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Would i be mad to look for a relationship here?
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Hi all. Just wondering if any of you lovely people have found a meaningful relationship here? While this may seem crazy to some I am completely serious.. I've tried and am on various mainstream dating sites but sex is such a big foundation and many won't or can't discuss.. love to hear your experiences.. |
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Yes we met via fab, few friends have found relationships on her (at least 1 has got married or committed to each other).
Best advice is don't look for one on here, attend parties, socials and clubs then if it happens (like all of people who has found a partner) it does  |
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over a year ago
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We met here and although not married we are in a fully comitted relationship
If you have swinging in your personality then its probably best to meet here as if you meet a "vanilla" person, you may seek out swinging wothout your partner, which is really infidelity, not swinging, a reciepe for disaster.
My advice, find a partner here |
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over a year ago
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I lost a husband here but found a lifelong friend & a committed partner, 11 years & still going strong. Anything is possible when you're not really looking for it, all the best in your search but be prepared to work hard at it X |
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over a year ago
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We met on here also and it's great. We both know exactly what we want out of being together and staying on here swinging.
Don't think I'd even consider anything vanilla now 
Ginge x |
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Thank you guys for all the replies and encouragement. It is particularly hard to link up with single ladies even here because if the sheer volume of guys chasing them.. or maybe my lines are just crap..????Hopefully some will read this and get in touch for a chat ?? |
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The best way to find anything is by attending the socials and clubs and let it organically happen.
Having spoken to my female fwb about this post she’s in agreement that your whole profile content of looking for a girlfriend is off putting, by all means have it on there but don’t have it as the only thing.
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Ohhh this minefield. No, you aren't wrong. But just be prepared to accept that the huge majority of ladies on here will run for the hills if they suspect that they could be asked for more than 'NSA'. And as such, it will take a very long time to even get a sniff of what you are ultimately here for.
I can never go back vanilla, like not ever (because I like to share) . But rather than settle for 'second best' and something less than ideal, I will stick to my guns and keep on searching for that elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. |
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I wouldn’t say it’s mad to look for something meaningful on here. That’s what I’m hoping to find eventually but I enjoy the single life for now. It’s gonna take a very special lady to make me want to commit, but as long as she’s happy to share, then so am I. Just need to find her. Lol |
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"Ohhh this minefield. No, you aren't wrong. But just be prepared to accept that the huge majority of ladies on here will run for the hills if they suspect that they could be asked for more than 'NSA'. And as such, it will take a very long time to even get a sniff of what you are ultimately here for.
I can never go back vanilla, like not ever (because I like to share) . But rather than settle for 'second best' and something less than ideal, I will stick to my guns and keep on searching for that elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. "
Sharing is the key to our kind of relationship & that would never be found in the land of vanilla. Its not getting the guys to fuck others that's difficult, it's usually their default position in my experience, it's the sharing that experience they seem to struggle with X |
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"Ohhh this minefield. No, you aren't wrong. But just be prepared to accept that the huge majority of ladies on here will run for the hills if they suspect that they could be asked for more than 'NSA'. And as such, it will take a very long time to even get a sniff of what you are ultimately here for.
I can never go back vanilla, like not ever (because I like to share) . But rather than settle for 'second best' and something less than ideal, I will stick to my guns and keep on searching for that elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
Sharing is the key to our kind of relationship & that would never be found in the land of vanilla. Its not getting the guys to fuck others that's difficult, it's usually their default position in my experience, it's the sharing that experience they seem to struggle with X"
If only message filters weren't a thing . |
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I lost a partner to here but have met so many amazing people over the years. Most remain some of my best friends ever.
In my life on and off the scene.
And I know for many people who have met in here and gone the full mile together.
Anything is possible, just don’t look for something and go with the flow. Anything is possible |
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Thanks guys for all the comments. I have already made some amazing friends on here and continue to meet and make more. Just hoping to find that little bit extra which i know is possible. Its just as likely here i think as in the pub or a conventional dating site |
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