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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
Just a goodbye a man on here I found out is sharing pictures with his friends he only has non rude pictures of me and I asked him not to share.
He’s now threatening to go to my work place
So it’s goodbye from me, be careful who you trust on here ladies  |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"[ ... ] a man on here [ ... ]"
I appreciate going to the police might be a tough call for some people, but I hope you've reported him to the site moderators?
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What a bloody fool! He's opened himself up to trouble by doing that.
Not that you want your employer to know your personal business but it's not really ground to be sack and can be fought in a tribunal. Someone's sexual preference is not a sackable offence and employers have to be careful.
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Take a note of his screen name, use your phone to capture screenshots of what he has sent (if possible) and make sure you report it to the police. Revenge type porn and sharing illegally downloaded images is an imprisonable offence.
A friend of mine is going through something similar with a stalker and the police have been great with her.
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Echoing what other’s have said, absolutely deplorable and unsavoury behaviour. I sincerely hope this individual does not prompt you to leave, perhaps hide your profile? I appreciate one is unable to name and shame however can admin do anything?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's almost certainly bluffing about going to your work place
And if he does you're doing nothing wrong as you have nothing to identify your employer or place of employment on your profile or in your photos so he would just be making himself look like a right cunt.
Women in South Wales on here tend to share via inbox the usernames of potentially dangerous men so out the prick privately without breaking any rules.
When I first met my boyfriend a few years ago (in a pub on a works xmas do) within a few days a "friend" of his who I had previously declined to meet had shared all my photos off here with him in an obvious attempt at "don't date her, she's a slag as she gets her tits out online"
There are plenty of sad wankers out there who think their behaviour is fine. Well it isn't. If his behaviour has scared you and made you uncomfortable go to the police as he has no fucking right sharing private photos of you without your consent or threatening you. Twat. Rant over. Getting a bit carried away now   |
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This is absolutely disgusting behaviour and if you can find the strength to do so, please make sure you report it to the police.
He’s an absolute coward and I agree that he’s probably unlikely to actually do it - these sorts of cowards are all talk but they ruin lives through playing on others fears and they need shutting down and punishing.
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Just go to the police now and get it nipped in the bud. I bet he would shit himself if he had a visit from the police.
Plus I'm sure there's new laws now for this type of behaviour and the police takes this seriously now.
I had a guy who I knew since we were kids try to blackm@il me anonymously but shit himself when I found out who he was.
Don't leave or let him run you off fab. I remembered your status yesterday and sure I've heard bad things about him from before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As difficult as it may be do not give in to this bully.
It's always easy to give advice from the sidelines but as others have already said report this creep to the police. The fallout from the Me Too movement has meant they will take your complaint seriously.
Do what is right for you but do not let this man change how you choose to live your life. |
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"It's always easy to give advice from the sidelines but as others have already said report this creep to the police. The fallout from the Me Too movement has meant they will take your complaint seriously."
You would hope so, but all it would take is a slightly snide remark from an officer to make it a far more unpleasant experience than it needs to be. There's still a misogynist culture in the police force. |
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