill me with confidence about going "

You go to meet people. That’s the point... I really don’t get how you don’t realise this. You say why would you go, because you don’t know anyone. Yet you’re bitching about the fact that no one is talking to you. You just keep digging at this point.

You have to make the effort. If you’re not willing, then why should anyone be expected to extend you the same courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You have asked for advice Op and given the same advice over and over again but still ignored it? I am not really sure what your looking for apart from pity?

Take people's advice, chatting via a keyboard is totally different from in person. You have had loads of "chatting on here" so why would you think any different? "
didn't ask for advice mate what's its say? My 40th and someone to help celebrate it not chat about clubs n all that damn what is it with people?

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Any of you lot have anxiety!?

Do you know how hard it is to go somewhere u don't know anyone

This is why ive said what I said

If people aint willing to talk on here

Dude, I have depression and anxiety! So I know exactly what it’s like. But bitching to a bunch of strangers who are just trying to offer some constructive advice isn’t really gonna help your situation. Going to socials will. It will help build your confidence and hopefully alleviate any anxiety you might be feeling. Stop whinging and just do it.

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By *indictiveMan over a year ago

Bridgend

"You have asked for advice Op and given the same advice over and over again but still ignored it? I am not really sure what your looking for apart from pity?

Take people's advice, chatting via a keyboard is totally different from in person. You have had loads of "chatting on here" so why would you think any different? didn't ask for advice mate what's its say? My 40th and someone to help celebrate it not chat about clubs n all that damn what is it with people? "

You asked for company on your 40th right? So people said go to clubs and socials on your birthday. So that would be company on your birthday? You asked a question and people replied...

Not getting at you, just trying to help.

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By *exyswingerbbwWoman over a year ago

Caerphilly

"You have asked for advice Op and given the same advice over and over again but still ignored it? I am not really sure what your looking for apart from pity?

OK so you want someone to celebrate your birthday with but even if you to chat to someone on here for a while you are still potentially meeting a stranger, as people have said it's very different chatting behind a screen to actually physically being I front of someone. I am not talking about clubs or socials although everything everyone else said had made sense they are just trying to help with your no one talks comment. But my point is however much you talk on herd you are still meeting a stranger. It takes more then one or two meets to not be a stranger, hopefully I made a little sense op

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

"You have asked for advice Op and given the same advice over and over again but still ignored it? I am not really sure what your looking for apart from pity?

Good luck tying to get through to this guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

All lot can go jog on ai

I ain't going no fukin club

Can't do loads of people I don't know or haven't chatted to before

I wasn't asking adive on clubs or anything

just asked if someone fancies a few drinks n shit at mine lol

SEE YOU ALL ON YOUR HORSES AI DONT FALL OFF LOL

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

"All lot can go jog on ai

I ain't going no fukin club

Can't do loads of people I don't know or haven't chatted to before

I wasn't asking adive on clubs or anything

just asked if someone fancies a few drinks n shit at mine lol

SEE YOU ALL ON YOUR HORSES AI DONT FALL OFF LOL"

All I can say buddy is good luck. You’re definitely gonna need it. Enjoy your 40th.

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By *exyswingerbbwWoman over a year ago

Caerphilly

"You have asked for advice Op and given the same advice over and over again but still ignored it? I am not really sure what your looking for apart from pity?

Good luck tying to get through to this guy. "

Apparently I like banging my head against a brick wall lol

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By *ecretsub666Woman over a year ago

Cardiff

Think you’ve managed to get yourself added to a bunch of peoples lists today…

Yes you didn’t ask for advise on clubs, but it was a suggestion where you could celebrate your birthday rather than expecting strangers to turn up to your house!

You went on the war path of no one talking to you in here. As multiple people who have been here a heck of a lot longer than your 3 months gave you advice you just shot them down and kept trying to play the violin.

Well with the attitude you have shown on here I’m sure you will now find it even harder to make connections online.

