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By *ikesfun1Man
over a year ago
around and about |
i think biggest issue is lots of rude people ( mostly single men - not all ) have made it so hard for people on here, i dont get why people are abusive if someone does not want to meet then thats their choice move on !! simple really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to a club meet the real people of this site and there truly goes your venture no ifs buts maybes those are the ones that want what they are on here for without the time wasters x |
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By *arcyDMan
over a year ago
Newport |
Totally agree re Welsh chat room a few years ago very lively fun and friendly place. Fab has dropped off recently , has anyone found an alternative in the past used a well known friend finder dit but got fed up of spam and scammers |
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"A lot of single men are spoiling the site for others, by either not showing up to meets or hiding behind a couples profile"
It's not just single men. There's single women popping up like daisies advertising their Snapchat. My personal favourites are the ones that make status say how skint they are 
They disappear only to pop back up again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree, it seems very difficult to strike up a conversation. Lots of people using just one word answers. Or maybe I just bore them lol"
Or maybe they are just boring x |
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We used to getmessages from couple who wanted to meet for sex (not anymore) these days we get message from gys who want to sniff my knickers or want to wank into them so i guess fabs has changed,hence i don't meet much these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I am honest, fab isn’t what it use to be. A lot of fake profiles around now and people using the site for the wrong reasons. Also Covid didn’t help with effecting meetings. Like meeting have been far a few between recently |
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"I think it all depends what you are looking for.
Fab functions well for me or perhaps I have worked round it x "
I can agree with this. My mindset has changed a lot over the years. I started off with the hookup mentality. I started using the forum regularly and started making friends Which has lead me to my first couple of socials. I now look at the site in a different way. To me now it's the social aspects I'm starting to enjoy. Meeting new people and making friends. The sex side of it is the last thing on my mind, things like that will fall into place on their own.
If that makes sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its alright once you get through the 100s of messages of guys asking how you are 24/7. Had a few meets off here but we are starting to open up to the idea of going to clubs now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a fair few meets from fab years ago but it just seems like hard work now so clubs are the way forward for us.
We just stick around for the forums and club reviews. |
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I think the site changed when Smartphones with fast big data usage plans became the norm. People, when they had to use their home computers, were more likely to be committed to the lifestyle and take their time in composing messages. These days a quick "text speak" one line message and guys think they will hook up straight away....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spend more time blocking clearly fake profiles than ever. Clubs or socials are the only way to meet real swingers."
Completely with you about socials and clubs. |
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"I spend more time blocking clearly fake profiles than ever. Clubs or socials are the only way to meet real swingers.
Completely with you about socials and clubs. "
Hang on I believe we video chatted before meeting at a social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spend more time blocking clearly fake profiles than ever. Clubs or socials are the only way to meet real swingers.
Completely with you about socials and clubs.
Hang on I believe we video chatted before meeting at a social "
Still not bought me that pint though have you??? |
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"I spend more time blocking clearly fake profiles than ever. Clubs or socials are the only way to meet real swingers.
Completely with you about socials and clubs.
Hang on I believe we video chatted before meeting at a social
Still not bought me that pint though have you??? "
You was drinking wine on the last one. I'll be Buggered if I'm buying a pint of wine  cost a fortune |
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"There are a lot more fakes and time wasters of late! It’s what you make of it I guess "
The time wasters are getting out of hand. I think I’m only going to meet at clubs now as it’s the only way to meet genuine people. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
I think the lockdowns have had a impact maybe.
Then again, I joined ten years ago, and there was just as much talk about “it’s not the way it was” then, if not more.
It’s just kinda the way of things  . |
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I do also feel that TikTok has a big part to blame, being such a huge platform now and having some users post that their partner has cheated using this site along with all messages on here. Its only bringing a negative advertisement for the site by genuine users. |
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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago
Neath,united kingdom |
"I do also feel that TikTok has a big part to blame, being such a huge platform now and having some users post that their partner has cheated using this site along with all messages on here. Its only bringing a negative advertisement for the site by genuine users. "
Second this |
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"I do also feel that TikTok has a big part to blame, being such a huge platform now and having some users post that their partner has cheated using this site along with all messages on here. Its only bringing a negative advertisement for the site by genuine users.
Second this "
Can't disagree with you in things like this, I don't do tictok though so can't comment. But I do remember the time some roving reporter did a scoop about the Bridgend social and it ended up on failsonline and the mirror. There seemed to be an explosion of people after that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot more fakes and time wasters of late! It’s what you make of it I guess
The time wasters are getting out of hand. I think I’m only going to meet at clubs now as it’s the only way to meet genuine people. "
That's what I do now to be honest. Atleast that way you can gauge if you actually get on with the person rather than last minute oh fuck |
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It certainly has changed, especially since covid. Trying to find a genuine meet with couples on here has become almost impossible.
