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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve posted a few times in the past week, introducing myself as new to the swinging scene. As I’ve said my husband has been swinging for about 15years without me knowing. (Lots of you know him)
I’ve said I want to join him and support his choices (I’m finding it hard to not be jealous) so he has recommended I read a book, swingers - female- confidential to help me understand.
He’s not ready to swing with me yet which I’m gutted about but has suggested I dip my foot in if I want to.
Anyway ….. just wondering whether anyone has any advice? Tips? I’ve started the book, it’s helping me to get my head around things I would enjoy/ be happy to experience.
Sorry post longer than I planned! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are loads of great podcasts out there on swinging and various fetishes etc that are great to learn from and will help get your head around things a bit.  "
Thank you. I will have a look. Xx |
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Welcome to the scene.
Browse the forums too. They can be quite helpful. Fantasy section can maybe flutter your imagination on things you'd might like to try too.
Swinging is a broad spectrum and this site is just a small yet big part of it. You'll get out what you out in. There is an excellent social side to the scene too that can become a great learning curve. Also added bonus of making some amazing friends that are like minded.
I hope you enjoy the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A little confused by your post and profile,
He has been swinging for 15 years without your knowledge, he has no interest in sex with you. Why ask his permission if you want to meet just meet "
It probably does look and sounds confusing. There have been times I’ve known but he’s had a break and then gone back to it. He didn’t think I would approve, when actually I would have as I’m very sexual. We do have sex together just not as much as I would like, it seems I know why know. I want to explore swinging with him now tho rather than on my own initially. Thanks for the taking time to reply xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome to the scene.
Browse the forums too. They can be quite helpful. Fantasy section can maybe flutter your imagination on things you'd might like to try too.
Swinging is a broad spectrum and this site is just a small yet big part of it. You'll get out what you out in. There is an excellent social side to the scene too that can become a great learning curve. Also added bonus of making some amazing friends that are like minded.
I hope you enjoy the scene. "
Thank you so much. I’ve been exploring the forums, yes they’re really helpful. I’m already finding my feet on things I like and need to learn more about. Look forward to being a part of the scene. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey lovely lady!
Not sure if you attend any currently but I've found going to social events was really helpful for me X"
Thanks 
I have been following the threads for socials. This is something I would consider doing. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is he not ready for you to join him swinging hun ? your his wife i would have thought he’d be happy that your interested and want to have fun together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m another who is trying to get their head around it to be honest. So you’ve sometimes known he’s been swinging while you’ve been together? Your other posts don’t suggest that at all. Why would he think you wouldn’t approve if you already knew he had dabbled previously? |
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"Why is he not ready for you to join him swinging hun ? your his wife i would have thought he’d be happy that your interested and want to have fun together."
I also imagine he would find more opportunity for fun as part of a couple than as a single man. |
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"Why is he not ready for you to join him swinging hun ? your his wife i would have thought he’d be happy that your interested and want to have fun together.
I also imagine he would find more opportunity for fun as part of a couple than as a single man. "
This is what I’d say. But hazarding a guess OP’s username is a reference to her husband’s couple profile on here with a long term girlfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is he not ready for you to join him swinging hun ? your his wife i would have thought he’d be happy that your interested and want to have fun together.
I also imagine he would find more opportunity for fun as part of a couple than as a single man.
This is what I’d say. But hazarding a guess OP’s username is a reference to her husband’s couple profile on here with a long term girlfriend. "
I’m so glad it’s not just me who was making this link. |
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"Why is he not ready for you to join him swinging hun ? your his wife i would have thought he’d be happy that your interested and want to have fun together.
I also imagine he would find more opportunity for fun as part of a couple than as a single man.
This is what I’d say. But hazarding a guess OP’s username is a reference to her husband’s couple profile on here with a long term girlfriend.
I’m so glad it’s not just me who was making this link. "
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