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

Op I don’t know if you noticed but there are a few who are talking to you and trying to help you now none of us have met you yet still trying to help you out and this is the way you talk to people in a social tell someone there you shitting it and I have no doubt you would not be the only one get a drink in you and relax. Tho from your replies to everyone who is trying to help you I don’t think this is right sight for you most attractive part of anyone for me (male half ) is the person attitude and yours seems to be full of self pity and loathing . You need to take a chance sometimes in life and if you can’t then your life can’t change . Good luck and hope you have a good birthday anyway .

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

"D its just the part of I don't know anyone why would I go for?? I'm not Gona sit there in my jack. If people can't speak on here doesn't fill me with confidence about going "

What I would say is that the Newport Social isn't the best one for someone new hoping to chat to people. It's a party night with music, etc. Bridgend, Swansea and Cardiff are all relaxed and conversational. People will talk to you. How long they talk to you depends on your personality, but everyone gives newbies a chance.

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

"I wasn't asking adive on clubs or anything

just asked if someone fancies a few drinks n shit at mine lol "

My idea of a great night is going to a mardy, aggressive stranger's house for a drink.

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By *ris400Man over a year ago

Newport

Wow OP. You asked if people would like to join you for your 40th.

I going to say that first stop playing the symphony card just stop, second you don't want to do to the socials/club as no one will talk to you but you're willing to let a bunch of strangers turn up at your home and you then expect them to be sociable with you, yet you seem be be going out your way to alienate yourself.

You say people are not willing to talk to you, if you shoot them down here in the fourm then they will never wish to reach out to you in a private chat.

If you're serious about wanting to make connections using this site then first you need to get known and the known in the right way. That means showing up at a social or two. I've been to a couple of the Newport ones, I turned up alone, and it's just a group of like minded people in a bar environment having a drink, there's no 'play' involved and everyone is fully clothed and respectful and as stated above if you tell the organisers it's your first time they'll make sure that they help you chat to a few people.

If you really want to take the plunge then again as stated above come to the club, its relaxed and chilled out and people are friendly and will give you thier time as long as you're respectful towards them to. Know the boundaries (read the club etiquette page lots of great advice there).

But the choice is always yours. Come join like minded people at a social, get a couple of veris and then go to the club after if you wanted as there always a load that will be going to the culb after the Newport one which is this Saturday. Or alternatively do something else but one suggestion (and again only a suggestion) stop having a pop at people who have been on the scene for a while who genuinely trying to help you.

Hope you have a wonderful 40th.

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By *atKat-xoxWoman over a year ago

Neath,united kingdom

Oh dear OP. Hope you're aware people will just avoid you now even more.

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By *aleunicorn69Man over a year ago

cardiff

When is your birthday? I could come over, few drinks see where the night goes. Can’t see a bro left on his own

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By *ris400Man over a year ago

Newport

Well the OP had now hidden thier profile...or blocked me...I won't be losing any sleep over it.

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Well the OP had now hidden thier profile...or blocked me...I won't be losing any sleep over it."

I don’t think anyone is gonna lose sleep over this guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just wanted some company for my 40th as I have no one but hey no chip shoulder thanks never has been.

Just stating a fact if people won't talk on here why would I Wana go to a club where I don't know anyone?

You started the thread with a request & then let your immaturity take over, I think you'll find a great number of people on these sites have anxiety issues of some kind or another but the friends you make & the experiences you share make a great difference. Tell your inner sabateur to do one & take a leap of faith.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wasn't asking adive on clubs or anything

just asked if someone fancies a few drinks n shit at mine lol

My idea of a great night is going to a mardy, aggressive stranger's house for a drink.

Hey don't knock it

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

I just wanted some company for my 40th as I have no one but hey no chip shoulder thanks never has been.

Just stating a fact if people won't talk on here why would I Wana go to a club where I don't know anyone?

Sorry to say but you're chatting absolute sh**!!!

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By *ummerFun2Man over a year ago

Cardiff

Ngl i’m just here for the comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wow OP. You asked if people would like to join you for your 40th.

You say people are not willing to talk to you, if you shoot them down here in the fourm then they will never wish to reach out to you in a private chat.

Hope you have a wonderful 40th."

