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I’m a guy, I never have that problem. I almost had one by just looking at your profile hah o
If my fb is struggling to organism we usually get the tingly lube and toys out then take it nice and slow
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Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine."
I message and chat for ages I think I must have bad luck lol x |
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"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine.
I message and chat for ages I think I must have bad luck lol x"
Oh it’s definitely not foolproof, and you can never really know until you meet them, but for me it’s things like if all they want to do is talk about sex or if they’re pushy about wanting pics etc, I know they’re not going to be a good match. Or on the flip-side, if they’re too shy/prudish/whatever to even discuss likes and dislikes etc before a meet, that’s not going to work either. But yes, luck does play a big part. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine.
I message and chat for ages I think I must have bad luck lol x
Oh it’s definitely not foolproof, and you can never really know until you meet them, but for me it’s things like if all they want to do is talk about sex or if they’re pushy about wanting pics etc, I know they’re not going to be a good match. Or on the flip-side, if they’re too shy/prudish/whatever to even discuss likes and dislikes etc before a meet, that’s not going to work either. But yes, luck does play a big part."
Yep do all that lol x |
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"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x "
Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x
Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women."
Well said lol x |
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over a year ago
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"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx"
9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)
0/12 climax failures for the women involved.
It’s not just men.  |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx
9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)
0/12 climax failures for the women involved.
It’s not just men. "
Interesting I’ve never had a man not x |
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"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx
9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)
0/12 climax failures for the women involved.
It’s not just men.
Interesting I’ve never had a man not x"
Which is great for them and accomplishment aside not great for you. My point was more that it’s not just blokes who can be self centered when it comes to play and it’s not always about whether someone is good or bad.
Dirty pretty hit the nail right on the head in that adaptability to different preferences and techniques is key. Pretty much any guy can climax as in essence it’s one key motion that generates an orgasm (although different abilities determine how intense a guys climax is) Women are much more like cracking the enigma code to determine which order buttons are pressed and granted a lot of guys don’t have the patience for it lol |
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over a year ago
merthyr |
"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx
9/12 previous meets without orgasm (Mr)
0/12 climax failures for the women involved.
It’s not just men.
Interesting I’ve never had a man not x
Which is great for them and accomplishment aside not great for you. My point was more that it’s not just blokes who can be self centered when it comes to play and it’s not always about whether someone is good or bad.
Dirty pretty hit the nail right on the head in that adaptability to different preferences and techniques is key. Pretty much any guy can climax as in essence it’s one key motion that generates an orgasm (although different abilities determine how intense a guys climax is) Women are much more like cracking the enigma code to determine which order buttons are pressed and granted a lot of guys don’t have the patience for it lol"
Guess they just were not for me x |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I never orgasm during our meets (Female). I am very hard to get to orgasm, hubby knows just how to do it so I save it for our time!! 
I enjoy our meets just as much and it takes the pressure off by not chasing something that is unlikely to happen. Although this weekend may be different!!! "
I get that sex can be great without it and it has been but it’s now getting to the point of exasperation lol xxx |
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I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.
IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.
1. Physical atteaction
2. Mental connection.
If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.
OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.
(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).
But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!! |
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"I never orgasm during our meets (Female). I am very hard to get to orgasm, hubby knows just how to do it so I save it for our time!!
I enjoy our meets just as much and it takes the pressure off by not chasing something that is unlikely to happen. Although this weekend may be different!!!
I get that sex can be great without it and it has been but it’s now getting to the point of exasperation lol xxx"
From my experience and goes for both men and women there’s normally a correlation between how hot someone is to how limited their ability or skills are….. to put into context I’m punching way above in the looks department when it comes to miss insatiables, but because I’m so awesome in the sack she just puts a bag over my head and imagines I’m Tom Ellis  |
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"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble??? "
That’s terrible, I like to pleasure a women until she orgasms, I’m not bothered if I cum. It’s nice if she wants to return the pleasure. What has been the problem with the meets? |
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I met a fantastic lady on here 2 weeks ago we went to a hotel but we spoke about what she liked not what I liked which meant I new what she was wanting and what she enjoys and she enjoys receiving oral and fisting which we did and to be honest I didn’t expect her to cum as much and as many times as she did, we had to keep moving around the bed each time she gushed to find a dry spot, bed was a soaking mess when we left so I suggest talking openly about what you want done to you and good luck |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I met a fantastic lady on here 2 weeks ago we went to a hotel but we spoke about what she liked not what I liked which meant I new what she was wanting and what she enjoys and she enjoys receiving oral and fisting which we did and to be honest I didn’t expect her to cum as much and as many times as she did, we had to keep moving around the bed each time she gushed to find a dry spot, bed was a soaking mess when we left so I suggest talking openly about what you want done to you and good luck "
Done all that x |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.
IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.
1. Physical atteaction
2. Mental connection.
If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.
OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.
(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).
But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!"
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"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.
IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.
1. Physical atteaction
2. Mental connection.
If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.
OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.
(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).
But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!"
So you’re telling a woman, what a woman needs?  |
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"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.
IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.
1. Physical atteaction
2. Mental connection.
If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.
OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.
(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).
But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!
So you’re telling a woman, what a woman needs? "
Dont get all worked up!
I was offering some friendly (and funny) advice.
I take it you don't know the meaning of IMO (In My Opinion) or just didn't read it. |
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"I'd say your either very unlucky or have an affinity towards selecting bad boys.
IMO there are 2 things a lady needs to have an orgasm.
1. Physical atteaction
2. Mental connection.
If the buildup is good, your already anticipating fun, then if the guy takes his time and is interested in giving pleasure. Its just about touching, teasing, whispering and before you know it you'll be seeing stars.
OP above also makes a good point. It is about knowing where those magical points are but thats why you should always be reading the body language.
(Free map of ladies erogenous zones available on request lol).
But many might be surprised to hear they arent all tits and groin!!
So you’re telling a woman, what a woman needs?
Dont get all worked up!
I was offering some friendly (and funny) advice.
I take it you don't know the meaning of IMO (In My Opinion) or just didn't read it."
The problem is too many men have Big Opinions about what should please a woman, often based on bad porn and exes who faked, and they just keep doing the same thing to every woman they meet assuming it’ll work. And many of those men get very butthurt if we try to tell them we’d prefer something done differently. A bit like you’ve just got butthurt with me. |
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Im not butthurt, I was just pointing out your inadequacies.
Funny how some people including the person who asked the question liked my post and others have nothing to offer so just complain.
But then there are those people who just complain about everything or fuck all.
Now I'm not going to hijack this thread anymore, I'd suggest you open your mind and re-read my post and you'd see where I was coming from. If not keep your opinions to yourself if they aren't positive. |
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"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x
Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women."
Virtually but not all men |
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"You need to find a guy that puts your needs first x
Thing is, virtually every man will say that, because most know that saying “I literally don’t give a shit about your pleasure, you’re just a fleshlight to me” isn’t going to get them laid! Not every man actually means it, or can back it up, or is able to adapt his technique to different women.
Virtually but not all men "
Where did I say all men? I said “virtually all” men will claim to put the woman first (not all because I’ve definitely had messages from men who expect everything and don’t want to give anything); I then said “not every” man really means it. |
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By *RWYNMan
over a year ago
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The thing is that everyone is different and what one woman likes maybe another woman doesn't, so it takes time to work things out to what people enjoy, but on the other hand you may just hit the right spots. Well thats my opinion. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Frantically scrolling to make sure none of my meets have said the same hahah!"
Lol I’m not being disrespectful the meets I’ve had some are on my veri some not I’ve enjoyed lol and I’m sure they’ve made others orgasm xx |
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Some of my early meets I didn't orgasm - I put it down to trust and comfort - along with a mental pressure to perform and go for ages - one lady was amazing - we were at it for literally hours with her cumming several times - but in the end we had to call it as she was getting sore - I loved every minute of the play and was close in so many occasions but couldn't unload at the point (the drive home was uncomfortable lol). Our second meet I think I was more relaxed and believe me it was messy lol - the mind plays a major part in what your body will achieve - if it isn't feeling right or there is any self pressure then it will trick you!! |
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"Some of my early meets I didn't orgasm - I put it down to trust and comfort - along with a mental pressure to perform and go for ages - one lady was amazing - we were at it for literally hours with her cumming several times - but in the end we had to call it as she was getting sore - I loved every minute of the play and was close in so many occasions but couldn't unload at the point (the drive home was uncomfortable lol). Our second meet I think I was more relaxed and believe me it was messy lol - the mind plays a major part in what your body will achieve - if it isn't feeling right or there is any self pressure then it will trick you!!"
I agree. The expectation to perform and deliver is in itself a killer. Let me be relaxed, and you (the other party) will be relaxed, and it will just happen. An orgasm is placed on some sort of holy altar. You can't force a miracle, but you can create the opportunity for it to happen naturally. And that applies to all people. |
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Important to remember that this original post was asking if others haven't had an orgasm from their meets from Fab.
Not about the what's, why's or how's......
To get it back on topic, I have a 50/50 ratio on myself getting there. And a higher (but not 100%) rate for my play partner getting there. Many many reasons why, but not important for this discussion . |
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I get so excited for a meet that I'm so horny, wet, excited and raring to go I always orgasm....and mostly a few times too.
