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"There does appear to be a large proportion of gay/bi men in west Wales, I've nothing directly against this apart from unsolicited messages, I was just wandering if this did anything for the women? Do women get off on gay men? ( I mean in a similar way to men getting off on 2 or more women) or is Pembrokeshire just coin idently popular for gay men? Thoughts please," Personally can't stand it has completely opposite effect here and any the either look at profile or contact us are instantly blocked. What people get up to or prefer is up to them just not with us in the room thanks and we would never meet bi or gay men. There is an influx of them on here at the moment.. some say its because fabguys dot com doesnt have enough members so try this site. One on here the other day was wanting young lads ! They have grown our block list quite a bit. | |||
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"I think the chaps who often shout the loudest about gay/bi chaps are often the ones who would most like to actually pop another chap's winkie in their mouth ( secretly ! ) x" Oh grow up!! | |||
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"Now watching two females well that is totally different strange innit" Haha yep it is, but women are generally nicer to look at so it's not so strange  | |||
"Now watching two females well that is totally different strange innit" Haha yep it is, but women are generally nicer to look at so it's not so strange | |||
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"Everyone to their own choices, but having watched two men suck and fuck each other to be honest it left me cold. Now watching two females well that is totally different strange innit"  | |||
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"yes well said there.i have nothing again gay men either but do not want them playing in the same room or trying to solicit our interest.why do they have to ram it down our throats?and as for big hairy truckers in stockings and suspenders well dont even go there.unles they are dykes.our block list gets longer and longer and longer "
Exactly our blocked list is currently around 1000.. yep 1000 i counted out of interest. TV and Bi increased it alot mind you. Again they are fine but not near me thanks.
I do not think that makes me ignorant, how can you be ignorant for not liking something. Thats like telling someone sorry don't car but you have to like it and it has to turn you on !!
See how honest I can be now we have decided that the site is not for us to meet anyone on lol | |||
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"Personally can't stand it has completely opposite effect here and any the either look at profile or contact us are instantly blocked. Personal preference is most definatly the key to Swinging, however I have had no end of issues relating to Bi / Gay men and have had to radicly change my profile. That said however, we as a couple have met Bi men on the understanding that they play straight and also have "Gay" men as friends from our Vanilla life. We dont see the need to block someone just because they are Bi or Gay UNLESS they start with the un-solicited mail etc then we are left with no choice. "We do block them, we have gay friends (not play mates) and from this site people seem more into playing and not the social side certainly the ones we have had messages from. And to be honest we don't see why they should be open to view our profile if they are not for us. Our profile is there to help us find people suitable that we are happy and wanting to play with and for no other reason whatsoever so no need for them to be viewing the profile.. just fed up with people thinking our profile and any pics (now only one showing mind) our here for them to get off on. We are on a swinging site but here to find people to play with mainly not for the enjoyment of thousands of others to view profile and pics thats the main reason. We have had people under age or clearly not what we are looking for viewing our profile time and time again and some message over and over again, so easier for us to block them to start with. If there was filters that only allow the people you are looking for to view your profile we would use that rather than block but there isn't so we have to sadly. Method in the madness maybe, if I wanted people who are well outside of our requirements then we would have pica elsewhere on the net. Also sadly the ones the we have had contact with have paved the way for them all which maybe wrong but same thing as the reputation that single guys have on here due to the few. We have spoken to some that say they would play straight but then start with a few things that puts enough doubt in our minds that made me (Mrs) not want to meet so that's it we don't meet them its easier that way. lol | |||
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" People just need to on the one hand learn to slow down in trying to talk to everyone whom they've just joined or add everyone (sorry ava!) As friends ... " Eh? | |||
"LOL as bi man in a bi couple I totally agree that there's a time and a place for man on man talk not to mention action ... We are on here totally looking for bi couples so will look at each couple profile to see if it says so ... Not all do:/ sorry for them. People just need to on the one hand learn to slow down in trying to talk to everyone whom they've just joined or add everyone (sorry ava!) As friends ... On the other hand people who are getting endless requests or unwanted attention maybe need to take into account that the person you snapped at maybe didn't know there were a thousand messages before you all trying to do the same thing lol ... Personally I THINK all profiles that have expectations or in your face demands should be banned as its a bit up your own arse to be spouting on about what you don't like in others constantly ... " Surely the point if a profile is to lay out (pardon the punn) what you are looking for and more importantly NOT looking for in play mates. As I have said countless times we have nothing against bi men or even gay men, can have a cracking night out in the company of gay men, but socially only for us. We have been approached adn yes its more so the ones that jump in having not read profiles. But we lay out in ours what we won't want in someone we play with.. that is our personal choice and no reason for