I ain't shooting anyone down

I never asked about a damn club or a social or anything

Just thought be nice not to spend another bday alone

Thought people on fab would be a bit more chatty as in a dm. oh how wrong can a guy be lol

Face don't fit sorta thing ain't it

Lmfao

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By *ecretsub666Woman over a year ago

Cardiff

Can’t tell if your face fits when all your pictures are private

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By *edinthecornerWoman over a year ago

Abertillery

"Wow OP. You asked if people would like to join you for your 40th.

You say people are not willing to talk to you, if you shoot them down here in the fourm then they will never wish to reach out to you in a private chat.

Hope you have a wonderful 40th.

I ain't shooting anyone down

I never asked about a damn club or a social or anything

Just thought be nice not to spend another bday alone

Thought people on fab would be a bit more chatty as in a dm. oh how wrong can a guy be lol

Face don't fit sorta thing ain't it

Lmfao

Then maybe when I mentioned about the club you should of said ‘no thank you’ instead of ‘pm me please’ which gives the impression to the people that were trying to help you that you had a slight interest in maybe attending the club

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

Is this still going on??? Haha!

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By *ris400Man over a year ago

Newport

Well can't that the advice so you block people.

Really don't think this site is for you. I think maybe find a website you can buy a likeable personality.

Otherwise you're going to continue living a very say and lonely life so good luck with that.

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By *atKat-xoxWoman over a year ago

Neath,united kingdom

"Can’t tell if your face fits when all your pictures are private

It was all dick pics anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Can’t tell if your face fits when all your pictures are private

It was all dick pics anyway "
they've been public and I've put them withe for friends or private like everyone else does so what the hell ever lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well can't that the advice so you block people.

Really don't think this site is for you. I think maybe find a website you can buy a likeable personality.

Otherwise you're going to continue living a very say and lonely life so good luck with that."
not into guys so there blocked from messaging me same as mm n TV ts so don't take it personally lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Can’t tell if your face fits when all your pictures are private

"
either people chat n ask for a pic n hear nothing from them and they've all been up at some point

So why have them for all to see fab is separate to my real life so only people who actully chat get to see who I am

Sometimes all it takes is a hi ya know but if no ones willing to chat they won't see nothing I dont want them to see....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I just wanted some company for my 40th as I have no one but hey no chip shoulder thanks never has been.

Just stating a fact if people won't talk on here why would I Wana go to a club where I don't know anyone?

Sorry to say but you're chatting absolute sh**!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wow OP. You asked if people would like to join you for your 40th.

You say people are not willing to talk to you, if you shoot them down here in the fourm then they will never wish to reach out to you in a private chat.

Hope you have a wonderful 40th.

I ain't shooting anyone down

I never asked about a damn club or a social or anything

Just thought be nice not to spend another bday alone

Thought people on fab would be a bit more chatty as in a dm. oh how wrong can a guy be lol

Face don't fit sorta thing ain't it

Lmfao

And yeh u gave your advice didn't you much appreciated BTW.

But still stand by my word if people aint willing to chat on here I'm not going to go the club not knowing anyone...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think you’ve managed to get yourself added to a bunch of peoples lists today…

Yes you didn’t ask for advise on clubs, but it was a suggestion where you could celebrate your birthday rather than expecting strangers to turn up to your house!

Well with the attitude you have shown on here I’m sure you will now find it even harder to make connections online."
no war path just no body understands if people aint Gona talk to me in the site then why would I bother going to the club and maybe its nice to be nice too

So with everyone else starting about the clubs I've said the same thing over n over fgs lol

Why don't people chat in here but expect u just to go to a club where no body talks to you anyway as they don't chat on here?!?!?

Would u meet someone with out talking to them first?? I wouldn't Common sense

Have to chat to someone first ie messages or calls or vid call

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In all honesty you come across as a loner feeling sorry for himself."
yeah I am lonley thanks how'd you know lol and feeling sorry for my self no just been trying to make friends n chat to people but no fuka chats lol you know that bit that says message means you can message people done that so many times for nothing since no fuka ever replies lol but having tits n a fanny you be fine lol lay back n open up hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You say people won't chat. Are you getting involved with threads or starting threads and getting huffy when nobody responds?"
can your dumb ass read lol

Jogg the f... on

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

"But still stand by my word if people aint willing to chat on here I'm not going to go the club not knowing anyone... "

This is a very sad loss for clubland.