But I must be quite lucky coz the guys I've met on here (when I had my single profile) were so much more experienced and never failed to satisfy me |
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"Thank you for all your comments it’s shown me I’m not alone and maybe just met the wrong folk
I am looking for regular meets maybe that’s why the ‘one off’ hasn’t worked xxxxx"
I've always maintained that sex gets better the more you get to know each other. The trouble with one offs is there can be high expectations which can lead to performance anxiety. |
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We would not stop until you were totally fulfilled. That's more important than our satisfaction. We think it's about the prep that you all put in to understand how to please each other. What you put in you get out. We would love to give you an orgasm xxx Gayle |
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One offs have no emotional or intellectual content. Your mind must orgasm before your body. Let your joint excitement mix in each others head. Get together for the whole night. Relax together. We have an indoor relaxation room. Indoor huge hot tub, big TV, music, pool table, bar etc. We get together and have a fun night. If it turns sexual it's because that connection has spontaneously happened. Its real and therefore extremely exciting and satisfying, if it doesn't then just have fun night out with fun people. Can't turn up for one off and turn real orgasmic sensations on just like that. Come and find out, you have nothing to lose xxxxx |
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over a year ago
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"One offs have no emotional or intellectual content. Your mind must orgasm before your body. Let your joint excitement mix in each others head. Get together for the whole night. Relax together. We have an indoor relaxation room. Indoor huge hot tub, big TV, music, pool table, bar etc. We get together and have a fun night. If it turns sexual it's because that connection has spontaneously happened. Its real and therefore extremely exciting and satisfying, if it doesn't then just have fun night out with fun people. Can't turn up for one off and turn real orgasmic sensations on just like that. Come and find out, you have nothing to lose xxxxx"
Thank you very much but I don’t drive xxxx |
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"Thank you for all your comments it’s shown me I’m not alone and maybe just met the wrong folk
I am looking for regular meets maybe that’s why the ‘one off’ hasn’t worked xxxxx
I've always maintained that sex gets better the more you get to know each other. The trouble with one offs is there can be high expectations which can lead to performance anxiety. "
Nowt wrong with my performance |
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"Thank you for all your comments it’s shown me I’m not alone and maybe just met the wrong folk
I am looking for regular meets maybe that’s why the ‘one off’ hasn’t worked xxxxx
I've always maintained that sex gets better the more you get to know each other. The trouble with one offs is there can be high expectations which can lead to performance anxiety.
Nowt wrong with my performance "
Lol I don't have a single doubt in my mind there is anything wrong with your performance |
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"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine."
100% we the same xx |
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"I’ve no problem myself lol or should I say pleasing myself xx"
I think some men have a problem with adapting to what works for a particular partner. It has to be all their own work or not at all. As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. Personally, it's all part of the shared experience, and I love doing whatever feels best for everyone. |
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"Back when I first joined, I had a few bad meets where the men either didn’t know what they were doing or couldn’t be bothered (or both), and they utterly failed to give me an orgasm. Which, as a few other people can testify, really isn’t that hard to do! But since then I’ve been a lot fussier and more careful about making sure we’re on the same page beforehand, and it’s been fine.
100% we the same xx"
I didn’t have a very good fuckboy radar in the beginning, I kind of learned the hard way! |
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"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble??? "
I’m very very sure that all meets I’ve had, have definitely had at least a couple of orgasms during the meet and have always wanted a return visit. |
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" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. . "
This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls  |
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" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .
This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls "
Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted  |
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" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .
This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls
Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted "
exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink |
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" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .
This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls
Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted
exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink "
Don't get me started on bananas |
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"Wondering if any men ‘come’ away from a meet without an orgasm xx"
yea I have done but my turn on is making the lady cum I just love the sounds how she looks and if I get to cum with it’s a bonus but not essential
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" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .
This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls
Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted
exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink
Don't get me started on bananas "
Seriously, don't get him started on bananas |
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" As for introducing toys, I'm sure some men view this as a miserable failure on their part. .
This came up during a conversation I was having with a lady just the other day. She was surprised when I told her I'd love to use her toys on her. She thought men wouldn't like it because they may feel inadequate. Fuck no, chuck me that 12 inch love stick and everything else you got in your toy box girls
Toys are great, stand in for when you're exhausted
exactamundo my friend. And if you use bananas you got a snack too. I once used a bottle of kopparberg, top off obviously. Was a lovely cool and refreshing drink
Don't get me started on bananas
Seriously, don't get him started on bananas"
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"I’ve never had an orgasm off any meets here anyone else have the same trouble??? "
An older gent, fuglyish, slightly overweight, will try much harder making sure you achieve orgasm orally with no hang ups using toys / fingers and their amazing double / triple tonguing skills (if you know, you know)
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It's about following how you partner reacts, letting them guide you as well...it about .pleasure and sharing...guys need to listen and see what makes their parts quiver
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