our account to be banned. As I said each to their own and thats brill but we have to open and honest in our profile and explain what don't want in a potential meet. If we didn't do that we would be inundated with people messaging (most getting shitty because we don't reply) that we aren't interested in. In our profile we are not having a go at anyones personal choice e are saying what our personal choice is that's all. Each to their own and that's great and everyone is fine for social meets no matter what your preference is we are even happy to have a drink at a fab social with married men going behind wifes back.. would we play no way don't agree with it. I think its a bit much suggesting people who lay things out like that in a profile should be banned. After all no one has said bi men or gay men should be banned from the site have they.. and lets face it Gay men have their own site fabguys ! But hey that's the trouble people flying off the handle... this was asked as peoples preferences and that's what we have given our opinions on.. maybe if we are to be discussing profiles a new thread should be started for that. And if you have a problem with people detailing what they are looking for in a profile maybe be best start in the members who either put nothing or lie about stuff in theirs (not anyone posting in this thread before someone goes off on one) and those that purposely delete accounts to get qround blocks etc !! | |||
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"Lol @ FunCpl2012, just looked at your profile thinking " nah I doubt I've been blocked " but guess what !!!!! "4 weeks ago... not sure why tho.. bi, gay or married or under age will get you blocked. got to narrow the search somehow. | |||
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"Tad pathetic I think but hey ho !!!" Really.. well you are not supposed to use the forum to contact someone who has blocked you for a start !!1 And just unblocked and checked the reason and your married !! so don't call me pathetic !! Why should you be able to view peoples profiles and pics when you are married. I want nothing to do with marrieds neither of us do as we don't agree with it, so grow up!! | |||
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"I think the chaps who often shout the loudest about gay/bi chaps are often the ones who would most like to actually pop another chap's winkie in their mouth ( secretly ! ) x Oh grow up!!" I think YOU are the one who needs to express himself in a more adult way I'm afraid, and if you ask a question on an open forum, you will get people's opinions and experiences, and in my experience, the most homophobic men are always the ones who end up " coming out " | |||
"I think it's quite hot. Blokey blokes though, not mincing queens. " What do you ge from it Ava? Or anyone who finds it hot for that matter, for me women have it all, looks, sexy body, beautiful personality, tactile, it's exciting to see a woman as part of sex men on the other hand have no e of that, so to see 2 men together just seems wrong in myopinion | |||
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"I think it's quite hot. Blokey blokes though, not mincing queens. What do you ge from it Ava? Or anyone who finds it hot for that matter, for me women have it all, looks, sexy body, beautiful personality, tactile, it's exciting to see a woman as part of sex men on the other hand have no e of that, so to see 2 men together just seems wrong in myopiniontwat" Quite, although it must be my bi-side that makes me FAR too polite to express myself like that. As I am of course a mincing, stocking wearing queef who simply cannot resist going up to men in the street and propositioning them in a Larry Grayson-esque fashion. You should note there are many people on here, with many preferences, read profiles, don't message those whom are unlikely to be compatible with you and think yourself very lucjy if you meet, luckily I've been very lucky, with couples far more times than men as it happens. I also note the OP is unverified, cannot accomodate and cannot rotate a photograph on a web site, and therefore, sadly for him, is likely to remain unverified, especially as this post has done you no good whatsover in my humble opinion. Take care, hope it goes well for you, and as it happens I don't think you are my type at all, looks or personality wise, so you can sleep soundly in your bed tonight, next to, no doubt, your unsuspecting wife/parner/girlfriend | |||
"I think it's quite hot. Blokey blokes though, not mincing queens. What do you ge from it Ava? Or anyone who finds it hot for that matter, for me women have it all, looks, sexy body, beautiful personality, tactile, it's exciting to see a woman as part of sex men on the other hand have no e of that, so to see 2 men together just seems wrong in myopiniontwat" Sorry? I suspect you misunderstand, I don't mean wrong as in bad, immoral etc I mean wrong as in incorrect, not working, and that is in my own opinion, I don't put it forward as the word that must be obeyed? I also apogise if I offend, that genuinely don't intend that, this is enquiry not inquisition, | |||
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"I think the chaps who often shout the loudest about gay/bi chaps are often the ones who would most like to actually pop another chap's winkie in their mouth ( secretly ! ) x" I have to say i think that is a bit out of line, i'll be honest with you the reason we have taken recently (and its only recently) to block all gay and bi men it because too many have said the same thing as you have here. Funny enough there are straight guys on here and I mean completely straight and not in the tiniest bit interested in having another guys winkie in their mouth as you put it. we have no issues with you or anyone who wants to do that as long as they don't do it near us as we don't like it. But people saying that all men are bi even if they don't admit it (as lots lately have said to us) is wrong Mr fun has not inclinations whatso ever in that direction and we take great offence to people who say thet he is. If gay or bi men want to do that thats fine. But shoving it down other peoples neck and insisting everyones the same is an insult and i have to say we find it very offensive. Our gay and bi friends (social friends) would never dream of shoving it in your face or insisting that Mr fun is the same and he must be gagging for cock in his mouth.