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

"But still stand by my word if people aint willing to chat on here I'm not going to go the club not knowing anyone...

This is a very sad loss for clubland."

I was wondering when you'd make an appearance

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By *ilffadMan over a year ago

swansea

Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way"

He's gone his own way, and that's why he's spending his birthday on his tod. People gave him friendly advice about how to widen the circle of his friends, and he rejected it. What did I do on my last birthday? I went for lunch with my girlfriend and my daughter, and then went to see some live music with friends in the evening. Obviously, I'm doing something wrong.

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By *oby le roneMan over a year ago

Treorchy

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way

Jesus Christ I don't read the forum for a couple of days and then this big shit burger pops up. (The thread not the people)

OP delete your profile and comeback with a more positive mindset. You're supposed to make the ladies wanna flick their bean, unfortunately they're just flicking the block button.

Happy birthday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

jesus,well that went well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"jesus,well that went well

no one talks to me,but i dont want to make any kind of effort to engage with anyone and anyone who tries to engage with me will get a mouthful.speechless

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way

Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

If people wanted to make the effort they'd message or reply to my messages yeah

So why the fuk would I sit in a room full of ignorant people who already think there better than everyone else that don't reply to a message that was sent

Takes 5 seconds to say yes or no thank you don't it

So get down from your pit pony lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way"
Well said mate wouldn't mind if I asked about a club or a social in the first place lol

Remind me never to ask em for a drink again only trying to make friends but then friends message lmfao

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way

Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

If people wanted to make the effort they'd message or reply to my messages yeah

So why the fuk would I sit in a room full of ignorant people who already think there better than everyone else that don't reply to a message that was sent

Takes 5 seconds to say yes or no thank you don't it

So get down from your pit pony lmfao "

Jesus dude. Let it go. Doubt anyone is gonna want to talk to if they ever read this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"jesus,well that went well

no one talks to me,but i dont want to make any kind of effort to engage with anyone and anyone who tries to engage with me will get a mouthful.speechless"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way

Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

If people wanted to make the effort they'd message or reply to my messages yeah

So why the fuk would I sit in a room full of ignorant people who already think there better than everyone else that don't reply to a message that was sent

Takes 5 seconds to say yes or no thank you don't it

So get down from your pit pony lmfao

Jesus dude. Let it go. Doubt anyone is gonna want to talk to if they ever read this thread. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way

Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

If people wanted to make the effort they'd message or reply to my messages yeah

So why the fuk would I sit in a room full of ignorant people who already think there better than everyone else that don't reply to a message that was sent

Takes 5 seconds to say yes or no thank you don't it

So get down from your pit pony lmfao

Jesus dude. Let it go. Doubt anyone is gonna want to talk to if they ever read this thread. "
aww what's up truth hurt does it always know when you get to someone and there flaws as they all pipe up jump on the band wagon so many ignorant people on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Try to be friendly and get nothing but bs from you all

If this is what fabs come to over the last 8 years well fuk me

The amount of fakes and time wasters has grown all you phone wankers lol half don't have the balls to meet anyway just play whole looking on a phone. Most are cheating men or women or dreamers

Take me back to when fab was fab not a bunch of jumped up roid heads on viagra with there little deformed dicks lmfao

All those so called straight guys lmfao sayin they Wana suck a dick coz they can't get any pussy

I get more luck off here than on here

And this is ment to be a swingers site it's either that or the Welsh really ain't as horny or as kinky as us English are

I went off this site when I was in a relationship

shouldn't of signed back up as its gone to the dogs

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

"Oh dear. The self-appointed Fab police on duty again. How tedious. OP, you have no hope here with these directing your path. Find your own way Well said mate wouldn't mind if I asked about a club or a social in the first place lol

Remind me never to ask em for a drink again only trying to make friends but then friends message lmfao

Hang on to that thread of support mate

In all honesty, if your messages are as inspiring as your post in this thread, I wouldn't entertain responding to you. If that makes me a 'pleb' 'high horse jockey' etc. Etc. So be it!

