If you really want advice, I'll be brutally honest :
You need to spell correctly for starters, text speak really does put a significant percentage off. I know it's the evolution of language etc., but it looks lazy and undeducated Spelling, punctuation, paragraphs do you so much good ?
Would you send of a CV in text speak ? As this is basically a sexual CV.
Photos, your photos ( at least you do have photos ) are not rotated, again this puts people off, they think you are either too lazy or too daft to put up a correctly composed and rotated image.
You also smoke and put your body shape down as ample, this whilst, honest, will also shoehorn you towards otherw who smoke and are of "ample" body shape too.
There is however no point in not being up front about this as it's you and no one will say: "Oh go on then " when you meet if they think they are meeting a ripped, 6 foot, non smoker.
Also you cannot accomodate, there may be many reasons for this, I cannot accomodate, as I have a 10 year old child who lives with me full time, but to couples, this screams : " married/hitched man getting it behind his wife/partners back.
This may not be fair, or accurate, but it's life.
You are also a single straight man, and there are 1000's of you out there so the odds are stacked against you unles syou look like George Clooney with a porsche and 14 inch penis thrown in.
Again, sinple fact of life.
I would suggest you take yourself off to the next social meeting which are advertised on this forum.
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OP, the first response on here was quite right. But to some degree spelling can be passed over as there are many people who have various ability issues with spelling, however, the use of text speak to us, and many others, is quite off putting, to the fact that if we receive a message using text speak it is automatically deleted. The time has passed when there were restrictions in the number of characters used in mobile texts and there should be no reason to use text speak on messages or thread posts.
Maybe another addage would be to out some more information about yourself and what you are looking for in your profile. Be a little selective, members will not be offended if you state the type of person/people you are looking for. This is so much better than any age, any size, anyone etc etc.
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