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maybe single guys don't have it so bad afterall

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We decided to go out for some car fun last night, didn't arrange anything just spur of moment to a spot we know. Place was deserted so I thought I'd try the near me facility on mobile.found a guy about a mile away, who had " looking for fun right now " on his recent update , messaged him to say were parked up very close hoping to have some fun, was he interested ?

His reply was "interested in what? , what's in it for me ? " I said never mind and sorry to have bothered u and his next reply was basically " I'm not coming out just to watch, do I get a wank, bj, or a fuck ".

We wouldn't dream of asking somebody to come and just watch we had every intention of playing but his attitude just stank . We realise that not all guys are the same but are they so inundated with offers they can choose to be so arrogant

We'll be giving dogging a miss for a while we think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a muppet eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's guys like that give single men a bad name. Not all of us are like that and some if us will show you the respect you deserve. An invite to play would be welcomed in any form by me and the rest of the decent single fellas.

Only wish I got the invite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

jesus that is rancid, what did he expect you to do send him a menu, what a dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If he'd replied " can you tell me what sort of thing u had in mind " I'd have gladly explained but to get " what's in it for me " just shocked us , we've never come across that sort of attitude before but perhaps we've been lucky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

bet he is gutted now haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" We decided to go out for some car fun last night, didn't arrange anything just spur of moment to a spot we know. Place was deserted so I thought I'd try the near me facility on mobile.found a guy about a mile away, who had " looking for fun right now " on his recent update , messaged him to say were parked up very close hoping to have some fun, was he interested ?

We'll be giving dogging a miss for a while we think"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a cock, his loss and sounds like you had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems to me that the concept of swinger, as in the name of the site Fabswingers, is disappearing on this site as more & more people use it to try & get a quick shag. Only yesterday a meet of mine referred to the site as a 'shagging site', hence a past meet & never to be future meet. I'm here for the lifestyle both social & sexual but the number of true swingers seems to be diminishing, being replaced by users described above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems to me that the concept of swinger, as in the name of the site Fabswingers, is disappearing on this site as more & more people use it to try & get a quick shag. Only yesterday a meet of mine referred to the site as a 'shagging site', hence a past meet & never to be future meet. I'm here for the lifestyle both social & sexual but the number of true swingers seems to be diminishing, being replaced by users described above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly, this is a sign of the times and how dire the dogging scene has become. There are so, so many new, what I call 'modern day' dogging guys out there that seem to think that they have some sort of right to get 'something' out of it for themselves and to hell with every one else's ideas of what is or is not going to happen. I have always been more than happy for a 'show' and anything else is a bonus, at the ladies discretion, She is calling the shots and setting the limits and wouldn't like to see it any other way. If only we could re-brand dogging and drive it back under ground so it can be as good as it was 12 or more years ago, but sadly, ...................I fear not.

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By *uxtapositionMan over a year ago

CARDIFF

"Sadly, this is a sign of the times and how dire the dogging scene has become. There are so, so many new, what I call 'modern day' dogging guys out there that seem to think that they have some sort of right to get 'something' out of it for themselves and to hell with every one else's ideas of what is or is not going to happen. I have always been more than happy for a 'show' and anything else is a bonus, at the ladies discretion, She is calling the shots and setting the limits and wouldn't like to see it any other way. If only we could re-brand dogging and drive it back under ground so it can be as good as it was 12 or more years ago, but sadly, ...................I fear not."

I agree, I think it's a case of the 21st Century, " want it all, expect it all, expect it now and don't expect to put any effort in for it " culture

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's guys like yourself that still give us faith in singles Martin, if they were all like you there'd be a lot more couples venturing out , having had several conversations with u by text or messages we know what a decent guy you are , it was only the fact that this was a spur of the moment trip out that stopped me texting you , we did check online but you hadn't been on for hours so we guessed you were working ,, hope we can sort something soon

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By *ayseanMan over a year ago

Cardiff

Glad you guys haven't lost faith in all single men,as there are plenty of respectful 1s about,and the same goes for couples,you get good+bad,iv had a couple arrange to meet me,only to tell me last minute they couldn't make it,which i found completely idiotic,but wouldn't let that put me off meeting again,so im sure you will both have alot of fun in the future,just need to find the right people!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for your kind words nutty200, I look forward to meeting you. Just don't ask me if I can meet you until at least after Sunday 28th, as I have a busy couple of weeks coming up inc a wedding (not mine) and a holiday in Devon. I would hate to have to say that I can't make it again.