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By *ord MarmiteMan over a year ago

BRIDGEND

"Try to be friendly and get nothing but bs from you all

If this is what fabs come to over the last 8 years well fuk me

The amount of fakes and time wasters has grown all you phone wankers lol half don't have the balls to meet anyway just play whole looking on a phone. Most are cheating men or women or dreamers

Take me back to when fab was fab not a bunch of jumped up roid heads on viagra with there little deformed dicks lmfao

All those so called straight guys lmfao sayin they Wana suck a dick coz they can't get any pussy

I get more luck off here than on here

And this is ment to be a swingers site it's either that or the Welsh really ain't as horny or as kinky as us English are

I went off this site when I was in a relationship

shouldn't of signed back up as its gone to the dogs

Apart from the first post opening this thread, nothing about the way you have spoke to people is "friendly".

If you don't want to go to clubs or socials then that's entirely your choice and how you choose to go about your Fabbing is entirely up to you.

What people have done is try to show you how to make the types of friends whom would be happy to come celebrate your birthday with you (which you still haven't said when it is).

At the end of the day, without going to these types of events you are just are lost in the sea of single men who don't go to them and as such, you have just as much chance of getting a meet as any of them. There are literally thousands of single guys on here.

You say you "get more luck off here", well, maybe you should go to your local pub and chat some people up to see if they can help you with your celebrations. Because just the same as the people who you meet off Fab are strangers, so are the people who you want to meet on Fab. The majority of people who are interested in the lifestyle will only meet people privately in their own homes when they've met somewhere public (eg at a social) first.

Otherwise they are putting their safety at risk no matter how safe you say you are. Even when you have done the messaging and maybe video calls, you are still essentially a stranger until you meet in person.

As for criticising the Wales community, that will never endear you to anyone.

Don't go to clubs, don't go to socials and you stand as much chance to have a meet as any other single male in the massive pool of people like you. And as such I wish you good luck.

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

"Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

You do that, but I thought you'd welcome some advice from people who actually have friends.

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By *ris400Man over a year ago

Newport

"Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

You do that, but I thought you'd welcome some advice from people who actually have friends. "

So going to miss this guy, the only action he's getting is from the block button

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For all the newbies. Let this be a lesson of how not to approach fab. How not to win friends and alienate people…

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For all the newbies. Let this be a lesson of how not to approach fab. How not to win friends and alienate people…"

Only asked if anyone wanted to celebrate my birthday this is the bullshit I get lol

Yeah newbies don't waste your money on subscription its not worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

You do that, but I thought you'd welcome some advice from people who actually have friends.

So going to miss this guy, the only action he's getting is from the block button

"
I'm not bi or gay so I don't give a fuk what u do lol I'm straight so u don't interest me anyway u plum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try to be friendly and get nothing but bs from you all

If this is what fabs come to over the last 8 years well fuk me

The amount of fakes and time wasters has grown all you phone wankers lol half don't have the balls to meet anyway just play whole looking on a phone. Most are cheating men or women or dreamers

Take me back to when fab was fab not a bunch of jumped up roid heads on viagra with there little deformed dicks lmfao

All those so called straight guys lmfao sayin they Wana suck a dick coz they can't get any pussy

I get more luck off here than on here

And this is ment to be a swingers site it's either that or the Welsh really ain't as horny or as kinky as us English are

I went off this site when I was in a relationship

shouldn't of signed back up as its gone to the dogs

If you were on here for 8 years where are your friends . If your that miffed by what people say the sooner you leave the better. Your attitude absolutely stinks you've definitely made enemies on this post not friends. For a 40 year old your so immature. Now put your romper suit back on jump in your ram stick your dummy in your mouth and sod off. RANT OVER

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Listen u pleb

Il stick to my guns

You do that, but I thought you'd welcome some advice from people who actually have friends. "

People don't chat on here so fuk ya club n socials for your little circle ffs

Fat over weight guys with little dicks and hell of u got a bag 9f flour u mite find the wet spot on some of these lmfao

But like u I don't care what u gota say you ain't my type

And if me sticking up for my self rubs you all up the wrong way then you Wana check your attitudes and have respect for how other people feel yeah

When does askin of anyone like to have a drink for my 40th

Turn in to go to this club do this or that

I don't Wana be in a room full of people that don't have the decency to message and chat on here in the fukin first place...