Posted a few meets on here recently, even for a party at ours, all a waste of time.
We live in hope! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to know what it was like before covid. I'm relatively new, but sounds like a very interesting place pre lockdown!
I enjoy it personally, although I have nothing to compare it to. |
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"I think the site changed when Smartphones with fast big data usage plans became the norm. People, when they had to use their home computers, were more likely to be committed to the lifestyle and take their time in composing messages. These days a quick "text speak" one line message and guys think they will hook up straight away....
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You have a good point there. We still use our laptop for browsing, its much easier than using a smartphone too.
We also think its much safer to host here at home (much more relaxed & personal) rather than venture out into an overcrowded venue surrounded by who knows what. |
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"I'd love to know what it was like before covid. I'm relatively new, but sounds like a very interesting place pre lockdown!
I enjoy it personally, although I have nothing to compare it to."
Was much the same without the fakes and letdowns, there was still a fair share of idiots and single males pretending to be couples back then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does people feel fab in wales is going now "
As im the only North Wales comment i assume. There is 3 with Wales so im not counting them, it might answer the question really. |
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Well has certainly been crap in the last couple of years used to meet up with nice people regular, but of late people vanish even when messaging and a lot don't turn up when meet arranged so going down hill |
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I think we always forget the bad stuff and just remember 'the good old days' with everything, fab included. We've been on the site for a out 8 years and it doesn't seem to have changed all that much.
Online dating apps have made it so easy to instantly dismiss someone for the smallest of things. There's also the Choice Overload paradox where we find it harder to chose when presented with so many options. Fab membership is enormous so we're faced with a wall of potentials to pick through which can be overwhelming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guess its what it is what you make of it to suit yourselves. Therte sre a lot of timewasters to be had. Its a leap of faith to trust those who want to keep the experience alive !! |
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Cant really make a firm judgement as I only pop on here every now and again . A lot of people I've met on here over the years and still meet up with are no longer on here. Main all round criticism from most is fake people / profiles etc. Generally that has always been the case. Usually getting to socials, parties etc. Helps you work out who the real people are. Once you work out who the genuine ones are, there should be lots of fun to be had! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if its because im young but its getting really hard to find women to talk too these days.
Either not in there age range or they dont even read the message haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if its because im young but its getting really hard to find women to talk too these days.
Either not in there age range or they dont even read the message haha
Know how you feel man "
It's the same for most of us regardless of age, it's just how it is. |
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"Not sure if its because im young but its getting really hard to find women to talk too these days.
Either not in there age range or they dont even read the message haha
Know how you feel man
It's the same for most of us regardless of age, it's just how it is."
Anyone know any other sites to try mite get a bit of luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if its because im young but its getting really hard to find women to talk too these days.
Either not in there age range or they dont even read the message haha
Know how you feel man
It's the same for most of us regardless of age, it's just how it is.
Anyone know any other sites to try mite get a bit of luck "
Yeah, fabguys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if its because im young but its getting really hard to find women to talk too these days.
Either not in there age range or they dont even read the message haha
Know how you feel man
It's the same for most of us regardless of age, it's just how it is.
Anyone know any other sites to try mite get a bit of luck
Yeah, fabguys "
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From joining 15 years ago and making so many friends on an old profile, though I accept this is only my opinion, it has gone down hill a lot. But that is mostly to do with the site getting saturated with very undesirable people, be it fakes, etc. That was caused by people thinking it's fine to just go talking to every Tom, Dick and Harry about the site which subsequently resulted in journalists outing the site and events. I've seen some very good friends that attended most events, including private parties, leave the site since. I'm sure there is still a good crowd and as has been said, it's down to what you want from the site and how you use it... |
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We have noticed a big difference on here over the last year! We have no expectations, but are considering leaving due to the massive influx in fakes and time wasters in our area! Such a shame if we leave, but at least we’ll still have club visits to meet the genuine swingers! Miss pc |
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Fab isn't too bad for us, would be a lot better if people would read the profile's before contacting you, also I think there's a lot more soft swing around these day's, mention a hotel room and they're gone. We do agree there's a lot more fake profiles around atm. |
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By *ima7893Man
over a year ago
Cardiff (Home) / London (Work) |
As a single guy I used to have a great time on here and found it relatively easy to find meets - back around 2013/14/15.
This time around it’s still fun, just not in the same way. |
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