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"Are there many women that are subs, ive been watching on certain porn sites and omg wow what a turn on, ive never been a dom. But wouldnt mind trying "One certain lady has introduced me to this  she knows who she is | |||
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"There is plenty of Us about "Any for me  lol | |||
"Would recommend doing some research if you really wanted to get in to it. It’s more than 50 shades and porn hub! But with the right person it can be amazing "Ive starting to look into it. But defo will need to get to know someone first. But it defo looks amazing | |||
"There is plenty of Us about "There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”! | |||
"There is plenty of Us about
There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”!"Very definitely! I once had a meet with a guy who cried after spanking me... I was pretty new to things at the time. Needless to say we didn’t meet again! | |||
"There is plenty of Us about
There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”!"Oh right  | |||
"There is plenty of Us about
There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”!
Very definitely! I once had a meet with a guy who cried after spanking me... I was pretty new to things at the time. Needless to say we didn’t meet again! "Yeah defo got to get to know other person well first | |||
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"There is plenty of Us about
There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”!
Very definitely! I once had a meet with a guy who cried after spanking me... I was pretty new to things at the time. Needless to say we didn’t meet again! "Oh dear  Sounds like it wasn’t for him then  | |||
"There is plenty of Us about
There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”!
Oh right "I just don’t like being anyone’s test subject - hence why I also avoid “bi-curious” women - but especially when it’s something that might get me injured or worse. | |||
"There is plenty of Us about
There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”!
Oh right
I just don’t like being anyone’s test subject - hence why I also avoid “bi-curious” women - but especially when it’s something that might get me injured or worse."I know what you mean, ive been chatting to a lady about it, and she was telling me about not all women like the same, there's lots of different kind of subs and same goes with doms. | |||
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"There is plenty of Us about
There are indeed, but I think a lot of us are hiding from people who want to “give it a try”!" | |||
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"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx" Would rather be shown the ropes. Hehe  | |||
"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx Would rather be shown the ropes. Hehe "‘Sigh’ | |||
"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx Would rather be shown the ropes. Hehe
‘Sigh’"Can’t win them all. As much as I’d like a sub I have got to start somewhere. Can’t really blame me for trying.  | |||
"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx Would rather be shown the ropes. Hehe
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Can’t win them all. As much as I’d like a sub I have got to start somewhere. Can’t really blame me for trying. "We all have to start somewhere I wish you luck x | |||
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"Dom/sub is a practiced art, and there's a difference between bdsm and assault, and some idiots don't know the difference. " Indeed x | |||
"Dom/sub is a practiced art, and there's a difference between bdsm and assault, and some idiots don't know the difference. " This | |||
"Dom/sub is a practiced art, and there's a difference between bdsm and assault, and some idiots don't know the difference. " Absolutely...there is more than just whacking someone's arse... never forget the mental side, it's not all about pain | |||
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"Submission happens with the right person, and most women (and men) know within a few words whether or not the dynamic is there. I, along with quite a few women on this thread it seems, have had bad experiences, where the ‘Dom’ can talk the talk and thinking that’s it’s all about being rough, but when it comes down to things like aftercare, they just can’t handle it. I’d suggest lots and lots of research. Watching porn gives a completely unrealistic view on it. There so much more involved than a slap on the arse and a few harsh words. " Thats the trouble with the fake doms who just think treating the womam rough sexwise is being dominant. Just the way grip jennys hair makes her get soaking wet and when we can play she will not allow anyone else to do that as she loves that way i handle her. It about chemistry, a strong mental link ect more than just being rough. Some guys can never learn as they think dominating a lady is all about them being in control and doing as they please to the woman. | |||
"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx" Damn right there When you try sussing out a real submissive and you say are you a pain slut or do you enjoy humiliation etc you find out the real submissive | |||
"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx Damn right there When you try sussing out a real submissive and you say are you a pain slut or do you enjoy humiliation etc you find out the real submissive " So if I don’t like humiliation and am not a “pain slut” (not a great choice of words btw), I’m not a “real submissive”? | |||
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"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx Damn right there When you try sussing out a real submissive and you say are you a pain slut or do you enjoy humiliation etc you find out the real submissive " Ooh so I’m not a real submissive because I’m not a pain slut (absolute heinous and misogynistic choice of phrase) and I hate humiliation I’m not submissive. Hmmm. | |||
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"My advice educate yourself on the subject before undertaking anything. Of course there’s ‘role-play’ however there are folk that it is a lifestyle choice for x Oh and it’s not just a slap on the arse lol xxx Damn right there When you try sussing out a real submissive and you say are you a pain slut or do you enjoy humiliation etc you find out the real submissive " Sorry but you really have not got a clue about the D/s lifestyle. A Dom cares for his sub, and the phrase pain slut  wtf did you get that from . Reeducate yourself and stop watching porbhub as that is misleading as fuck. Aa for humiliation, thats a porn tbing and nothing to do with the D/s lifestyle at all. | |||
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"No identifier that a sub willingly chooses, including painslut, are disparaging terms if they are recognised by the couple, valued, and used lovingly and respectfully " The key part is the “willingly chooses” part. The poster I and a few others were replying to was using it as a broader descriptor, and certainly didn’t do so with love and respect. He could and should have said “masochist” instead. He also very heavily implied that if a sub isn’t into humiliation or extreme pain, they aren't a “real” sub, which is a large part of what we were objecting to. | |||
"Dom/sub is a practiced art, and there's a difference between bdsm and assault, and some idiots don't know the difference. " Thats the main difference the joking doms do not understand. Most think hurting and basically assaulting a woman is bdsm ffs. | |||