You sure you don't have a strawberry flavoured window to go lick lol

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

"Only asked if anyone wanted to celebrate my birthday this is the bullshit I get lol"

You were told a couple of ways in which people would have been happy to socialise with you and have a drink on your birthday. You rejected that. It had to be on your terms at your house. Take a moment to consider how weird and creepy that sounds. What were you hoping if anyone agreed? People are happy to wish a stranger happy birthday on neutral territory. Nobody goes round to a self-confessed friendless stranger's house for a birthday party.

"Yeah newbies don't waste your money on subscription its not worth it "

Well, other sites are available, but your attitude won't get you far on any of them.

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By *jolnir85Man over a year ago

Caerphilly

You reached China yet dude???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Remind me never to ask em for a drink again only trying to make friends but then friends message lmfao

Hang on to that thread of support mate

In all honesty, if your messages are as inspiring as your post in this thread, I wouldn't entertain responding to you. If that makes me a 'pleb' 'high horse jockey' etc. Etc. So be it! "

My messages aint nothing like this thanks but when people are jumping down my neck for something that I say well it's right if people aint Gona 5alk on here what would I go to the club when it's the same fukas there

U say I'm whatever

How about manners

Have the decency to reply to messages sent.

Not assume eh as not everyine is the same

Not everyone can just turn up somewhere not knowing no fuka

Your obviously fit n healthy yeh no mental health issues no

Some people do

And not one of you even concidered that. just jumped on the go do this so that lol

Try listening to people

Talking getting to know them

Send a message or reply its so fukin easy my 5 years can do it fgs

And they have more manners than any of you lot il tell ya

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

"People don't chat on here so fuk ya club n socials for your little circle ffs

Fat over weight guys with little dicks and hell of u got a bag 9f flour u mite find the wet spot on some of these lmfao"

Fat over weight guys with little dicks that see more action than yours.

"But like u I don't care what u gota say you ain't my type "

I'm someone's type, at least.

"And if me sticking up for my self rubs you all up the wrong way then you Wana check your attitudes and have respect for how other people feel yeah"

You're dishing out a lot of unpleasantness, but if anybody says anything to you, you start whining.

"When does askin of anyone like to have a drink for my 40th

Turn in to go to this club do this or that"

By your own admission, you have no friends. People were suggesting ways you could get to know people and make friends.

"I don't Wana be in a room full of people that don't have the decency to message and chat on here in the fukin first place..."

People are chatting to you now. How's that going?

"You sure you don't have a strawberry flavoured window to go lick lol

Pineapple is better and it makes your cum taste nice.

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By *ou37Woman over a year ago

"You reached China yet dude??? "

Nope… he’s still digging away by the looks of it. Quite eloquently too.

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By *oby le roneMan over a year ago

Treorchy

"People don't chat on here so fuk ya club n socials for your little circle ffs

Fat over weight guys with little dicks and hell of u got a bag 9f flour u mite find the wet spot on some of these lmfao

Fat over weight guys with little dicks that see more action than yours.

But like u I don't care what u gota say you ain't my type

I'm someone's type, at least.

And if me sticking up for my self rubs you all up the wrong way then you Wana check your attitudes and have respect for how other people feel yeah

You're dishing out a lot of unpleasantness, but if anybody says anything to you, you start whining.

When does askin of anyone like to have a drink for my 40th

Turn in to go to this club do this or that

By your own admission, you have no friends. People were suggesting ways you could get to know people and make friends.

I don't Wana be in a room full of people that don't have the decency to message and chat on here in the fukin first place...

People are chatting to you now. How's that going?

You sure you don't have a strawberry flavoured window to go lick lol

Pineapple is better and it makes your cum taste nice. "

I put pineapple in my cum once, it didn't work

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By *ac711Man over a year ago

south Wales

Make the effort to go to a social or club I wish I was your again nothing would stop I first went to a club in my 50s , but due to my situation it’s not going to happen so fucking get on with it !!!!

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