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Single males judged the same.
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"They seam to see single guys all as time wasters or all talk. Im as genuine as they come. When i arrange a date i stick to it."
The line about "superficial women" in your profile suggests a degree of bitterness that's going to get you nowhere. It's supply and demand, and men who whine about the situation find themselves even less in demand. |
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"They seam to see single guys all as time wasters or all talk. Im as genuine as they come. When i arrange a date i stick to it."
No they dont 
You come across as the sort of guy that likes to blame others for your own failings.
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"Why do you women and couples judge single men as the same?? "
I don't see why it bothers you, as its their choice if they want to engage with you or not.
Just be yourself and be patient, and you will find many amazing people here. |
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This sort of post does nothing for us single males.
Our numbers mean we have to suck it up, accept it for what it is, and, as has been mentioned above, be patient and grateful when you get some attention.
Whining gets you nowhere. |
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"They seam to see single guys all as time wasters or all talk. Im as genuine as they come. When i arrange a date i stick to it.
The line about "superficial women" in your profile suggests a degree of bitterness that's going to get you nowhere. It's supply and demand, and men who whine about the situation find themselves even less in demand. "
^^^ this  |
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"Why do you women and couples judge single men as the same??
But aren’t you judging all women and couples the same when you say this?"
Spot on. Some guys think because you join a swinging site that all the single and cpls ladies are gagging for a shag and sex will be on tap. They get bitter and disappointed when turned down amd in turn fuck it up for the genuine and tidy guys out there. We are not after single guys but one guy shone out on here to us as being ultra respectful and not expecting to shag my partner. Instead he was open to following what boundries we would set. If only other guys would act in a simular fashion. I was here many years ago as a single guy before i met jenny, i know first hand how hard it was to stand out. But not actiing like a dick and spoilt child when refused by some got me loads of nice cpls meets and single ladies also. Rule of thumb is be respectful and if amswer is no just move on. Also if you get a chance ffs guys stick to the boundries set or the word will spread on here that you acted like a complete tool and your meeting chances will move in to the non existant side. John. |
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"They seam to see single guys all as time wasters or all talk. Im as genuine as they come. When i arrange a date i stick to it."
Your profile is not a good look slating women for being superficial will do you no favours. Women are not a quick shag fix commodity for your use and then disguard them. Whining does no one any favours on these sites. People remember your posts and then will block or ignore you. Rethink how you view the ladies and they are not cum dumps for anyone. Respect them, show respect and you will reap what you sow. |
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" We are not after single guys but one guy shone out on here to us as being ultra respectful and not expecting to shag my partner. Instead he was open to following what boundries we would set. If only other guys would act in a simular fashion. "
Yep, I've had good chats with people who aren't looking for what I have to offer, because I'm happy to chat and leave it at that. It's a community. |
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" We are not after single guys but one guy shone out on here to us as being ultra respectful and not expecting to shag my partner. Instead he was open to following what boundries we would set. If only other guys would act in a simular fashion.
Yep, I've had good chats with people who aren't looking for what I have to offer, because I'm happy to chat and leave it at that. It's a community. "
Well done buddy. More like you on here fab needs. |
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" We are not after single guys but one guy shone out on here to us as being ultra respectful and not expecting to shag my partner. Instead he was open to following what boundries we would set. If only other guys would act in a simular fashion.
Yep, I've had good chats with people who aren't looking for what I have to offer, because I'm happy to chat and leave it at that. It's a community.
Well done buddy. More like you on here fab needs. "
My partner and I can confirm he's a jolly good chap! And you're spot on, we love the community and social side as much as the sex, possibly more! Guys who think about getting their dick wet as the primary objective do nothing for us. We like to make lasting friends, who we can also have a lot of naughty fun with!  |
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"Why do you women and couples judge single men as the same??
I don't. I would not be here if there were no single men. The most hassle I have had on fab is from females."
I'm loving the new shoes btw!  |
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"My partner and I can confirm he's a jolly good chap!
Ahhh, that's awfully kind. I miss seeing you two around. "
Fingers crossed the club will be open again soon! |
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"My partner and I can confirm he's a jolly good chap!
Ahhh, that's awfully kind. I miss seeing you two around.
Fingers crossed the club will be open again soon! "
Gotta speak as you find. |
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" We are not after single guys but one guy shone out on here to us as being ultra respectful and not expecting to shag my partner. Instead he was open to following what boundries we would set. If only other guys would act in a simular fashion.
Yep, I've had good chats with people who aren't looking for what I have to offer, because I'm happy to chat and leave it at that. It's a community.
Well done buddy. More like you on here fab needs.
My partner and I can confirm he's a jolly good chap! And you're spot on, we love the community and social side as much as the sex, possibly more! Guys who think about getting their dick wet as the primary objective do nothing for us. We like to make lasting friends, who we can also have a lot of naughty fun with! "
Very true. Its not all about sex. Making long lasting connections is also as important as a good shag  |
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"Why do you women and couples judge single men as the same??
But aren’t you judging all women and couples the same when you say this?"
Very good answer! All too often many of us are stereotyped, and categorised as being tarred with the same brush, when in fact as individuals we are all unique. |
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We give everyone a chance, we treat all men, women and couples equally, it’s when they don’t take no for an answer or they don’t show up when arranged that winds us up, that’s when the block button becomes useful. We have met many a single whether male or female and had a bloody good time, we primarily like to play with couples but if the message and chat is nice then we welcome fun times with all.
Thanks B & D xxx |
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