Think its the same genuine swingers are mature mentally and wouldn't insist that everyone must want to full swap etc so why should gay or bi men insist that every man is the same. Thats the difference mentally mature bi and gay probably wouldn't, unless doing it just to cause a fight.
Now yes we are protesting but its not too much so must be like it its because we disagree with you and are happy to live and let live but we don't like it does nothing for us do won't allow it in the same room as us.
Our blcoking then and refusing to meet any is because of the number that insist all men are the same.. wrong attitude for us thanks. | |||
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"I think the chaps who often shout the loudest about gay/bi chaps are often the ones who would most like to actually pop another chap's winkie in their mouth ( secretly ! ) x I have to say i think that is a bit out of line, i'll be honest with you the reason we have taken recently (and its only recently) to block all gay and bi men it because too many have said the same thing as you have here. Funny enough there are straight guys on here and I mean completely straight and not in the tiniest bit interested in having another guys winkie in their mouth as you put it. we have no issues with you or anyone who wants to do that as long as they don't do it near us as we don't like it. But people saying that all men are bi even if they don't admit it (as lots lately have said to us) is wrong Mr fun has not inclinations whatso ever in that direction and we take great offence to people who say thet he is. If gay or bi men want to do that thats fine. But shoving it down other peoples neck and insisting everyones the same is an insult and i have to say we find it very offensive. Our gay and bi friends (social friends) would never dream of shoving it in your face or insisting that Mr fun is the same and he must be gagging for cock in his mouth.
Think its the same genuine swingers are mature mentally and wouldn't insist that everyone must want to full swap etc so why should gay or bi men insist that every man is the same. Thats the difference mentally mature bi and gay probably wouldn't, unless doing it just to cause a fight.
Now yes we are protesting but its not too much so must be like it its because we disagree with you and are happy to live and let live but we don't like it does nothing for us do won't allow it in the same room as us.
Our blcoking then and refusing to meet any is because of the number that insist all men are the same.. wrong attitude for us thanks."Hello, You are, of course, entitled to your opinions, and to express them in response to a question posted on an open forum. I respect that fully and you have teh absolute right to meet who you want, when you want and to have any parameters you set met. I have read many of your posts and agree with many of them but would NEVER, for example, dream of propositioning you as your profile is clear and should be read and respected. It is still my opinion and experience though that some of the most anti gay/bi single men eventually turn out to at the least be "curious", your experience may be different, but it has been mine. x | |||
"Personally can't stand it has completely opposite effect here and any the either look at profile or contact us are instantly blocked. Personal preference is most definatly the key to Swinging, however I have had no end of issues relating to Bi / Gay men and have had to radicly change my profile. That said however, we as a couple have met Bi men on the understanding that they play straight and also have "Gay" men as friends from our Vanilla life. We dont see the need to block someone just because they are Bi or Gay UNLESS they start with the un-solicited mail etc then we are left with no choice.
We do block them, we have gay friends (not play mates) and from this site people seem more into playing and not the social side certainly the ones we have had messages from. And to be honest we don't see why they should be open to view our profile if they are not for us. Our profile is there to help us find people suitable that we are happy and wanting to play with and for no other reason whatsoever so no need for them to be viewing the profile.. just fed up with people thinking our profile and any pics (now only one showing mind) our here for them to get off on. We are on a swinging site but here to find people to play with mainly not for the enjoyment of thousands of others to view profile and pics thats the main reason.
We have had people under age or clearly not what we are looking for viewing our profile time and time again and some message over and over again, so easier for us to block them to start with. If there was filters that only allow the people you are looking for to view your profile we would use that rather than block but there isn't so we have to sadly. Method in the madness maybe, if I wanted people who are well outside of our requirements then we would have pica elsewhere on the net. Also sadly the ones the we have had contact with have paved the way for them all which maybe wrong but same thing as the reputation that single guys have on here due to the few.
We have spoken to some that say they would play straight but then start with a few things that puts enough doubt in our minds that made me (Mrs) not want to meet so that's it we don't meet them its easier that way. lol" | |||
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"I've got to say I prefer women but have had some belting blowjobs off guys" yes sometimes they give better bj than a woman and they also enjoy sucking a woman | |||
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"luv being sucked by a man better than a good licking lol "oh yes sucking a nice juicy pussys so good and it's good 2 get a woman 2 cum that way  | |||
